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Brenda (#46595796)
 member for 10 years, 10 months, 8 days
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I photograph graves for my own genealogy and share photos of other graves. If I don't transfer a Memorial to you it is due to it being in my own line. I will gladly transfer management of any stone I have posted that IS NOT in my own genealogy.

There is no reason to be rude to someone on here. When I joined findagrave linking was not a part of the website. I struggle with adding / linking without proof of the data I am linking, nor do I want the proof as most of the headstones I have posted are not in my tree. I began posting headstones of graves in an effort to assist others in locating a stone or burial they were either unable to locate or visit on their own and of course preservation of the stone before the information is lost. I never intended to have to manage all of them.

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Dennis Moore
James Marion Moore
Brenda, thank you for all your time and good work for James' memorial. After you deleted it I was able to re create it 134580933 ans add his full name date and place of birth and all of his known children and siblings and spouse and parents. This links him to thousands of his relatives and you made this possible I owe you a debt of gratitude , Sincerely Dennis Moore
Added by Dennis Moore on Sep 09, 2014 7:33 PM
Judie Custer
RE: headstone photo
You're quite welcome!
Added by Judie Custer on Aug 19, 2014 1:30 PM
Vicki Mandeville-Trezise
RE: Charles Raver & Charles Leon Blew
Yes, I am. I left the details on your contributor page.

Added by Vicki Mandeville-Trezise on Aug 08, 2014 6:35 PM
Ruth (Hickman) Wicks
RE: Jessie M. Cecil # 52595336

Yes -- as soon as I sent the message to you about the memorial #, I had another message from you with the #..... sorry -- I should have looked first.

Anyway, it's all taken care of and "thanks" for sharing.

Added by Ruth (Hickman) Wicks on Aug 06, 2014 8:45 AM
Ruth (Hickman) Wicks
RE: Jessie M. Cecil # 52595336
Do you have a memorial # for Elsworth, so I can link them?

Added by Ruth (Hickman) Wicks on Aug 05, 2014 4:50 PM
Betty Ann Dow
what is her maiden name??
can you add a photo of her?
Added by Oz on Aug 05, 2014 12:48 PM
Vicki Mandeville-Trezise
Charles Raver & Charles Leon Blew
Brenda -

As indicated on their Memorials, Charles Raver "Bark" and Sylvia Ann Luellen-Blew are the parents of Charles "LEON" Blew buried in Pleasant View Cemetery in Darlow. Mary J. Blew is/was not listed as Charles Leon' parent on the Memorial. She is in fact a half-sibling and the deceased infant daughter of Charles and his first wife Mabel Haines (Mary' Memorial has an incorrect birthdate,I have requested a correction).

William Lambert & Melisa Jane Swartzell-Blew are my Great-Grandparents, Edmund Andrew "Swag" and Ethel Jimsena Nelson-Blew are my Grandparents. The Blews are a very close family and dearly love, honor, and respect our ancestors. We have been documenting Birth and Death information for years. However, to be absolutely certain the information I have posted on Find-a-Grave is accurate, I confirmed "Charles' information this week-end at the Blew Family Reunion.

RE: Memorial Transfers - I tried for an entire year to correspond with you concerning the "Blew Memorials" at Pleasant View. I had no idea if you were related, or not, and you state in your BIO that you do not have time for proofing genealogy so, don't ask... with my documented failed attempts to connect with you, I requested that Find-a-Grave transfer the Memorials to me, I have respectfully linked the family together. The transfer happened a couple of years ago.

Added by Vicki Mandeville-Trezise on Jul 27, 2014 4:40 PM
Nancy (Hitchcock) Clewell
Forest Hill Cemetery
Hi Brenda, This is the cemetery outside of Emporia, Kansas in Lyon County. Check the edit tab under your contributor bio page to be able to process the SACs. Thank you.
Added by Nancy (Hitchcock) Clewell on Jun 28, 2014 3:04 PM
Nancy (Hitchcock) Clewell
Forest Hill Cemetery
Hi Brenda:

I've sent through a few SACs for this cemetery before I read your bio....I am hoping you will go ahead and make the links to spouses, children, etc. Also I walked and photographed this cemetery and added quite a few photos to the memorials already there, and added a few memorials that were not established yet. Also, from the obits on the memorials were maiden names and middle names. I hope that will suffice for the proof that you require for updating. Thank you.
Added by Nancy (Hitchcock) Clewell on Jun 22, 2014 1:04 AM
Eva .
Brenda, I am asking permission to use any photos you have taken of headstones of my family and ancestors to use for my own tree and genealogy. Please consider my request and let me know. Thank you ahead ~ Eva
Added by Eva . on May 24, 2014 12:10 PM
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