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Evab41 (#47075010)
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I am from the Northern Neck of Virginia, and most of my relatives are here. I especially like to honor our soldiers of the past and present, and having memorials for them is one way we can be sure they will not be forgotten. I would like to see every grave yard listed, with the folks buried there, and kept for future generations, whether at a church or home, or elsewhere. A big THANK YOU .. to all the folks out there who have helped me. Also I have listed memorials and photos for Gibeon Baptist Church Cemetery, Northumberland County, Va. Rappahannock Baptist Church and Totuskey Baptist Church Cemetery, in Richmond County, Va., and some at Carmel United Methodist Church, Kinsale, Westmoreland County, Va. ** Note: Gibeon Baptist Church is located in Northumberland County, Va., Totuskey Baptist Church is located near Haynesville, in Richmond County, Va.
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Transfer completed.
Added by omigosh on May 21, 2016 9:47 AM
RE: Photos
Thanks Eva!
Added by omigosh on May 05, 2016 2:49 PM
Hi Eva - It has recently been brought to my attention that the quality of my photos may be unacceptable, and or that some contributors may not welcome my adding them to their memorials. As I have added Richmond County, VA grave photos to quite a few of your memorials I just wanted to tell you to feel free to delete any unwanted photos that I have added to your memorials and or ask me to stop adding photos to your memorials. I won't be offended. Should you want me to delete them, just let me know.
Thanks, Kris Goszka
Added by omigosh on May 03, 2016 5:25 PM
RE: Coats/Coates
Thanks Eva: I have done a lot of research on Henry R and Thomas B Coates and have come to the conclusion that Thomas B Coates and Frances R Scrimger are my g-g-g grandparents. A lot of people on Ancestry website have chosen Henry R as their direct ancestor but they only have the census record that says Henry R has a RA Coates as a son.

Both Henry and Thomas I believe are brothers.
Both have a son named RA in the censuses.
Henry's son belonged to the VA 13th and was killed at Manasses. He no longer shows up in the census records. I have the VA 13th book.
Thomas's son RA belonged to the VA 30th out of Fredericksburg.
Thomas's son James also belonged to the VA 30th.
Thomas and Frances R show up in records in Spottslvania and Fredericksburg
I believe that the website Fold 3 has RA Coates listed as belonging to the 13th and the 30th. How does one belong to 2 units at the same time?
My g-g grandfather RA (Robert Augustus Coates) civil war pension papers state he belonged to the VA 30th and lists Fernando C Coates as his son. On this paperwork he wrote his name as Robert Augustus Coates.
Robert's wife Frances Ann Balderson shows up in the Spottslvania/Fredericksburg census records under her parents William Octavias Balderson and his wife Julia Sanders - second wife.
Robert named his first son Thomas.
My father told me that his grandfather Fernando would say they weren't related to the Coates's in Richmond County.
Most important is that I have DNA matches on the Scrimger name and no DNA hits on Henry Coates' wife's maiden name.
Added by NJCFM on May 02, 2016 7:43 AM
RE: Fernando Cortez Coates
Thanks Eva: My g grandfather's name is Fernando Cortez Coates (not Ferdinand). His parents are Robert Augustus Coates and Frances Ann Balderson. I don't know where the name Roseen came from. On his Civil War pension papers, he signed his name Robert Augustus Coates. My father said people referred to him as Gus. Sometimes you see him listed just as RA Coates. There are two RA Coates's, one's father is listed as Henry R Coates. My Robert and France's Balderson Coates are from Fredericksburg and migrated to Richmond County after C War. I believe his parents Thomas B Coates and Frances R Scrimger.
Added by NJCFM on Apr 24, 2016 7:41 AM
Fernando Cortez Coates
Eva: Fernando has two sisters: (1) Virginia and (2) Wynetta Gennette
aka: Neda

Neda is married to Cornelius France. I believe Find A Grave says the "G" stands for Gutridge, but that is wrong.

Never knew what happened to Virginia, but I saw on Ancestry she migrated to Washington, DC and I know she has a great granddaughter that lives in Florida.

This is what you posted:

Virginia Anita Coates (1877) married Cornelius Lafayette France
Added by NJCFM on Apr 23, 2016 8:36 AM
RE: Fernando Cortez Coates and Mary Ellen Coates

What if a member will not transfer my relative to me?
If the memorial in question is a direct relative within four generations (siblings, parents, grandparents, and great-grandparents) to you and the original submitter is not direct family, then they must transfer the memorial. If they refuse to transfer your relative to you, contact and we will work on it for you.
Added by NJCFM on Apr 19, 2016 4:08 PM
RE: Fernando Cortez Coates and Mary Ellen Coates
Eva: who is this other person? There are many errors of names that I would like to correct....Nancy
Added by NJCFM on Apr 19, 2016 3:54 PM
Beulah Baptist Church
I was leaving a message for Tom B, and saw your message about Beulah Baptist Church. Just an FYI, I live in Richmond County, and am aware of that church and cemetery. I checked the Richmond County GIS map, and there is a small sliver of land owned by the church in Richmond County, but the actual church and graves are in Westmoreland. It's a close thing though.
Added by omigosh on Apr 18, 2016 5:58 PM
Fernando Cortez Coates and Mary Ellen Coates
Hi Eva: I would like to have ownership of my great grandparents Find A Grave sites...How do I do that?

Thanks...Nancy Coates Meacham
Added by NJCFM on Apr 18, 2016 5:03 PM
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