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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 13 years, 5 months, 16 days
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Bio Photo June,2015 Requests and Transfers Please see below in my bio:

Messaging is not the way to make request or changes to a memorial use the edit tab on the memorial please. As a link is sent and many changes can be be made with approval from edit tab.


Fed up with drama and hate on this site.

Everyone deserves respect.
Rude/demanding request will be reported and automatically rejected.

Sorry I have to sound so strict but the atmosphere on here now demands it.

On the other hand kindness and politeness will get pomp and priority attention.

If you need to contact me personally use my friend and mentors memorial.
Paul J. Lake

A great big thank you to the many hard working contributors & photographers we all owe you a great deal you are very much appreciated by me.



Quote from Jim Tipton Founder after Ancestry acquisition."It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it other websites as if it were their own".

Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission be for using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos. If I find them on another web site I will take action. None of my family portrait photo's are available for use at all.

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging they will simply be deleted. It is your responsibility to read transfer guide lines and to use the edit tab on memorial and state relationship if not stated request will not be considered.This is not a refusal it is your failure to follow Find A Grave guide lines.

Please include your member number. Also the public messages below are not intended to request suggestions or changes to a memorial because no link is generated to memorial when the edit tab on the memorial is used a link is sent so I know who you are talking about. Many new features are there also to actually add links and changes to a memorial with contributor approval.

It is not necessary to manage a memorial to add to it I am willing to add any information that is allowed & correct.

As many of my friends and I have noticed lately attacking and toxicity is now alarmingly on the increase dealing with this is not only stressful but time consuming and emotional & physically draining causing the following to be necessary.

If your message or email is rude,accusatory, bulling or harassing in any way it will be sent to find a grave. If it continues other steps will be taken.People attacking someone and hate mailing making false claims is unacceptable.

My advice is just troll along down the line,because one way or the other its going to stop life is to short to be harassed.

I've worked hard on this project for many long years as has many others members, I'm proud of my efforts ,any one says I'm in for the numbers is just sick or jealous or simply has a mean spirit.

Mistakes happen Find A Grave is a work in progress if you do not understand that you are WAY out of line.

Demeaning someone has no place anywhere.This does not mean you can not correct me, I make many mistakes and as long as your nice about it we will work together to fix them and move on.

As in the past most of you kind folks have done an exultant job.

Reporting A Duplicate. include the numbers of both and send it via edit on dup. memorial.If I duplicate a memorial, please know that it is unintentional as I check before posting.

The memorial pages I create are done so with the utmost respect as I try to always leave flowers and establish links.

I am now saving sir name searches before & after adding a memorial to a cemetery as proof it was the first entry, because many are using the non cemetery method and moving them in cemetery later.

Please use the edit tab and be very plain about your suggestion. I can not take an hour to figure out who and what you are talking about.

Marker transcription-- ONLY Marker transcription INFORMATION GOES HERE no other.


Confusing and non understandable request, I receive theses ever day please make them clear and don't assume I know who or what you are referring to.

No link no reply,I simply do not have the time.
Many edits I'm receiving are not correct, do the research do not assume. Due to this I'm going to start rejecting edits that are not sourced or do not match my information. I sorry but I'm tired of the misinformation I'm receiving.


Please do not use statements made here as ammunition to harass or bully as is the case anymore with some.
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Shirley Goingღ
Flowers Left for My Loved Ones

Thank you for visiting my loved ones. It certainly means a lot to me. I also understand your obit message and I'm so very sorry for how this wonderful site is becoming so hateful and crude. Thank you for what you've done and I hope that you continue to do now and in the future. I for one appreciate you very much.
Added by Shirley Goingღ on Jun 29, 2015 6:13 PM
Jerry Coffman
Switzer's family
Jarrott, I see you have some Switzer's and so do I or I should say my wife does. I am lookinf dor info/pictures of the Sanuel Switzer family who was born abt 1773 and died abt 1850 in Henry County, Missouri.
Do you know if he might be part of your Switzer family and if so do you have any info/pictures you would share?
Thanks
Jerry Coffman
grouchy58@yahoo.com
Added by Jerry Coffman on Jun 27, 2015 10:57 AM
Whispers
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 102060410
No problem at all, have a great day!
Added by Whispers on Jun 26, 2015 9:31 AM
Vernon Gibbons
Attention
POST ONLY AFTER DEATH!!!
When a person dies, I check to see if they have been posted, (not months & years while they are still living.)if NOT I post them. Posting while they are STILL LIVING is WRONG!!! - -DON'T ASK me to DELETE MINE if the DUPLICATE was posted while they were STILL LIVING.
Added by Vernon Gibbons on Jun 25, 2015 6:50 AM
bob toelle
Pleasanton Cemetery - Albert Kohl
Thanks for the info! Yes - Carl Albert would have been the son of Albert and Maggie Kohl. Doesn't look like the bank is going to return my phone call, unfortunately.
Bob
Added by bob toelle on Jun 23, 2015 5:19 PM
Richard Parker
RE: Would you mind adding Thomas and Sarah's marriage record to her memorial.
Jarrott,

Sorry about this. My mind must of have been in Never, Never Land. Here's the marriage record.

MISSOURI MARRIAGE RECORDS 1805-2002

Name: Thomas W. Gray
Marriage Date: September 15, 1919
Marriage City Or Town: Sedalia
Marriage County: Pettis
Marriage State: Missouri
Spouse's Name: Sarah E. Neff

Thanks for patience and time,


Richard
Added by Richard Parker on Jun 19, 2015 10:05 AM
Richard Parker
Sarah Gray - Newton Burial Park
Jarrott,

Sent you a white edit correction for Sarah Gray in Newton Burial Park in Vernon County. I misspelled her maiden name. Should be Neff.

Sorry about that.


Richard
Added by Richard Parker on Jun 17, 2015 2:05 PM
J&D Peterson
RE: Dorothy Feagins Memorial
Yes, that's what needs to happen to make both these memorials correct. Thank you for your response.
Added by J&D Peterson on Jun 16, 2015 3:58 PM
J&D Peterson
Dorothy Feagins Memorial
Hi Jarrott,
Regarding
http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=Feagins&GSiman=1&GScid=161162&GRid=67620019&

I did read your instructions, but you did not create this memorial only added a picture that I need help with so I can't use the edit tab.

In an effort to eliminate duplicate memorials from this cemetery, I asked to have the two memorials for Dorothy Feagins merged, only to discover that instead of sending two links to memorials for Dorothy, I inadvertently got the link for Bernice Louise Killon Pruitt.

http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GSln=Pruitt&GSiman=1&GScid=161162&GRid=95758133&

Consequently, your picture of Bernice Pruitt is now on the memorial for Dorothy Feagins. I tried to get help from Find A Grave, but the error remains. Would you please move your picture of Bernice Pruitt to her memorial. There is also a tombstone photo that is on the wrong memorial, and I will attempt to get that corrected as well.

I sincerely apologize for this error and would appreciate your help to correct it.
Added by J&D Peterson on Jun 15, 2015 10:01 PM
Becky Eggers Jones
Gratefulness
I am extremely thankful for all that you do and have done on this website. it is rare nowdays to find a free site to help you document your family history. I am more then happy to be that one volunteer by photographing headstones myself. it is well known that the things you give out will come back to you in spades.
Added by Becky Eggers Jones on Jun 13, 2015 12:33 PM
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