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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 13 years, 8 months, 27 days
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Bio Photo September,2015

All sir name and first name edits sent by edit will be rejected sorry but you need to send them by suggestions not edit and explain why to many are being changed incorrectly.

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging, they will simply be deleted. Its your responsibility to do it threw the memorial.

Do not be deceived. God will not be made a fool. For a person will reap what he sows. Gla.6:7

It is poor genealogical practice to allow others to use your information and photos with out credit why because they lose there source ,future researchers are robbed of that valuable resource and connection.

Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission be for using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos. If I find them on another web site I will take action. None of my family portrait photo's are available for use at all.

Please be aware I take screen shots of search when creating a memorial(as proof they were there first) as many are moving them into cemetery after creating them in friends and family and claiming mine are duplicates.

I'm getting a great amount of conflicting edits every week major changes require a source.( other than I will reject conflicting edits. Head stone markers take priority. I'm getting nasty emails for adding incorrect info. but actually its the edits changing info.

This new edit system like many other things has got out of control at first it was only with contributors permission then they started automatic approval after so many days it is impossible to keep up and it is to time consuming, my memorial are getting to be a mess ,everyone else I know is complaining to.

Requests and Transfers Please see below in my bio:

I have been a genealogist for 49 years and feel we owe it to those who have passed to preserve there memory and tell there story. For most of my entry's here Iv walked the cemeteries rolls and have more photos then I will ever be able to add. I have a collection of 100,000 + obituaries in eastern Ks. and western Mo contained in binders and now put them on flash drives of witch number about 10000 + . Many have wondered were my source is so there you are. I am the author of several books on my family and I and my cousin are the keepers of the family archive directors of the family reunion and am passing it down to my daughter. Iv been to cemeteries in at least 35 states tracking down my ancestors.

Messaging is not the way to make request or changes to a memorial use the edit tab on the memorial please. As a link is sent and many changes can be be made with approval from edit tab.

No good deed goes unpunished. So true these days.

Fed up with the drama and hate on this site.

Everyone deserves respect.
Rude/demanding request will be reported and automatically rejected.

Sorry I have to sound so strict but the atmosphere on here now demands it.

On the other hand kindness and politeness will get pomp and priority attention.

If you need to contact me personally use my friend and mentors memorial.
Paul J. Lake

A great big thank you to the many hard working contributors & photographers we all owe you a great deal you are very much appreciated by me.

Quote from Jim Tipton Founder after Ancestry acquisition."It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it other websites as if it were their own".

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging they will simply be deleted. It is your responsibility to read transfer guide lines and to use the edit tab on memorial and state relationship if not stated request will not be considered.This is not a refusal it is your failure to follow Find A Grave guide lines.

Please include your member number. Also the public messages below are not intended to request suggestions or changes to a memorial because no link is generated to memorial when the edit tab on the memorial is used a link is sent so I know who you are talking about. Many new features are there also to actually add links and changes to a memorial with contributor approval.

It is not necessary to manage a memorial to add to it I am willing to add any information that is allowed & correct. The ultimate goal should be to have meaningful, accurate memorials that honor those who have passed away, regardless of who created the memorial or who maintains it. Virtual cemetery was created so family inveigles can be placed in them.

As many of my friends and I have noticed lately attacking and toxicity is now alarmingly on the increase dealing with this is not only stressful but time consuming and emotional & physically draining causing the following to be necessary.

If your message or email is rude,accusatory, bulling or harassing in any way it will be sent to find a grave. If it continues other steps will be taken.People attacking someone and hate mailing making false claims is unacceptable.

My advice is just troll along down the line,because one way or the other its going to stop life is to short to be harassed.

I've worked hard on this project for many long years as has many others members, I'm proud of my efforts ,any one says I'm in for the numbers is just sick or jealous or simply has a mean spirit.

Mistakes happen Find A Grave is a work in progress if you do not understand that you are WAY out of line.

Demeaning someone has no place anywhere.This does not mean you can not correct me, I make many mistakes and as long as your nice about it we will work together to fix them and move on.

