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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.
Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Randall Buckley? This is our friend Paula's brother.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
If you have a moment, would you please send prayers to fellow contributor Ann H?
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
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|Linda Weir||Correction for John H Weir spouse|
I'm sorry but John H Weir's spouse is the following Clara Weir. In the 1900 census John is widowed and he is living with his mother Sarah age 71 and his daughter Ethel Weir age 12. Philadelphia ward 21.
Find A Grave Memorial# 79949835
Birth Date 1870
Birth Place Philadelphia, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania, USA
Death Date 6 Apr 1896
Death Place Roxborough, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania, USA
Cemetery Roxborough Presbyterian Burial Grounds
Burial or Cremation Place Roxborough, Philadelphia County, Pennsylvania, USA
Sharing what I find in case you have not come across it.
|Linda Weir||John Weir-our James Weir son|
I came across John Weir's ( b 19 Feb 1856 d 20 Dec 1925) death certificate and it has James and Sarah as parents. His daughter is Ethel A Weir b 16 May 1888 and his spouse was Clara M Weir b 1844 d 1916 here on Find A Grave.
I didn't know if you wanted John Weir's death certificate or if you had that info. I'll post it on maybe Clar M Weir's memorial if you would like.?
|Carl Catherman||RE: Greenhoe and Dreese|
I was glad to help. I just sent you links to Annie's parents. Unfortunately I was not able to find any record of Jacob and Anna (Kline) Greenhoe's burials.
|Cate||RE: thanks and a question|
The information I have re: Mary W Staley is from her PA Certificate of Death #73927. I don't usually post death certificates to memorials. If you want a copy, I'll send it to you, and you can post it.
You might be having trouble finding Mary's death certificate because she died in Plymouth Township in Montgomery County, not in Luzerne County. Apparently Ancestry.com automatically links Plymouth Township to Luzerne County, even though Montgomery County is clearly on the death certificate. I've seen this numerous times and have informed Ancestry about this error. Plymouth Township is about 2 miles from St. Peter's/Barren Hill Cemetery.
Added by Cate on Jun 14, 2015 5:46 PM
|Linda Weir||RE: NY Passenger list for James Weir & family|
I agree that this may not be our Weirs. Also, looking further I believe all the wives on this list look to be noted as Mrs. I'll search out the Philadelphia passenger lists. I'm also on ancestry.com, I did the DNA testing and I'm going to have my Brother contribute his DNA as well. I plan on contributing his DNA ("male" surname only) to the Weir DNA Project on worldfamilies.net in hopes to gather more info.
Have a great weekend. And thank you for all the Weir stories.
|Linda Weir||NY Passenger list for James Weir & family|
I posted a img on James Weir memorial which is the NY passenger list 1833 I found that has possibly our James family, mother and siblings are listed. Unfortunately no father. I can not make out the name of the mother.
Hi! I just added a pic to memorial # 96838168 along with the two other names on this stone. Are you related?
Added by MaG on Jun 08, 2015 6:55 PM
It's been a while, hope you are well, I haven't been on here for a while, I've only had the chance to check on my memorials over the past while and haven't had the chance to properly message people.
|Linda Weir||James Weir passenger/immigration|
It has been many yrs since my Weir research and forgot that I had this info within my research folder on my MAC. James birth at 1823 would put him age 10 on this ship.
New York, 1820-1850 Passenger and Immigration Lists Record about James Weir
Name: James Weir
Arrival Date: Jun 24, 1833
Port of Arrival: New York
Port of Departure: Greenock
Place of Origin: Scotland
Destination: United States of America
Ship: Brig Dalmarnock
Microfilm Serial Number: M237
Microfilm Roll Number: 20
List Number: 440
I can send you her 1920 death certificate if you don't already have it. :)
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