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forever an angel (#47760824)
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Hi, I have been interested in cemetaries since i was a little girl. As I got older my sisters and I use to ride around and visit differant cemetaries. I grew up on Long Island in New York state. I have three sisters, four children and four grandchildren. I have many hobbies and I have been working on my family tree for over a decade. Thanks to facebook I have been in contact with many relatives that I didn't even know existed.

I am a die hard New York Mets fan and have been collecting
Mets memorabilia for many year. I also collect elephants in any shape or form.lo

I have custody of my grandson Xavier and granddaughter Hailey so they keep me on my toes.
[Author: Della M. Cumming ca 1943.]

My feelings are in each family we are called to find the ancestors.
To put flesh on their bones and make them live again,
To tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and approve.
To me, doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead,
Breathing life into all who have gone before.

We are the story tellers of the tribe.
We have been called as it were by our genes.
Those who have gone before cry out to us:
Tell our story.
So, we do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves.

How many graves have I stood before now and cried?
I have lost count.

How many times have I told the ancestors
you have a wonderful family, you would be proud of us?

How many times have I walked up to a grave
and felt somehow there was love there for me?
I cannot say.

It goes beyond just documenting facts.
It goes to who I am and why I do the things I do?
It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever
to weeds and indifference and saying I can't let this happen.
The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh.

It goes to doing something about it.
It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish.
How they contributed to what we are today.
It goes to respecting their hardships and losses,
their never giving in or giving up.

Their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family.
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation.
It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us
That we might be born who we are.
That we might remember them.
So we do.
With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence,
Because we are them and they are us.
So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family.

It is up to that one called in the next generation,
To answer the call and take their place in the long line of family storytellers.
That is why I do my family genealogy,
And that is what calls those young and old to step up and put flesh on the bones.
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Florida Boy 64
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Thank you for your kind words about elizabeth begen.
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Kay Harrison
My Daughter Dawn's Memorial page
Just want to say a special "thank you" for your lovely thoughts at my daughter's Memorial page.
Added by Kay Harrison on Mar 13, 2014 1:41 PM
Thank you so much

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Kathy Bergeron
Thank you
Thank you for the beautiful message and token you left for my son Paul.
Added by Kathy Bergeron on Feb 05, 2014 8:29 AM
Rich Vance
"Monty" Vance in North East, PA
Thank you for stopping by my Grandpa's memorial and leaving a sweet token.

Cheers, Rich
Added by Rich Vance on Jan 31, 2014 5:07 PM
Jennifer and Jimmy Fry
William Tyler Huber

Thank you so much for the lovely message and token you left on William's Memorial Page today. It was so very thoughtful of You ♥ We'd like to invite You to visit William's Much Page - the link appears on our profile page.

We have something in common - our Dad's are both Joseph William!

Thank you so much, again ♥

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elaine knight
Baby Ben Akers
Thank you for the sweet token. God bless. (:
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