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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 12 years, 7 months, 10 days
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Bio Photo 8/4/2014
Entering my busy period ,expect delays .

Will be very busy August - September any corrections sent other then the new method ,I suggest you do so in October .Other wise they will likely get lost in my mail box as it is full now .Thanks.

If you need to contact me privately please use me dear friends Memorial Find A Grave Memorial# 71410062

My photographic works and photos I have posted are protected by in bedded copyright. You Must ask permission before reproducing in any form .

Quote From Jim Tipton founder of F.A.G. on updated rules after being acquired by Ancestry . com found in help with find a grave .

"It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it on other websites as if it were their own".
Please do not ask me to post a obituary that does not have a source ,it is not allowed ,and could lead to a breach of public domain .

If requesting a transfer first read that section in help with find a grave and in My bio. Other wise it will not be considered . Do not leave request on this page ,must be done the proper way to be considered .

Please do not request transfers in less You fully intend to add links and or further improve the information . If you are just collecting memorials use your virtual cemetery function . No request will be considered with out relationship being stated . I have ancestry and will check so be truthful .

Transfers should be requested by using the edit feature on memorial and leaving as a suggestion or (sac) please do not leave request on My public messaging they will not be considered . Your relationship must be stated also. No exceptions .

Despite what many claim .
Find a grave is first and foremost a grave registration site ,as stated by its founder .

omg best thing that has ever happened to F.A.G. the new edit function and some contributors are bad mouthing it . You got think ungrateful .

I happily add links and other appropriate information if sent by the edit function on memorial.

Corrections /request should not be left as public message as there are plenty of other means now to do them . Public message's WERE NEVER MENT FOR CORRECTIONS ,SO I will not make corrections this way anymore as it is just to difficult .

If your reporting a duplicate please add the duplicates F.A.G. number .
Please remember that F.A.G. has threads running that will eventfully merge dups. into the first created . Don't go postal over a dup.

When I first started contributing TO F.A.G. you could just inter a memorial ,and that's about it , this gave us time to learn the ropes as features were added, we had time to learn them ,now it seems new ones just jump in there with out reading the guide lines and how to do things right , this rapidly makes them look foolish , and causes problems galore. Please new ones read help with F.A.G. before you use this site and add to it .

Find a Grave seems to bring out the worst or the best in folks there seems to be no middle ground . For that reason it seems we all need to make a special effort to show as much respect for the living as we do for the one's who have passed on .

If it is your intent to be anything but cordial and respectful, I strongly recommend you read further in this bio. before doing so .

If you feel you need to contact me on a personal or sanative matter please do so thru my good friends memorial
Find A Grave Memorial# 71410062 using the edit function .

I hope F.A.G.soon works on punishing those who are stealing our work and photos as promised ,we work hard ,it is not fair that others get credit for our efforts. I have seen hundred if not thousands of my photos on ancestry .com and I am thinking of taking legal action .

I never profit from My photos even though I spend a great deal of time and money taking photos . And I really do not wont any person or web site to profit from them. And I do not wont My ancestors photos stolen and posted by others as though they belong to them . If I see My photo's on another Web site and My list shows no permission was obtained. I will ask them to be removed and if they are not ,I will contact the web site to have them removed .

New editing function has rolled out to all members.

I'm getting a lot of good feed back on My stance of not putting up with harassment, a lot of contributors are also fed up .Some are saying they are thinking of giving up , I think things will get better now that Ancestry. COM has acquired this site .

In till the last couple of Years ago the following statement was not necessary but unfortunately it is now.

To a select but growing few } Please be aware as a contributor on find a grave does not mean You have given up free will, no contributor is obligated to do anything . If You are making a suggestion do not turn it into a demand or try to manipulate or bully a contributor into making Your suggestion . I can't speak for others but as for Me any attempt at demanding or manipulation automatically rejects Your suggestion and further Hate mail internet bullying ,stalking , intimidation are crimes and will be reported and prosecuted if necessary . Further more after becoming aware of theses crimes the web site is obligated to take action against perpetrators of these crimes or it is also at risk of prosecution .

