Begin New Search
Refine Last Search
Cemetery Lookup
Add Burial Records
Help with Find A Grave

Top Contributors
Success Stories
Discussion Forums
Find A Grave Store

Log In
Sherry (#46585091)
 member for 11 years, 8 months, 10 days
[Add to MyFriends]
Bio and Links
Bio Photo <-- My sons, Sean and Eric, and myself, several years ago.

The older you get, the more deaths it seems, or maybe I was just too young to know the difference. I wanted something to memorialize members of my family and friends.

My cousin found out that in our Scovill line we come from three Mayflower passengers; John Howland, Elizabeth Tilley, and Richard Warren.

The majority of the memorials I made are family and some are very close family friends.

For all those that took my family pictures and used them on Ancestry, you weren't supposed to copy them unless you ask me first, and it would have been nice for anyone of you to say "Hey, I used your picture on my family tree!" I would have replied with something like "Lets see how we are related!"

Discovering who your ancestors are is one thing, but reading about them even if its just an obituary tells you something about them as a person, not just another leaf in the tree. Seeing their final resting place is a type of closure for me.

I'm looking for any information on Scovill, Hill, Gear, Parlett, Lawton, Shields, Weilbacher, Frierdich, Murrah.

Please don't add any music to my interments. If you have a picture for one of my memorials you'd like to add, go ahead, but please let me know so I can see it! Thanks!

If I've left flowers on a memorial, that doesnt mean that I know them. It could be that I was flowering random names, or I got there by following links from other memorials. I've flowered over 30,000 memorials, and I probably only knew a very small percentage of those people.


This was posted in the forums, and I think it pretty much sums up how most of us feel about graving and looking for our ancestors.

Your tombstone stands among the rest
Neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out
On polished, marbled stone.
It reaches out to all who care
It is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist
you died and I was born.
Yet each of us are cells of you
In flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
Entirely not our own.
Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
One hundred years ago
Spread out among the ones you left
Who would have loved you so.
I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot,
And come to visit you.

Author Unknown.


By Thelma Greene Reagan

Today we walked where others walked
On a lonely, windswept hill;
Today we talked where other cried
For Loved Ones whose lives are stilled.
Today our hearts were touched
By graves of tiny babies;
Snatched from the arms of loving kin,
In the heartbreak of the ages.
Today we saw where the grandparents lay
In the last sleep of their time;
Lying under the trees and clouds -
Their beds kissed by the sun and wind.
Today we wondered about an unmarked spot;
Who lies beneath this hollowed ground?
Was it a babe, child, young or old?
No indication could be found.
Today we saw where Mom and Dad lay.
We had been here once before
On a day we'd all like to forget,
But will remember forever more.
Today we recorded for kith and kin
The graves of ancestors past;
To be preserved for generations hence,
A record we hope will last.
Cherish it, my friend; preserve it, my friend,
For stones sometimes crumble to dust
And generations of folks yet to come
Will be grateful for your trust.


. .*).*)
 Contact: Leave Public Message
 Forums: Sherababy
Contributions to
Find A Grave
 • 693 Memorials Added
 • 698 Memorials Managed
 • 1 Memorial/week
 • 642 Photos
 • 14 Photo Requests
 • 32,583 Virtual Flowers
 • 18 Virtual Cemeteries
 • 3 Famous Bios
 • 244 Fame Ratings
 • 2 Sponsorships
 • 38 Friends
Search Contributor's Records

First NameLast Name

Virtual Cemeteries
Becher Family (2)
Bunch Family (7)
Elkhorn Cemetery (29)
Family Friends (24)
Gear Relatives (76)
Hill Relatives (71)
Johnson Family (20)
Lawton Family (23)
Misc people and animals (6)
Murrah Family (5)
[View all Virtual Cemeteries...]
Find A Grave Friends
A.J. Marik, Allene Richards..., Ambubbles, Annie Mc, Anonymous, at, athena hoagenso..., betty radford, Camille Bunch, Charlotte, Cindy, Corey, Don Ely, Floyd, GBern.O, Henk J. Orie, Hilda Duell, Jerry Owen, Juel, June Ellen Ferg..., [View all Find A Grave Friends...]
Messages left for Sherry (378)[Leave Message]
I have a headstone for Steve now and posted it on his page.
Added by Phyl on Mar 25, 2015 8:43 PM
Awww Sorry!
It's okay. I wasn't feeling the best because I have been compiling databases of murdered children and I am feeling a little sensitive anyway. There are so MANY and so many with no memorials at all. It is upsetting and I am getting obsessed. I didn't mean to upset you!!!

Peace out! If you need anything, let me know. I think we have a Scovill Hill Cemetery here in town (Bloomington, IL) and I was wondering if any of them are your Scovills? I don't exactly live there but it is nearby and if you'd like, I would be happy to go over there and see what I can find. Please, accept my apologies.

Added by lisse on Mar 24, 2015 6:18 PM
Dear Sherry,

I can't seem to find it now but it was a child's page. I shouldn't have said anything because it is something a lot of people do on here: create a memorial and then tell others what they may or may not post there. Memorials that are owned by this website too, so that is another issue I guess? Anyway, sorry again do what thou wilt.

No hard feelings, hopefully.
Added by lisse on Mar 24, 2015 11:01 AM
Dear Sherry,

I understand how you feel but I am tired of seeing people use this website in order to lecture others and I don't agree that a memorial is the proper place to vent your frustrations with the human race. If your photos are so precious, then why are you posting them on the internet? Just saying. Sorry.

Added by lisse on Mar 23, 2015 11:06 PM
I agree
I have thousands of my photos on ancestry that means I have thousands of my family members who are thieves. I gladly let people use my grave stone photos if they give me credit so people will know where to go to find more info, and I know them to. And I think if some spent $ and time taking photo they at least deserve credit. Some times I travel several hundred miles and go thru untold misery to take photos like walking all over entire cemetery's I think its very little to ask to be given credit. Any way that's my rant of the day, thank for letting me vent. Jarrott
Added by JARROTT P. COX on Mar 22, 2015 12:25 PM
Barbara Blum
Erin House
Obit added.
Added by Barbara Blum on Mar 22, 2015 9:05 AM
Pam B-F
Fannie Scott
Thank you, Sherry for the obituary. Keep up the good work!
Added by Pam B-F on Mar 21, 2015 11:05 PM
Kim Brown
Madison cemeteries
Glad to help any way I can...I'd like to share your first "poem" on your Contributor page if that's ok with you....several other genealogists in the family!
Added by Kim Brown on Mar 18, 2015 7:51 PM
Kim Brown
The Jones Family
Hi,Sherry and thanks for your suggestions on the Jones family. If you'd like to manage these Memorials they were photographed on a random trip to that cemetery and are not my family. Otherwise, I'll get to the suggestions....Kim
Added by Kim Brown on Mar 17, 2015 9:26 PM
Lila Cole
Jennie/Jenny Strode Stone
Thank you for the transfer. It will be much easier to update the bio section and all with control of the page for now.
Added by Lila Cole on Mar 09, 2015 3:15 PM
[View all messages...]

Privacy Statement and Terms of Service