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Calmly Searching (#47240541)
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Bio Photo "When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am in who you are. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart." Fredrick Beekner


Thank you in advance for the many updates and links that I receive almost daily for my memorials. I strive to keep up with them.

Before accepting information in edits now, there is a great effort made to confirm the information you send. One edit sent to me, may take 4 to 6 hours of my time searching on ancestry and other genealogy sites to complete. I gather the records for said edit, gain knowledge of the family, contact other contributors to link family members that I am able to find, so that the entire family can be linked on any given memorial.

Please make sure your information is accurate, so that I can accept it. There are a lot of people being linked to those they do not belong to due to so many "same names". It is an easy mistake, I know, as it has happened to me in the past. When possible, follow your loved one from birth to death, check your dates and locations lived to make sure it is the correct memorial.

Know that I appreciate your time and effort. Please, be respectful of my time and effort. If I have made an error, sign in to Find A Grave, and send me an edit. If you have documentation of your information, include that as well.

I would also like to thank the many volunteers that give freely of their time, knowledge, and efforts on behalf of people searching for answers and hoping to breathe life back into their ancestors, walking cemeteries, taking photos, editing photos uploading and creating memorials.

Find a Grave is kept up by a United community of genealogists, historians, (beginners and experts) all of which of course, are VOLUNTEERS. We do not get paid for what we do here.

Creating memorials and fulfilling photo requests is a labor of love for me. If you appreciate something I've added, please pay it forward! If you receive "freely", give "freely"

Please click the "Edit" tab on the individual memorial, then the "Suggest A Correction" link on the specific memorial you would like me to update or transfer. ***PLEASE DO NOT SEND CORRECTIONS AS PUBLIC MESSAGES***
Transfer requests should be requested on the "edit" tab. Include your relationship, and your contributor name and number.

Keep in mind, those of us who list the memorials are only human, sometimes we make mistakes, let us know,and Never forget: We Are Volunteers. VOLUNTEERS. Our time and work are given freely.

The quote of Fredrick Beekner is borrowed from my cousin Mike Perkins memorial.

I am of the belief that "no one is truly gone, until they are forgotten." Phyllis Behrendt 2008

So with all this said, I will continue to visit cemeteries and take photos of graves, and hope someday to find more of my family,and maybe some of yours. Until then I will remain.... Calmly Searching..........

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RE: Laverna Sullenberger
I am so happy that you liked the photos.

Added by VDR on Aug 19, 2016 8:54 PM
Bruce Wertz
richard Barton Flora
Thank you for the cemetery information about Richard barton Flora
Added by Bruce Wertz on Aug 19, 2016 1:46 PM
deanna french
Colorado Civil Warl Levi R.Durant
I am a Vermont Civil War buff, and am working on a project to identify the last resting places of many of our "old soldiers" that had roots in Vt.Levi R. Durant is one such patriot. May I use the photo that you contributed to his Find A Grave memorial to post on the Vt. C.W. site? (

You would receive credit for this.
Thank you for your consideration.

Deanna French
Added by deanna french on Aug 18, 2016 7:43 AM
Steve & Christy Pauli
RE: Battlerock Cemetery
I see the problem. There are two cemeteries in the canyon. One has over a hundred graves in it and that is the one behind the school. There is a private cemetery tucked in a canyon that very few people ever see and it is little but we have been there. Us and the rattlesnakes.
Added by Steve & Christy Pauli on Aug 07, 2016 8:26 PM
Shirley Utley Cressler
Hal Bane #117424207
Hi there: Just to let you know there is an obit in the Monticello paper for this man. It is interesting should you be interested in adding it.
thanks, Shirley
Added by Shirley Utley Cressler on Jul 31, 2016 10:39 AM
William Faught
RE: Kathleen Greenlee
Added by William Faught on Jul 16, 2016 8:21 AM
Jim Childers
RE: Agnes Dolores
Thank you so much for the gravestone picture. It's nice to see someone is working this cemetery. I was hoping to get up to Turtle Lake yet this summer, and that was one of my 'to do' things! Dee was married to Bill for many years, I think he was more her 'soul mate' than her other husbands. Bill was a really nice guy. When she was married to Bill they only lived a block and half from me and I used to see them a lot. Dee died only 2 1/2 weeks after my mother (her sister). Dee was the youngest of four girls, my mom the oldest. With Dee's passing, it was the last of that generation in our Jewett lineage. Lots of wonderful memories of all four of the sisters!! Thanks again for the grave picture! And thanks also for all you do on Findagrave! ~Jim C.
Added by Jim Childers on Jul 08, 2016 10:13 AM
RE: Donald Denison
My apologies Calmly Seraching for not responding to your email. I have not been working nor seeing emails from Findagrave for some months now and only just returned after a long hiatus. It appears the duplication has been removed.
Added by Marianna on Jul 05, 2016 2:27 AM
Patricia Fitzgerald
Thank you for the transfer! Also, you are an angel for all the work you have done and your diligence to make sure the information added and edited is as accurate as possible! This is why Find A grave is such a wonderful resource for connecting family! And the quote about not gone until forgotten. That is so so true. Again - thank you. Roxxi
Added by Roxxi on Jul 04, 2016 9:24 AM
K. Medved
RE: Jeanne Gallaher
You are very welcome. Kay
Added by K. Medved on Jun 22, 2016 9:45 PM
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