A person goes out and spends money on a camera flash cards ,batteries . Gasoline ,wear an tear on there vehicle not mention time, fights off snakes , mosquitoes ,ticks ,high grass and weeds , walks in the heat and cold ,mud and people cant even send them a thank You ! ,something is seriously wrong with that ,but that's what happening ,out of my last 50 or so photo request I fulfilled I got about 3 thank You notes ,and about 8 or 10 for the last 50 transfers ,and the fact that F.A.G. sends out a reminder email to suggest You say thank You , makes it even hurt more . Come on folks that is all we ask in return for transfers and photo request . I think this says a lot about what is wrong with society to day .

We all live in the shade of trees planted by those who came before us .

I am a taphophile and Genealogy Hound .

I am a taphophile because I like photographing gravestones.

I have been into cemetery Photography & Rubbings Collecting obituaries for 40 years .My experience in and love of investigation work has helped Me a great deal in My genealogical pursuits .

Per F.A.G. guide lines do not send any one contributor more than 20 suggestions , corrections or requests a week .

Rude or demanding behavior will result in Your request being rejected Automatically . Expect 30 days for Your request to be considered .

Any disrespectful activities or communications will not be tolerated and will be addressed as the situation dictates .
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Wendee Seaton
RE: Photo usage
No, I'm only updating the Englewood Cemetery website and beginning to add/update the findagrave listings that are missing information that I have. I hope I am not bombarding you with edits on your memorials. I'm going through my 14,000 burials and cross referencing with information with findagrave. This will be a long project. Please let me know if you want me to submit these differently. I appreciate the work you've put into these memorials and thank you for the photo permission.
Added by Wendee Seaton on Aug 26, 2014 7:40 AM
Vaughan Mavir
RE: correction
Yes I am aware Find A Grave is now owned by Ancestry but Find A Grave is run separate at the present time and there is no objections re genealogy sites that gather info as far as the library is concerned. I am assuming your original message refers to a photo connected with an obit I put on in which case I already have credited the entry to the Pueblo Chieftain.
Hope this helps
Added by Vaughan Mavir on Aug 24, 2014 11:03 AM
Cameron Herrell
Eva May McFadden Alkire
No, the spelling change is on son's memorial, bio section, memorial 97009730 - Fred Louis Alkire.
Added by Cameron Herrell on Aug 24, 2014 7:33 AM
Wendee Seaton
Photo usage
I am working on updating the database for the Englewood Cemetery in Clinton, MO. I have created GIS maps for the cemetery, blocks and lots. I have also created a website at to display the maps and for burial searches. I am working on adding additional information to the database such as parents, military, spouse and children. I would love to add photos to the details page of the burials. Would it be possible to send me your permission to use your photos on our site? I would be happy to send you a copy of my database for this cemetery with 13,947 burials. Thank you for all of your work in documenting all of the burials.
Added by Wendee Seaton on Aug 22, 2014 9:14 AM
Chris L
Edits please
Hope you are doing well through this hot summer!
I have been posting a lot of obits for our local cemetery. If you have time can you please see if there are any edits pending from me? I would sure appreciate it. I've been visiting our county libraries and finding some great historical info.
Thanks a ton for all you do !
Added by Chris L on Aug 21, 2014 8:37 AM
Betty Lynn
Your Mineral Creek Entry
Would you like to check the entry for Vivian Grace Ensley who was born 1/23/1927 in CA. the daughter of Ernest Frederick and Grace Frances Daughery Ensley, Graduated from Holden HS, died 8/11/2012 in Lee's Summit. Could your Virginia be the same as Vivian and do you want to delete Virginia? THANX! Betty Lynn
Added by Betty Lynn on Aug 17, 2014 9:36 PM
chapman clanner
Are you kin to the Blatch Cox family like me? Thanks for posting this memorial for my GGGGrandpa. Could you take a picture of his grave please? Thank you. Are their other Blatch Cox graves near his?
Added by chapman clanner on Aug 12, 2014 8:40 PM
Cameron Herrell
RE: ind A Grave Memorial# 51893161
He was my brother-in-law for 34 years. His son, Shawn and wife, Rebecca, live in their house.
Added by Cameron Herrell on Aug 10, 2014 7:23 PM
Cameron Herrell
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 104469225
Added by Cameron Herrell on Aug 08, 2014 7:54 PM
Jennifer Williams
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 87302509
Okay, thank you for trying. Let me know what you find out. Also, may I have permission to use your Find A Grave photos of my family's headstones on my personal family tree? I would, of course, give you credit.
Thank you,
Added by Jennifer Williams on Aug 08, 2014 5:36 PM
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