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BK (#46630070)
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Bio Photo One of my Wray ancestors gave the broach in my photo to his bride-to-be. If you know anything about antique jewelry and can tell me how old it is I would GREATLY APPRECIATE IT!

"A cemetery is a history of people - a perpetual record of yesterday and sanctuary of peace and quiet today."Unknown

The Dash Poem, by Linda Ellis

I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end

He noted that first came the date of her birth
And spoke the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not how much we own;
The cars, the house, the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard.
Are there things you'd like to change?
For you never know how much time is left,
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what's true and real
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger,
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we've never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect,
And more often wear a smile
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy is being read
With your life's actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash.
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Lionel Stegall
Clara Knight link
Thanks for linking Clara with her parents. Lionel
Added by Lionel Stegall on Apr 15, 2014 9:17 AM
Vashti Mansell
Thank you for allowing me to share more family information on the memorial. Kind regards, Nancy
Added by NGL on Apr 07, 2014 8:48 AM
Charles Brooks
Grave Transfer
Thank you for the grave transfer.I do not understand why monuments have incorrect dates sometimes..But my very own maternal grandmother has her birth date of 1880 instead of 1879..simply because my mothers sister gave incorrect info.

Thank You and may you have a wonderful week!
Charles Brooks
Added by Charles Brooks on Apr 01, 2014 8:26 AM
Becky Ramsey
RE: Findagrave Photos
Thanks for the information! The photos are great for verifying dates. I have visited lots of cemeteries myself and written the dates down only to find out later I had made a mistake (all of this before computers and the internet were available). Of course, the dates on the markers could be wrong too but it is somewhere to start. Becky
Added by Becky Ramsey on Feb 03, 2014 2:49 PM
Becky Ramsey
RE: Findagrave Photos
Thank you! Right now I am working on my Cleveland side and have found Cannons etc that are kin. Joseph E Irvin was married to Idella Cannon. She is buried in Spalding County, Georgia but he is buried in the Wesley Chapel Cemetery in Lamar County, Alabama. She was his second wife (I think, because some of his children appear to be older than she was). There may be others as I still researching. Becky
Added by Becky Ramsey on Feb 03, 2014 9:44 AM
Becky Ramsey
Findagrave Photos
BK, thank you for all your contributions to the Findagrave website. I would like permission to use your photographs of my relatives gravesites in my Family Tree files. I use them as media sources and will gladly give you credit for your work. Becky
Added by Becky Ramsey on Feb 02, 2014 5:32 PM
Bob & Valerie (Johnson) Freeman
Thank you - Mahaley Haley
Thank you for making the automated updates for Haley.

Added by Bob & Valerie (Johnson) F... on Jan 20, 2014 8:42 AM
Bob & Valerie (Johnson) Freeman
New System for Memorial Edits deployed by FindAGrave on 12/5/2013
Hi BK --

******Please Note******
New System for Memorial Edits deployed by FindAGrave on 12/5/2013

Go to your Contributor/Profile page.
Look in the upper right corner. You should now see a tab called "Edits" - check there to see if any have been submitted to you. Then just review and accept. EZ-PZ :-)

This new process makes it much easier for doing updates to names / dates / places / plot #s.

Please note - you still will get e-mails to add info to bio section or do linking to family members.

Click Here for more information

Thank you for your contributions to FindAGrave!

Added by Bob & Valerie (Johnson) F... on Jan 19, 2014 2:44 PM
Joe Pugh
Thanks for the transfer.
Added by Katie on Jan 10, 2014 9:34 AM
Kawatha Chandler Koonce
RE: Incorrect name on Cemetery
Beverly it does show you as creating Redus Cemetery, however the listing is a combination of at least two cemeteries. I have sent an e-mail to you with three cemetery's in the same vicinity. I listed these over 10 years ago and am very Familiar with them. I have ancestors buried in the Hill Cemetery which adjoins the Moscow - Armstrong where I have ancestors buried.
Added by Kawatha Chandler Koonce on Nov 25, 2013 1:42 PM
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