RE: Phyliss Reid Fenner Sure, I didn't have many info on Phyllis Reid Fenner, actually I'm not even sure she is buried in Manchester, I just know that Clara put her name on her own memorial. If you or her nephew have better details, I would be happy to rever the memorial to you, may I ask you preserve the link to Clara Sipprel? I know they weren't "married" but I do know they chose to share their life together, and Clare also her burial place.
Wait Phebe Harris I've had that death date for years and couldn't tell you how I found it. When it comes to finding grandparents I don't give up. Sometimes work through other children or siblings to get the answer.
Just looked and found the family connection. I went to Ancestry Family Trees...don't like this particular site because there are so many mistakes on it that are perpetuated....but it is a good place to start looking.
Assume this is correct..or hopefully partially:
Edward T. Allen d 1890..had a son Silas d approx. 1910 m Mary Jane..they had a son Edward T. b 1869..and that birth date matches the Edward T. who died in 1884 at age 15 years. Edward is on the 1870 and 1880 census as the son of Silas. Don't see a middle name listed anywhere I looked.
South Ashford Cemetery Ashford CT I went to this cemetery today and fulfilled your PR for Edward Allen d 1890. Also there was another Edward Allen d 1884 nearby and I photographed his gravestone also. It was difficult to get clear photos as there are trees nearby and the gravestone's writing has deteriorated.