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MaryK4d4 (#46982975)
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Bio Photo Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4.

Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.

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Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.

If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.

If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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Messages left for MaryK4d4 (99)[Leave Message]
John Howard
Thank you so much for the marker picture.
Added by D.AZ on Jun 20, 2014 10:07 PM
Theresa Glinn Chesser
Re Timothy Cathelyn

Thank you for the edit info. I have updated the memorial.
Added by Theresa Glinn Chesser on May 12, 2014 7:19 PM
RE: Re: Joseph Joffrey
Actually, yes I do:) there were two reasons; firstly Mr. Joffrey's late brother (Dr. Aurang Shah) was a Sacramento physician, so he had family in the area, and perhaps more importantly it was the nearest city having cemeteries with a Muslim section, at SML it's called the "Afghan section," but many buried there are in fact ethnic Pashtuns from northwest Pakistan (Afghan being the archaic Persian form of Pashtun.)
Added by Wick on May 05, 2014 6:44 PM
Pat McArron
Brett Shaad
Thank you for sponsoring Bret's memorial page.
Added by Pat McArron on May 03, 2014 11:10 PM
Re: Joseph Joffrey

Thank you so much for the picture of Joseph Joffrey's headstone at SML; I really appreciate it, and as you say it really helps complete the memorial!
Added by Wick on Apr 29, 2014 10:58 PM
RE: Jasper Chambers
Mary, thank you for the reply about this Cemetery. Diana
Added by Diana on Apr 24, 2014 2:45 PM
Beverley Scheulen
Thank you for visiting and leaving a beautiful flower for Beverley.
Added by Kay on Apr 18, 2014 7:53 PM
RE: Wilma Bass Scanlon
Thank you MaryK4d4. This information is most helpful.
Added by dms98 on Apr 13, 2014 4:17 AM
Jasper Chambers
Thank you for the picture!
Do you know if this was a special grave marker with all of the people listed from a pauper section or something else? I've never seen anything like this!
Thanks for your help,
Added by Diana on Mar 27, 2014 4:38 PM
Pam's memorial
Thank you for leaving flowers for Pam. It means so much to me.
Added by ncsearch on Mar 10, 2014 12:23 AM
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