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JP Rayder (#47325025)
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Bio Photo My ancestors were from Ireland and England - from Co.Clare,Co. Kildare,Co.Mayo,Co.Tyrone,and Dublin.also from Liverpool England,and Middletown NJ, Philadelphia Pa. for the most part, with generations living in Bell Harbor in the Rockaway's N.Y.

Surnames of interest include: Marrs, Tierney,Fagan, Grant,Lovely,Liddy (Leddy),McLaughlin,Slevin, Stanley,Keane


"Dear Ancestor,

Your tombstone stands among the rest;
Neglected and alone.
The name and date are chiseled out,
On polished, marbled stone.

It reaches out to all who care...
It is too late to mourn.
You did not know that I exist,
You died and I was born.

Yet each of us are cells of you,
In flesh, in blood, in bone.
Our blood contracts and beats a pulse
Entirely not our own.

Dear Ancestor, the place you filled
One hundred years ago,
Spreads out among the ones you left
Who would have loved you so.

I wonder if you lived and loved,
I wonder if you knew
That someday I would find this spot
And come visit you."

(This poem was written in 1906 by Walter Butler Palmer)

I work hard to get my information as accurate as possible and am thankful when other contributors do the same. I generally don't enter information such as inscriptions that are easily readable from the picture (why by redundant?), but I'm happy to make any corrections needed. Just please use the "Edit" tab on the memorial. It's easier to manage the emails that way. Thanks!

Photo's: Please feel free to make copies of the photo's that I have taken and posted here. I do ask that if you post them to other websites please give me credit for taking them as a courtesy.

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Messages left for JP Rayder (1055)[Leave Message]
Judith Bailey Keneman
Albin and Eric Stream at The Evergreens, Brooklyn
Thank you so much for the photograph and alerting me that the stone was laying on the grass. I called the cemetery and they will fix it for free. I will request another photo when the work is done.
Thank you again
Added by Judith Bailey Keneman on May 23, 2013 7:56 AM
Regina Montford
Thank You JP
I appreciate everything you do for all the people that need your help. Thank you so much for the photos of my grandparent's headstone.
Added by Regina Montford on May 22, 2013 9:16 PM
Kingfish
Hollenzer pix
I think you found the wrong gravesite. Here is a photo that I found on billiongraves:
http://billiongraves.com/pages/record/JACOBHOLLENZER/2233830
Could you please retake a photo and post the corrections for Find A Grave Memorial# 110324980 and the other five?
Thanks.
Added by Kingfish on May 22, 2013 3:10 PM
Paul O
John M. Smith
JP, Thank you very much for taking the time in trying to find my GG Uncles tombstone. Unfortunately, there was no stone. There are 3 other buried in this plot and I believe they are related. I will contact the cemetery and see if they can help. Once again, many thanks for your efforts! Paul O.
Added by Paul O on May 22, 2013 10:31 AM
Astrid Spencer
Thank you!
Thank you so much for fulfilling my photo request in Calvary Cemetery and taking a picture of the area. Even though there was no headstone, your effort is sincerely appreciated!
Added by Astrid Spencer on May 21, 2013 1:37 PM
Robert Casa
Casamassima Tombstone Photo
Wow, thank you so much for taking this photo of my Great Grandparents final resting place. I didn't know their son Victor was buried with them. I am thrilled with your generous work. Thanks again.

Robert Casa
Added by Robert Casa on May 19, 2013 2:08 PM
Leslie Taggard
John & Rosr Rogers
Dear JP,

Thank you very much.

Leslie
Added by Leslie Taggard on May 19, 2013 12:50 PM
Debby
McKenna Greene

Please remove photo's
Thomas and Margaret Green(e)
John McKenna and Catherine McKenna
The picture is not them..I have no idea who these people are that are on this tombstone you placed on everyone
Thank you for trying, I know you did your best

Debby
Added by Debby on May 18, 2013 9:03 PM
James Peck, CCA President
Richard Heslin Grave
Thank you for taking the picture. Was the flag there or did you put it there to mark the spot? We don't believe he was a veteran. Is there an office in the cemetery that could confirm that is his grave site? We had called there & they gave us this location, but perhaps we wrote it down incorrectly.

It's just disturbing he doesn't have a marker. Also, we had heard he may have been shipped back to Ireland & buried there.

Thanks again.

Jim
Added by James Peck, CCA President on May 18, 2013 7:20 PM
Marianne Caruso
George Mischler
Thank you so much for your help. Really appreciate your time and effort and placement of the Flag to mark my nephews ancestor .
Marianne
Added by Marianne Caruso on May 18, 2013 2:44 PM
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