|Donna White (#48144068)|
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Will do updates and transfers of non-relatives. Or to a closer relative.|
A certain contributor on here refuses to do updates or links or transfers (probably for everyone). He "owns" my great grandfather White,my gg grandfather Lavely, my aunt , my uncle, two of my great aunts and great uncles, my gg grandfather and gg grandmother Lavely, my ggg grandmother Lavely and many Lavely (ggg aunts and uncles, etc)distant relatives.
I want to update them and link them into trees. For some unknown reason he is mean and nasty and hateful and refuses to do any updates or links or transfers (even within guidelines).
I have contacted findagrave and no one replies, so I guess they don't care. The rules regarding keeping other people's relatives and not doing updates or links or transfer...are only meant for a certain few, I guess...
I don't think it is right for people to be able to OWN other people's relatives on here and refuse to do updates, links and transfers and get away with it. I am very sad that I cannot link on many relatives onto my grave tree because of this man. He has disabled his messages so no one can post what he is doing. This isn't right either. This is the only page where I can say what is very upsetting to me. I have left his nasty messages on here, to show what type of person he is.
If any merges are done by findagrave with duplicates to do links and updates that get around him, he unlinks all of the links and deletes the updates that were made after he gets the merged tree in his possession.
Please, if you have problems with this man, report his behavior to email@example.com and firstname.lastname@example.org. I don't know if it will help or not. It didn't help me.
Read his latest rant/threat on his homepage if he has collected your ancestors too and done similar actions towards you..
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|Rachel's mom||Thanks, Donna|
Something did happen with my email. My husband received that same email from "me" but I didn't send it. I will report it to yahoo. Funny thought, my email looks ok. Thanks for the heads up. I work for the Ohio Dept of Taxation. Since they were on it I will let them know too. Thanks again.
|Donald Owens||RE: Re: Clara Writesel and Rose Marie and Basil Calabrese|
You're welcome. Some green grass would have made for better pictures. Remind me in six or eight weeks and I will upgrade those photos.
I can not thank you enough for getting this picture for me of James.
Added by Patty on Feb 23, 2014 4:22 PM
|Scott Hawley||RE: re: Velma Amicon|
You are welcome. Glad I could help.
|GerbLady||RE: re: thanks for linking|
Added by GerbLady on Feb 19, 2014 12:28 AM
I have added the link to her husband you suggested. Thank you.
Added by Johnny on Feb 18, 2014 3:17 PM
If you send me any more abusive, threating or any type of communication at all, I'll report you to the Franklin County Ohio Sheriff's Department for "menacing by stalking". I've told you numerous times to cease all communications, but, for some reason, you continue to harrass me.
Added by Dave on Feb 14, 2014 8:19 PM
|Kenneth Gilbert||RE: Re: Hankamers|
They had a BIG backlog until recently. I would try again on the transfer. If you need help, try the bulletin boards (you need a separate registration). BTW, I did get the addtional updates and have made them--they come directly to my member page so I did not see them until this morning. One thing: The member in question is not required to make links--again, as this is a burial registration not a family tree site. We are not to create duplicates to get around a member doing that. It is also inapporpriate to creat an unknown (location) burial simply to make links. Members are required to transfer within guidelines, *unless* they hold a similar relationship (for example my sister couldn't request our mom's memorial (not that she would) that I created). Keep your message to the "edit" e-mail (not the edit button) short and to the point. You may include the e-mail that the other member sent. You should include a link to the memorial and a link to your member page. Keep the title simple, like "In Guidelines Transfer Request". A wordy title or messgage might get caught by the spam filters and never read. Remember, we are required to give the other member 30 days before going to Edit.
|Kenneth Gilbert||RE: Re: Hankamers|
It goes to both, if you are using the edit/send a correction button. Try the "edit" e-mail address (see the FAQ, we're not supposed to post that address in a public setting) to get a transfer of your great grandparent (if it's been 30 days since the request). That's assuming that the other member isn't realated too. However, linking is optional on the part of the memorial manager. This is primarily a site for burial registration. It is not a family tree site. I currently have one where the wrong wife is linked and I cannot fix it--there were two guys with the same name and birth year but differnt death dates. Oh, well. Also, we are not to mention other members in a negative way on this site or the help boards. I have a Mayflower connection thru my Nova Scotia Wheelock ancestors (both Miles Standish and John Alden--as their children married).
|Rachel's mom||Olga Emma Schlosser Billman|
Added the obit.
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