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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

~~~~~ABOUT PHOTOS~~~~~

Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Patricia Sillix
East Lawn Memorial Park Photo Request
East Lawn is not defunct.

East Lawn Memorial Park
Address: 4300 Folsom Boulevard, Sacramento, CA 95819
Phone:(916) 389-1197
Web Page:

Regards, Patricia
Added by Patricia Sillix on Nov 21, 2014 7:29 PM
John Donne
Christopher Shea
Thanks for your message, Mary. Meanwhile, would you add for Christopher that he was a LT and born at Dover, NJ. Thanks, JD
Added by John Donne on Nov 18, 2014 8:16 AM
Francis Marion Lyles
Thank you for the heads up on the cemetery for Francis Lyles. Because I don't always know to what cemetery the remains at New Helvetia Cemetery were removed, the memorial is made at that, the original cemetery. Now that I know otherwise, the correction has been made. Thanks again!
Added by Kathie on Nov 09, 2014 9:30 AM
joe trassare
Grace and George
Thank you, Mary

Joe Trassare

Added by joe trassare on Nov 08, 2014 2:49 PM
Since it was world war 1 positive he is buried in France, no soldiers at that time were brought home for burial. Tough time back then for families that is for sure.
Added by Islington on Nov 07, 2014 8:54 AM
Emily Valentine
RE: Sean Cole
Thank you,

I appreciate you taking the time to put him on here. We all miss him very much and wonder "what if" frequently. I'll dig in the archives to find his obit and share this with family and friends.

Added by Emily Valentine on Oct 22, 2014 10:56 PM
Rita & Lee Gordon
Nick Gaskos
Thanks for the photo
Added by Rita & Lee Gordon on Oct 02, 2014 1:03 PM
Everett Mefford
Rev Clara Rose Stoll Chapman
I have corrected the Maiden name to Stoll

Would you like me to transfer her to you?
Added by Everett Mefford on Sep 14, 2014 10:57 PM
Stephen Barneby
Mary Keefer
Thanks for the correction. I deleted the duplicate memorial.
Added by Stephen Barneby on Sep 14, 2014 6:15 AM
Pattie Ford
Fred Gilliam
Hi Mary'
Thank you for the correction on the burial location for Fred. I have corrected it.

Have a great day!
Added by Pattie Ford on Aug 22, 2014 10:43 AM
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