|Craig & Tonya Banks (#46890871)|
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When I joined Find a Grave it was a good website where a person could find and connect to their past without having to pay an annual fee. As I searched other volunteers home pages, I would read in their bios how they too expressed their support for the website and how it helped them to find a love one. On certain occasions though, I would come across a bio in which the volunteer didn't write a bio about themselves, but they expressed anger about the neglect of other individuals who didn't abide by the website rules. As I continued to read the bio, I wondered why they would choose to express their anger and frustration rather than write something good about themselves. Well after many years of contributing memorials, photos, and flowers, I know now why they wrote those angry words. I have come to realize that when a website offers free membership, it opens the door to every idiot who has nothing better to do than to create frustration and tension for other people. If these trouble causing individuals were forced to pay an annual fee, I believe they would think twice about wasting their money on creating aggravation for other individuals. I am changing my policy, and will be a STRICT keeper of the Find a Grave Rules. This means: Transfer requests should be for direct relatives within four generations. This would be YOUR siblings, parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. If you don't understand this, then go find someone who does understand this statement and can explain it to you. There are many of my relatives memorials that I don't manage and I am quite happy to leave them in the hands of other people. If there is something I want added to the memorial I click the EDIT tab and make my request. This is the correct, by the rules, way for this website. If this rule is not followed, then when I receive your email/request, I will list it as spam and it will be deleted.|
Another rule I have found that volunteers are breaking is the photo copyright rule. You CANNOT claim a photo you DID NOT TAKE. I have found many of my photos being copied and pasted on other memorials. This is a serious rule infraction. REMEMBER, IF YOU DIDN'T TAKE THE PICTURE.....DON'T TAKE CREDIT FOR THE PICTURE! Ask for permission.
Finally, Be accurate with your information. When photo volunteers go out to fill a photo request, they are taking their time and money to get you that photo. Don't just put someone in a cemetery because it seems like the right one. Take the time to do some research and get confirmation before you list a memorial. Be Considerate!
There are certain individuals out there (and you know who your are) who have caused me to take these measures and unfortunately for the innocent, I'm sorry but things have changed.
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|David Clifford Barnham||Rathbone Cemetery|
Hi, My Name is David Barnham and I'm looking for the Hagans Family. Could you tell me is there any othen Hagans Buried in the above Cemetery. Looking for Mother and Father of James R. Hagans who is in Rathbone Cemetery, Thank You.
|Amina AlAmin||JOHANNAH WELLS|
She is my gggrandmother I have a photo of her husbands headstone...how are you retated to her? My mom is 98 yrs old and I have all the information on all her sons...please contact me firstname.lastname@example.org my name is Amina AlAmin and my mom's name is Mae Will Wells.
|Reynolds Ansley||Hello Cousin!|
Wynell Turner is my 4th cousin 2x removed (Ansley Line). Have a blessed day!
I read every bio that I come in contact with. I love yours, don't agree with everything, but I still love it.
I checked the photos that you take "Awesome" is all I can say.
Now the reason I wrote to you is I just received some data on Woodrow Hampton and saw that you are the maintainer of most of his line and wondered if you would like this memorial also. Whenever I see a cemetery survey in a cemetery near I look up names, Hampton being one, I put them on Find A Grave just in case they are relatives of one of our children's spouse's etc. Daughter in law was a Hampton. This turned out not to be any relative at this time. Ya never can tell when can you?
The "Very Best" to you and yours, Bud
Added by Bud on Mar 15, 2015 4:55 PM
|George J. Crawford||BWS Sheppard|
Let me introduce myself, I am George J. Crawford, a great grandson of one Benjamin William Smith Sheppard. He is my closest lineal Confederate ancestor. Other than his Confederate service, I had very little information on him. I had surmised he had two wives, Mary E. & Francis, from census records, but no specific birth date (born abt 1847) or death date.
Benjamin William Smith Sheppard was a Private in Co. C of Findley's Battalion, a volunteer State Guard unit that later became Co. C 5th Reg't GA Reserves CSA. He was listed as present on muster rolls dated 25 April 1864 and 3 May 1864 in Macon by Charles E. McGregor and Capt Whiddom, respectively. He served from 16 October 1863 to 31 August 1864. It was noted in the record he received no pay, but was issued two uniforms on 26 April 1864. There is no pension record.
However, last evening, I was surfing around the internet and out of curiosity typed into Google my other lineal Confederate ancestor's name - Simeon T. Burke. I ended up finding pictures of his tombstone on http://www.findagrave.com/. So I tried typing in"Benjamin William Sheppard", but found nothing, Then I tried just his first name and found over a dozen entries, none of which were him. Finally, I typed in just his initials, B. W. Sheppard, and low and behold, a single entry for a "BWS Sheppard" popped up. Its him! He is buried in Bulloch County in Eureka Cemetery (what an appropriate name, huh?). Buried next to him is his first wife, Maryann Elizabeth Barnes Sheppard, who died twenty years before him. My grandmother's mother is his second wife, Francis.
I wanted to thank you personally as heretofore, I have been unsuccessful at locating any additional information on my great grandfather. Your entry on findagrave.com has given me new information and renewed interest in discovering more about this branch of my family.
George J. Crawford
1st Lt. Commander
Gen'l John B. Gordon Memorial #1449
Sons of Confederate Veterans
|Rhonda Breder||J.G oliver and family|
I am looking for any info on my great great grandfather and great great grandmother Mattie. I have hit a brick wall
Thank you in advance
Rhonda Oliver Breder
|Carol Riner Everett||Vallie Mae Jackson|
Vallie Mae Jackson is my great-grandaunt. She was born 1879 in Washington Co., GA, a daughter of Payton D CAREY and Sarah Ann HODGES. She married 1st Robert Lee EDWARDS and they had a daughter named Ida Mae. Vallie left her husband when Ida was quite young; they lived with her brothers Seth and Clarence CARY until her marriage to Andrew JACKSON. They had a son Andrew William "Willie" JACKSON, born in 1909. Vallie Mae died 13 Nov 1953 in Chatham Co., GA.
can you please add this information to Vallie Mae Jackson's page? Thank you.
|Carolyn Moore||W. Wiley Akins|
Please correct spelling of my grandfather, W. Wiley Akins.
Please look at the tombstone. It is Wiley, not Wyley. I
shall appreciate your attention to this matter.
|Robert Miller||William Woodruff Snellgrove His Memorial|
Good Evening Again,
I Truly, And I Dearly Thank You For The Transfer Of My Family Member William Woodruff Snellgrove. This Is A Major Blessing.
Thank You For Beening A Member Of This Most Wonderful Site www.findagrave.com
May Our Lord Continue To Bless You Always.
Blessings In Christ,
|Abner Galdamez||searching for my fathers grave|
Hello my name is abner galdamez. My dad died in 1990 when I was 10 years old. After his untimely death we forced to move to new york with our closest relatives. I am now 34 years old and am looking to find my fathers grave site. From the very little I remember I am positive (from the pucture of the church) that this is where he is buried. His name is Marcos Agusto Galdamez, he was buried in october of 1990. Please help by letting me know if his remains are infact there through a message. Thank you for you time. Abner
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