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CABrown (#47000639)
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Bio Photo PFC James Rexford (Rex) Scowden KIA WW I buried in France, also has stone in Rose Hill Cemetery, McKean County, Pa

Corp. Steven John Skinner KIA WW I, buried in France
People that think I should read the FAG guidelines, might want to try it themselves.

How do I enter all married names for a woman's memorial when she was married more than once?

The 'last name' is the name that is on the headstone. INCLUDE OTHER MARRIED NAMES AS PART OF THE BIOGRAPHY SECTION. The 'maiden name' is only for her maiden name.
I'd like to suggest that if you're doing a photo request, and there is no stone for that person, then take a photo of where it should be. I do that because I feel that way they can see there is no marker and maybe have a better feeling having a photo of the location, with other markers on each side for location.

Also if I find a woman that was buried as Mrs.____ don't hassle me over that. It's bad enough that they didn't even use her first name, now some people want to do the same thing with her memorial. If you know her first name, tell me, don't just think I should list her the same as her husband.

When I first found Find A Grave, I was excited and happy to be able to add to it. But sadly it's not that way anymore. I can fully understand the feelings off some of the contributors that have become unactive. When I added memorials, I fully thought family would turn up, want them and fix anything they considered an error. But that's not so either. With the automatic edits, in 21 days, they apparently are made whether you ignored or declined them. There doesn't seem to be much control over your memorials anymore. Just because someone disagrees with the way I've added them, not even family, they can be changed. We are all different individuals, so I can't see why other people, if they're NOT family, should be allowed to change yours. I thought difference of opinion was a way of life, not your right, so I'm wrong. Memorials shouldn't be changed just because someone else thinks they should. I thought the important thing was they were on there for family to find.

Also, I'm tired of people whining because someone might not transfer a memorial. "It's all about the numbers." I'm not sure I understand what you're talking about. The number I added doesn't change, just the number I manage. So if I was in it for the numbers, I'd still be okay. Quit whining.

As far as transfers, I don't necessarily stick to the FAG guidelines as far as relation. If you're a relative, I don't mind transferring (that's why they're on there) BUT it does depend on how you ask/tell me!
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Diana St. Clair Huber
Lucille Harvey

Thanks for the heads up on Lucille's cemetery. She's where she belongs now.

Added by Diana St. Clair Huber on May 06, 2015 8:03 PM
Eva Pippin Flowers
Norbert Kamholtz
Thank you so much for documenting the stone for Norbert through photography! You have done a great job and very much appreciated! May you be blessed for blessing others.
Added by Eva Pippin Flowers on May 05, 2015 11:15 PM
Darlene Kerr
George J. Burlingame Photo
Thank you for the beautiful clear photos of George's headstone. The family and I appreciate your efforts in getting this. Regards, Darlene Scott Kerr
Added by Darlene Kerr on May 05, 2015 2:19 PM
Melinda Trayer Nobles
RE: Ethel and Allie Cady
Thanks Carol
Added by Melinda Trayer Nobles on May 05, 2015 10:20 AM
Tom Krach
Fulfilled photo request
Thank you for the photo of Martin and Muriel Flanagan's Gravestone. Nice work.

Tom Krach
Added by Tom Krach on May 05, 2015 9:22 AM
Kathy Sloan
It is OK! His had all the links so I just took mine off. Don't give it another thought.
Added by Kathy Sloan on May 05, 2015 7:18 AM
Linda Proudler
Thank you for the headstone photos of this family in my tree! The pictures are wonderful! Your time is valuable that you donated!
Added by Linda Proudler on May 05, 2015 5:14 AM
Tricia Partridge
Thank you for the Frey headstone pictures.
Added by Tricia Partridge on May 04, 2015 7:51 PM
Linda V. Tomaszek
Alfred and Myrna McHenry
Thank you so much for taking the photo for our memorial for our love one. You help is greatly appreciate.
Linda V. Tomaszek
Added by Linda V. Tomaszek on May 04, 2015 6:30 PM
Cindy Brown
Amelia Puda
Thank you so much for the picture!
Added by Cindy Brown on May 04, 2015 5:25 PM
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