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CryptoGram (#46897564)
 member for 8 years, 5 months, 20 days
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Bio Photo Grief never ends,
but it changes.
It is a passage,
not a place to stay.
Grief is not a sign of
weakness or lack of faith...
it is the price of love.


The words above are thought to be based on a eulogy Queen Elizabeth made for her sister Princess Margaret.

I don't make more than a couple memorials a day on average, but have done research into the families of lots of them...same for many whose pictures I post...making me gladly able to help with most anyone's ancestral brick walls however I can.

While Google-ing along roads we biked over 50 years ago, I've noticed some homes, buildings, and even streets in my elementary school neighborhood missing while others are basically unchanged...made me think I should keep add/linking together those families I grew up with...sure wish my home-town newspaper archives were online so I could find the details of a murder that involved the Green Wing Grocery!

Obviously FindAGrave is like any other pyramid-type set-up...so as the membership increases, memorials and pictures left to be added decrease. There are already over 125,000,000 memorials; so considering that half the people who ever lived on Planet Earth are living now, and that it's unknown where over 90% of the dead are...how many does that leave? -LOL and go figure.

The picture "request" function started around mid-2007, and pix were limited in size to 250K: a comparatively tiny 1/32 of 8M now allowed; at first there was only one guy and me taking pix in Arlington National (all that white granite for matching military markers comes from Vermont...not China :^), and there weren't many requests, so you can see how membership and contributions have exploded! I've had to tell my eager grandboy that there will probably be little picture-taking left to do when another seven years pass, just always recent deaths to add.

Fodder is running lower, but there are still helpful and personally-rewarding "angel" tasks to be done...2015 is bringing FaG-ers the ability to upload pic from onsite, and then others to help with the transcriptions.

ANY information on privately-owned and defunct burial places is still needed. I was gladly able to do this for the cemetery nearest to me in kidhood that I never knew about way back then ~ when I held my breath in passing cemeteries ~ as it was already defunct...altho' one of my brothers once found a toppled headstone while bike-riding (him, not the headstone) dirt roads there.

Those who are willing: little burial grounds usually need cleaning and repairs; but don't go alone, and be careful ~ I myself have encountered snakes and Black Widow spiders...I did visit one cemetery that had a houseless person living in it.

You many kind, prolific contributors might try adding people from their death records found online...including from where you got the data and that they probably have no marker so the living don't get false hope for a picture.

Other Less-Important Stuff:

Some might think others of us are too possessive about pictures we take/post, but you probably haven't encountered a self-aggrandizer who deletes memorials after lifting the pictures others added to them and then remakes memorials with same pictures claimed as their own. As on any real city block, not everything is hunky-dory here; and not all the neighbors are nice. It takes just one laughable rotten apple plus a few manipulators, stalkers, and green-eyed game players...especially the ones who post DUPLICATE wrong poor-quality pictures on purpose &/or put burials willy-nilly into incorrect cemeteries just to inflate their "contributions" and then get huffy & vindictive when others notice the obvious, duh...to require rules for the rest of us in the barrel while supplying some inappropriate comedy to those who see through them ~ :).

COMMENTS ON MESSAGES TO ME ABOUT COPYRIGHT ISSUES, INCLUDING FindAGrave's OWN rules and regulations, found here ~ FindAGrave FAQs ~ which admonish, among else: >>The copyright of all photos posted to Find A Grave remains with the original submitter. No use of photos for any other website or personal use is given without prior consent of the original submitter.<<

Sad to have to point out that I have posted no pictures on ancestry.com other than Swedish documents about Charles Wassell from an uncle, but some members there and elsewhere online lifted pictures I DID add to FindAGrave & reposted them as their own with no credit given to me. When you see a picture on ancestry.com identical to one I've added to FaG, mine is the original; if ancestry.com included posting dates, I would not have to explain this. It's also quite silly that when I & others have made family trees there from personal information, it's noted as having no sources, but then when others copy same, their "source" is US!

You can use pictures I've taken and posted on this site in your online family trees by making a connective link to the original and/or including " FindAGrave member #46897564"; none may be sold and/or exchanged for any type of payment.

My Reasons for Being on FindAGrave:

I oversaw the newsletter of Colonel David Hackworth, military author/ commentator/ columnist with 8 Purple Hearts, for several years until he died from the effects of Agent Blue (used along with Agent Orange in Vietnam) while my husband was off in a war zone; at which time I needed a new focus and determined to pin-point our then-totally-unknown ancestors: at least 28 Revolutionary War Patriots, his Mayflower and Salem "witch" ancestors, my Swedish "hanky-panky in the palace" & Scottish Robert the Bruce people...and many *ships who pass in the night* ~ then sometimes remain friends ~ who have been great fun, challenges, and blessings to find.

So, at the onset in 2005, I was first able to find basic facts of the missing Major James Powell, and began a two-year mission to restore his legacy which was lost upon his death at Shiloh 145 years ago today as I write this 06APRIL2007. This long walk, still being shared with both living and non-bodied souls, is what educated me in how to usually quite rapidly find pertinent data for you "strangers," which I still remain happily willing to do!

My biggest peeve in research was seeing my favorite greatgrandmother constantly referred to as "Mrs. G.: husband's first initial and married name" ~ most ALL females losing their identities up into the 1960s; so I'm elated whenever I successfully work the puzzles ~ better than word math, sudoku, or cryptograms ~ of finding and posting ladies' maiden names as the most appropriate and long-lasting FLOWERS to their memories, and alas, I still have just ONE nee name in my own Heck(ofA)family to dig up.

May all of Granny Vance's roses perpetually bloom bright and happy!

The book of life is brief,
And once the pages read
All but love is dead:
That is my belief.
(Bobby Goldsboro, 1960s)

God is Love.
(1 John 4:8)
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Messages left for CryptoGram (3367)[Leave Message]
JMVERNAL
Grace Taylor
Thank-you for adding this photo
Added by JMVERNAL on Aug 28, 2015 8:15 PM
JMVERNAL
John Taylor
thank-you for adding this photo
Added by JMVERNAL on Aug 28, 2015 8:14 PM
JMVERNAL
Edward Good
thank-you for adding this photo. :-)
Added by JMVERNAL on Aug 28, 2015 8:12 PM
DustyRusty
just like I say
You are one of those I was praising in my bio. You take beautiful thoughtful pictures, young lady, and I thank you for being careful for so many of my family requests and also for your family's military service.
Added by DustyRusty on Aug 25, 2015 9:01 AM
LWB516
Willis Misner
Thank you for the great photo.
Added by LWB516 on Aug 24, 2015 6:08 AM
snm
Frank Armijo
Thank you so much for the nice photos to include on this man's memorial. It looks like he is buried in a lovely spot near the tree. Thanks again.
Added by snm on Aug 23, 2015 2:16 PM
Laura Hawkins
Mary McGovern
Thank you very much for the photo of Mary McGovern's headstone.
Added by Laura Hawkins on Aug 23, 2015 1:15 PM
CC
Photo
Thank you so much for photo. I live in southern
California and cant get to cemeteries in Albuquerque where my maternal family is from.
Thanks again,
Cecelia
Added by CC on Aug 23, 2015 6:58 AM
1_alewark
Memorial #69587493 for LOUIS Moore
Thank you for getting that photo and straightening that out! Louis =/= Louise.

Best wishes to you.
Added by 1_alewark on Aug 18, 2015 11:02 AM
Martha Cook Highley
Poland
Thank you so much for the photo!
Added by Martha Cook Highley on Aug 15, 2015 6:01 PM
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