As in the past most of you kind folks have done an exultant job.

Reporting A Duplicate. include the numbers of both and send it via edit on dup. memorial.If I duplicate a memorial, please know that it is unintentional as I check before posting.

The memorial pages I create are done so with the utmost respect as I try to always leave flowers and establish links.

I am now saving sir name searches before & after adding a memorial to a cemetery as proof it was the first entry, because many are using the non cemetery method and moving them in cemetery later.

Please use the edit tab and be very plain about your suggestion. I can not take an hour to figure out who and what you are talking about.

Marker transcription-- ONLY Marker transcription INFORMATION GOES HERE no other.

Confusing and non understandable request, I receive theses ever day please make them clear and don't assume I know who or what you are referring to.

No link no reply,I simply do not have the time.
Many edits I'm receiving are not correct, do the research do not assume. Due to this I'm going to start rejecting edits that are not sourced or do not match my information. I sorry but I'm tired of the misinformation I'm receiving.

Please do not use statements made here as ammunition to harass or bully as is the case anymore with some.
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Thomas Glenn Waters Family Photo
Just in case you are interested, I have uploaded a photo of the family here:
Added by mel on Oct 13, 2015 10:54 AM
David Forcade
RE: Re: George W. Waymire
Has it been a few days? (wink, wink)
Added by David Forcade on Oct 13, 2015 3:46 AM
G P Curtis
Wattles Memeorial;s
Added by G P Curtis on Oct 08, 2015 3:03 PM
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Wattles Memeorial;s
Added by G P Curtis on Oct 08, 2015 3:03 PM
Jill Cheline
RE: Bayless
I'm sorry. No I haven't communicated with you before. I was searching for information on Bayles/Bayless and your page came up. Actually, Cox is another surname in my research. I though you might have some insight on the Bayles families. It seems there are a bunch in the Missouri area.

Thank you,
Added by Jill Cheline on Oct 07, 2015 6:26 PM
Jill Cheline
Bayless Adoption
My 90 year old mother, Virginia Lee Bayles, was born 11/22/24, and adopted from a Catholic Missouri orphanage in 1926. I did a DNA test on her and am getting common surnames but not making a connection for the 1-3 generations where I can really pinpoint her family. Missouri adoption records are still closed and I believe the orphanage burned down.

One path that is suggested in her DNA with

John Wesley Brewer
Elizabeth Ann Collins
William Holloway

Common surnames:

Any ideas or suggestions? I've spent countless hours and I feel like I'm getting closer but without a "story" that tells of a daughter given up, how can I find her parents?

Added by Jill Cheline on Oct 07, 2015 10:40 AM
Rubyann Darnell
RE: Elizabeth Colbow Memorial# 143219433
Certificate said Elizabeth Colbow Chaney daughter of James Chaney. After I sent the message I wondered if this might be a different Elizabeth Colbow thus needed further research. My further researching Missouri Death Certificates has not produced another Elizabeth dying 1910 in Henry County, Missouri. So it's your decision whether to add or not. Thanks.
Added by Rubyann Darnell on Oct 05, 2015 11:40 AM
Rubyann Darnell
Elizabeth Colbow Memorial# 143219433
I submitted an edit for Elizabeth Colbow but didn't see where I could leave my source so thought I would leave it in a message. Hope this is the correct way to do this. My source was Missouri Death Certificate, informant was Carrie Wilkerson of Windsor, MO. Not sure all the other info given is correct but the death date came from a doctor, so I feel fairly certain that is correct. If you need anything further please contact me. Thanks for all you do on Find A Grave.
Added by Rubyann Darnell on Oct 04, 2015 8:42 PM
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Augustus Burton FAG
Thank you very much for filling my request for Augustus Burton's Find A Grave photo! You are much appreciated!
Added by deanna french on Oct 04, 2015 7:39 PM
Robin Irvine
RE: Lesley Demott
Wow...small world. Walter Charles Waller is my great grandfather and he married Sadie Bruce so I am related to many families in the Kansas/Missouri area.
Added by Robin Irvine on Oct 04, 2015 9:32 AM
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