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What is a First Cousin, Twice Removed?|
If someone walked up to you and said "Howdy, I'm your third cousin, twice removed," would you have any idea what they meant? Most people have a good understanding of basic relationship words such as "mother," "father," "aunt," "uncle," "brother," and "sister." But what about the relationship terms that we don't use in everyday speech? Terms like "second cousin" and "first cousin, once removed"? We don't tend to speak about our relationships in such exact terms ("cousin" seems good enough when you are introducing one person to another), so most of us aren't familiar with what these words mean.
Sometimes, especially when working on your family history, it's handy to know how to describe your family relationships more exactly. The definitions below should help you out.
Cousin (a.k.a "first cousin")
Your first cousins are the people in your family who have two of the same grandparents as you. In other words, they are the children of your aunts and uncles.
Your second cousins are the people in your family who have the same great-grandparents as you., but not the same grandparents.
Third, Fourth, and Fifth Cousins
Your third cousins have the same great-great-grandparents, fourth cousins have the same great-great-great-grandparents, and so on.
When the word "removed" is used to describe a relationship, it indicates that the two people are from different generations. You and your first cousins are in the same generation (two generations younger than your grandparents), so the word "removed" is not used to describe your relationship.
The words "once removed" mean that there is a difference of one generation. For example, your mother's first cousin is your first cousin, once removed. This is because your mother's first cousin is one generation younger than your grandparents and you are two generations younger than your grandparents. This one-generation difference equals "once removed."
Twice removed means that there is a two-generation difference. You are two generations younger than a first cousin of your grandmother, so you and your grandmother's first cousin are first cousins, twice removed.
Relationship Charts Simplify Everything
Now that you have an idea of what these different words mean, take a look at the chart below. It's called a relationship chart, and it can help you figure out how different people in your family are related. It's much simpler than it looks, just follow the instructions.
Instructions for Using a Relationship Chart
Pick two people in your family and figure out which ancestor they have in common. For example, if you chose yourself and a cousin, you would have a grandparent in common.
Look at the top row of the chart and find the first person's relationship to the common ancestor.
Look at the far left column of the chart and find the second person's relationship to the common ancestor.
Determine where the row and column containing those two relationships meet.
Ancestor Child Grandchild G-grandchild G-g-grandchild
Child Sister or Brother Nephew or Niece Grand-nephew or niece G-grand-nephew or niece
Grandchild Nephew or Niece First cousin First cousin, once removed First cousin, twice removed
G-grandchild Grand-nephew or niece First cousin, once removed Second cousin Second cousin, once removed
G-g-grandchild G-grand-nephew or niece First cousin, twice removed Second cousin, once removed Third cousin
Just When You Thought You Had it
When you are working with older records, be aware that the meaning of the word "cousin," along with the meanings of other relationship terms, have changed over time. The Glossary section of the Learning Center can help you with any confusing relationship terms, including those in Latin.
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|donna rossi||RE: Clanton's|
Your welcome. I love doing it and helping others. I looked for Joe today and he's not by them. I checked all around the area. If you find out what section he may be
In let me know.
|donna rossi||RE: Clanton|
No problem. I did take surrounding pics if you need them. I have the baby and maybe an aunt.
|Lisa Doscher||Loma Bowen|
I am still looking for Loma Bowen's grave. I have been twice and didn't see it either time. I am willing to go back again to find it. Do you have any additional info you can give me? Front of cemetery or back or near a tree would help. I know there is a plot location, but there is no one there to help me find it.
|Kim Poyner Woodhouse||Clanton's|
I did an obituary search for Merritt & Iva Clanton. I posted both on the memorials. I found where their 3 year old son was killed in a tornado, but no burial location was ever listed. If you are interested, I can send you the articles. I did not want to create a memorial in case you knew where he was buried.
**no relation to this family**
|Tim Bear||RE: Cora E Giles|
I just transferred her to you. If you need any pictures from this cemetery just let me know. I live just a few miles away in Dye Mound.
Added by Tim Bear on Nov 12, 2013 5:28 PM
|Rick Miller||George and Nola Anderson|
I am sure that there were obituaries in the Waurika News-Democrat. The paper is still being published. The editor has a box of microfilms of old issues going back to at least the 1920s. But he doesn't have a microfilm reader that works. You have to get the film roll from him and take it to the offices of the Duncan Banner in Duncan and use their microfilm reader.
I think the historical archives in Oklahoma City has bound copies of the paper. It might be easier to try and get the obituaries from there.
The information that I entered on them came from a History of Jefferson County that was published back in the 1980s.
I made the pages from a survey, but I don't remember where the headstones are. I have been trying to photograph every headstone in the cemetery. I usually go down there once a year and spend a day in the cemetery taking pictures. Eventually, I will get them all done.
|Cheri||#72540503 Joshua Wright|
Thx for sending me the info about Joshua's son, David Ross...I've added his name to the bio on Joshua's page.
Added by Cheri on Nov 01, 2013 10:26 PM
|Genealogy Lover||RE: Bry Howard|
Brenda, if you go on Find A Grave and look up Sells (Alex) Cemetery, I have put specific directions on getting to the cemetery from Livingston. I also put the GPS coordinates. My cousin lives outside of Monroe, Tennessee, and didn't know where this one was . . . but with persistence she asked other locals until we found it. It took time, but it was worth it. :-)
You're quite welcome. I was very happy to take the photos and post them.
Added by Rejeana on Oct 23, 2013 8:59 PM
|Genealogy Lover||RE: Bry Howard|
You are very welcome! We live in Missouri and have been to Overton County TN twice in the last four months. On the second trip one priority was to find where Bry and Harriet's cemetery was. It took a good deal of one day, but I'm so glad we were able to find it and take photos of all those buried there!
I love when things fall in place!
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