I am one of the few, I suppose, that will transfer to family or friends (within reason). You don't have to be related to someone to request a transfer from me. Not in it for the numbers, I just like people to be able to find their friends or ancestors.
1-14-2014 - Just noticed this: www.findagrave.com (Find A Grave) has started something new. Go to your Contributor Home Page and you will see an Edit Tab on the right hand side at the top. You will now need to approve or decline those edits submitted by users