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Dark Shadows (#47011952)
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Bio Photo I live in Grand Haven. That's in western Michigan, and is right on the shore of Lake Michigan.

I enjoy walking cemeteries with my better half, recording headstones here in Michigan. We do this while traveling also, taking pictures in interesting cemeteries and entering them here on FAG. I am mainly a marker recorder, entering pics on existing memorials and creating memorials for those not yet on this site.

Please ask first if you want to use my photos. They may be used only if I am given credit for them w/my permission. Thanks.

I am happy to have had the photograph I took of Maj. Noah Ferry's headstone published in the Civil War Historian magazine Spring 2009, Vol 5, Issue 1, page 20. I was asked permission, which I gave gladly, and was given credit for the photo. That's how it works.

Many memorials I manage are not related to me, and I will
transfer along FAG rules only - direct relatives up to 4 generations...siblings, parents, grandparents, great grandparents only. Ask by clicking on edit, then send me a note including your FAG number. Please don't create a duplicate memorial of anyone.

I do not add obituaries per FAG rules (unless it is pre-1923 per copyright laws).

I think Find A Grave is a great site.

"The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living" - Cicero

Why should I fear death? If I am, death is not. If death is, I am not. Why should I fear that which can only exist when I do not?

"You don't have a soul. You are a soul. You have a body."
― C.S. Lewis
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Al Ver Berkmoes
RE: Relationship
Its a small small world!
Added by Al Ver Berkmoes on Jul 01, 2014 1:54 PM
Al Ver Berkmoes
Was interested in how you might be related to Rodney and Diane Kelley. I went to school with Rodney.
Added by Al Ver Berkmoes on Jun 29, 2014 10:18 PM
Helena Grinwis Petersen Gorter
Find A Grave Memorial# 86928632, Helena Peterson Gorter's maiden name is Grinwis. She is the daughter of Albert and Alice Grinwis.

Her first husband was Gerrit Petersen (Find A Grave Memorial# 110827746), and her second was Floris Arie (or Arie Floris) Gorter. I don't know where he is buried.

Helena died in Muskegon, MI.

-Lenore (Frisian #47153292)

Added by Frisian on Jun 27, 2014 10:47 PM
Grammy & Poppy
May Hillman
having issues with edits did something wrong

May SPORES Hillman daughter of Celia Ellcey Spores

Birth 25 MAY 1883 in Chester, Ottawa, Michigan
Death Aug 13, 1908 in Wright, Ottawa, Michigan

Thank you
Added by Grammy & Poppy on Jun 01, 2014 2:07 PM
Margaret C Cowles
RE: memorial #38042544
Thanks so much. It worked. Now Uncle Wayne has the brothers we are able to locate so far. I cannot find Uncle Chuck, Uncle Jerry (Gerald who died in FL) and Uncle Lawrence. Still looking.
Added by Margaret C Cowles on May 14, 2014 6:26 AM
Robert Blackburn
Geraldine Bakale
Thank you for the heads up on the duplication of the subject memorial. I have removed one.

Added by Robert Blackburn on May 13, 2014 12:44 PM
Margaret C Cowles
memorial #38042544
Uncle Wayne (Cowles) is listed on each of his parents' (Thomas McKinley #75956326 and Martha Siendstrang #75956391) but not on any of his brothers' memorial (LaVern H or Harold R. for example)! It's new and maybe still has bugs! LOL

Is there any way you can help correct the oversight? If you deleted his parents and then re-entered them a day or so later, would that make the new way of adding siblings work?

Or do you know a way to draw it to the attention of the new crew now in Charge?

The new way of linking, name change, birth & death data, plot # & transcription is great! But there's still the duplicate problems not solved!

Thanks now for anything you can do to help us.
Added by Margaret C Cowles on May 13, 2014 12:02 PM
Carol Ciaramitaro
Emma Jane (Potts) Calkins
My apologies for giving you the memorial numbers for her grandparents.

Would you please correct the links to her parents as follows:
father - William Potts II - Find A Grave 6534107 and her
mother - Mary Ann (Pearson) Potts - Find A Grave 6534108

Thank you,
Added by Carol Ciaramitaro on Apr 08, 2014 12:55 PM
Pat Best
Zimmerman's-Lake Forest, GH
Hello, Thank you for all the work you have put into Find A Grave. I was wondering if you could connect the following Jane Zimmerman 97425328 and James Zimmerman 97425062 to mother Harriet Zimmerman Goodnight 97424976 and father John Zimmerman 97424921. Or transfer them all to me Pat Best 47800896 as they were my neighbors while growing up. Thank you.
Added by Pat Best on Feb 08, 2014 7:20 PM
Joseph Douglas
Hello, I was wondering if I may use your photo of the headstone for Joseph Douglas for my Ancestry Tree?

Thank you,

Added by ProctorPPM on Jan 02, 2014 8:14 AM
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