|Joseph Dudley (#47975167)|
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Thanks to all the people that have transferred memorials of my family members to me. I want to wish everyone a very healthy and prosperous 2015|
I find it such an honor to be able to join people that have been separated for so long, especially children that died at birth or passed at a very young age. Even if just virtually it always gives me a special feeling so that others might not have to dig around to find they even existed in the first place.
For what it is worth, I want to thank all the selfless members who do this to honor and respect those who have passed. To sincerely thank them for the countless hours that they have contributed walking the cemeteries photographing or creating & maintaining memorials.
However, I must add, I find it sad and pathetic that some of you have very childish reasons for holding on to memorials that are not even close to you.
SHAME ON YOU!
This really angers me, especially since often the memorials were not even created by you to begin with. You are in some sort of sick power control #'s contest. Why in the world would someone not transfer someone closer related if the are not in your family to begin with whether 4 or 12 generations?
On top of this, and though many of you have tens of thousands of memorials, and often do not and could not manage a tenth of what you have, you dare to lecture others about Find A Grave rules. Or you claim some silly reasons that you do not relinquish control so you can live with yourself. I find it insulting that you tell people in your profile is that they could not possibly do their ancestors justice and that it is too much work having too many memorials, and yet you have 10,20 100,000+ memorials?
How you people can claim this is beyond me, especially when many of you can't keep up with your memorials, often having some pathetic excuse & often aggressive actions to someone that dares to ask why a change is not made. I feel I have a greater right to have a say on family then a complete stranger that only cares about another 10,000 graves on their profile.
Again shame on those people, and sadly too many of them here. You can tell who these are, people with high #'s and often no response or no way to contact them and always lecturing when they do respond, get a life! What in the world is wrong with you people? Are you so childish and power hungry that you only can exercise your power games here over the dead?
I thought I might borrow what Jeff Gonyea on his Find a Grave profile:
"We don't "own" the memorials we manage - they are not ours. We may create them, we may update them, we may transfer them to others - we are but stewards. They are Find A Grave memorials of human beings, departed. They are not "friends" on a social media network website to be collected like baseball trading cards. And there's no prize for the one who dies with the most.
The reward (for me) comes from maintaining the most accurate and dignified memorials I can. What we record becomes history, and a record in someone else's family tree. We have a responsibility to do a good job of it. It's a privilege and honor."
Well put Jeff and I just wish more of the people could soak these words in...
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|Donna Cox Beveridge||Haak 121163419|
Thank you so much for the additional information. All has been added see memorial.
|J. G. Hottel||Daniel M. McDonald|
Thank you so much for the document on Daniel's marriage Joseph. J.G.Hottel
|B Roby||I.J. Massengill|
Got your edits for I.J. Massengill, and have updated his page. Does he happen to be an ancestor of yours? He was my great-great-grandfather; I always look forward to connecting to distant cousins.
Added by B Roby on Jan 26, 2015 4:56 PM
|Shirley Stewart Milford||M J Plunk in Plunk Cemetery|
Joseph, I was sending an edit for M J Plunk in Plunk Cemetery to add the name of Martha Jane Hubanks Plunk, wife of S P Plunk who I believe is Simon Peter Plunk 1845. But the edits showed that you had already submitted a name. May I ask if your edit name is for Martha Jane Hubanks Plunk?
I had sent in a couple of edits for children so thought I'd better check with you before adding more - in case you did not think this was Martha Jane. If not, may I ask who you think it is? ... I do wish tombstones had names instead of initials. HA
|Dena Burnum||Susana Lowrance|
Hello! Please e-mail me at email@example.com. I do have some information and would like to talk to you about it so we can compare notes.
|Debbie Atkinson Brown||Corrections made for Purvis|
I believe I made all the additions and corrections you made for "Purvis" in AJ Powell Cemetery. Hominy, Osage, Ok.
Please let me know if everything is as you wish and or you have any further information.
I completed your photo request for Otto Solcher. He is next to Ella Solcher. I uploaded a photo of her marker to her memorial.
Added by rwy on Jan 03, 2015 9:52 PM
|Carol Pasley||O. Dishman|
I have deleted the duplicate O. Dishman memorial.
Yes, you may use the photos.
At this time I prefer to maintain the names as I'm in search of their obits for further details.
You did not mention what your relationship is to these names(?)
Added by Deb on Jan 02, 2015 8:03 AM
|Jr. McKay||Mary & Edgar Gregory|
Thanks for your comments. Feel free to use the tombstone pictures.
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