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Ellece (#47103719)
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The Story Tellers...We are the Chosen.

My feelings are in each family there is one who seems called to find the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones and make them live again, to tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and approve. To me, doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but, instead, breathing life into all who have gone before. We are the story tellers of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called, as it were, by our genes.
Those who have gone before cry out to us: Tell our story. So, we do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood before now and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I told the ancestors you have a wonderful family you would be proud of us?
How many times have I walked up to a grave and felt somehow there was love there for me? I cannot say.
It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who am I and why do I do the things I do. It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to weeds and indifference and saying I can't let this happen. The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing something about it. It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to accomplish. How they contributed to what we are today. It goes to respecting their hardships and losses, their never giving in or giving up, their resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family.
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation. It goes to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us. That we might be born who we are. That we might remember them. So we do. With love and caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are them and they are us. So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family.
It is up to that one called in the next generation to answer the call and take their place in the long line of family storytellers.
That, is why I do my family genealogy, and that is what calls those young and old to step up and put flesh on the bones.

Originally written by Della M. Cummings Wright. Re-written by her Grand Daughter, Della JoAnn McGinnis Johnson. Edited and Reworded By Tom Dunn
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Teena Williams
Mary Ella Ransom
Whoops, I must apologize. I looked at the wrong thing. Thank you!
Added by Teena Williams on Oct 12, 2015 8:22 PM
Bobby & Judy Liles
Thank you Note
Just like to thank you for the transfer of the Melears. Also I read your bio and I couldn't agree with you more. If it hadn't been for my father I would have never known anything about my ancestors. He had so many family stories and now I have taken his place.
Added by Bobby & Judy Liles on Oct 12, 2015 10:44 AM
David Schram
Website "" > Enid Cemetery has Robert's middle name shown as Lincoln. His mother and father shown as William & Sarah (Fuller) Grant.
Added by David Schram on Oct 10, 2015 12:19 PM
FAG Memorial 42066735
Your memorial for Samuel McGaughey lists a middle name of Alexander. There is no evidence, that I know of, that he had a middle name. If you can let me know who made the suggestion that his middle name is Alexander, I will follow up with them for clarification, as this probable error is quickly being propogated throughout the internet. Thank you.
Added by MichaelH127 on Sep 04, 2015 11:53 AM
Duffie and Kathy
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Added by Duffie and Kathy on Aug 22, 2015 11:52 AM
Duffie and Kathy
Mary Pearl Riedel Fought
I would like to see proof of marrige to Corbett? (Rules)

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Added by Duffie and Kathy on Aug 22, 2015 11:40 AM
Sherry Winchester
RE: Zenia Johnson Lynn
Thanks so much for your reply.

All I was hoping for was to get the message posted.

I was also hoping some day a family might see it and contact me.

Again, thanks for your help.

Added by Sherry Winchester on Aug 16, 2015 1:55 AM
Sherry Winchester
Zenia Johnson Lynn
I have finished my research on this family.

I am interested in Phillip Mulky and wife. For various reasons I am looking at him/his wife as an ancestor in one of my lines.

We have had a mtdna test done, and I am looking for a direct female line. Janet and Deborah are the only ones possible. My attention now is trying to locate and make contact with them.

All other detailed info is on under one of my Family Tree’s named “Milligen”

Generation # 1. Phillip Mulkey III & Mary Pollie

#2. Nancy Mulkey & Abraham Powell

#3. Margaret Mary Powell & Ezekiel Wilhite

#4. Mary Elizabeth “Bettie” Wilhite & Henry Thomas Johnson

#5. Zenia Johnson & Henry Lynn

#6. “Susie” Annie Ruth & Don Wiggins

#7. Janet Lee Wiggins & Norman Feinberg

#7. Deborah Jean (Debby) Wiggins & Jim Nolan

Added by Sherry Winchester on Aug 10, 2015 3:40 PM
Kathline York Forrester
Maiden names
You've been a contributor for findagrave for quite a long time, however, according to their help section maiden names for women are entered as such.....

How do I enter all married names for a woman's memorial when she was married more than once?
The 'last name' is the name that is on the headstone. Include other married names as part of the biography section. The 'maiden name' is only for her maiden name....

Inis Whitlock. and your request for me to change the last name for this memorial to......> She married her first husband, Richard Henry Cockrell, on 22 Aug 1915 in Winston County. She is linked to that first husband. I do not know when she married the Whitlock but regardless, her maiden name should show as Smith and maybe her last name as Cockrell Whitlock.

I will make note of it in the bio section for you, but will not hyphenate it in the name section itself.
Added by Kathline York Forrester on Aug 09, 2015 8:22 PM
Ora Bairrow
I am almost positive it is Bairrow. It is spelled that way on her husband's tombstone. I have a picture somewhere. I will try to locate it and post to her memorial.
Added by BK on Aug 03, 2015 7:36 AM
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