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4losthistory (#46983562)
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Bio Photo I have recorded the birth date, death date, and last address of your family members. Now it is your turn to edit and enhance their memorials, for the enjoyment of future generations.

Thank you so much to the people who generously donate their time and money to provide information, photographs, and floral contributions to people who may never be able to thank them. I especially appreciate those who remember this is much bigger than ourselves and consistently maintain their memorials in a professional manner, treating others volunteers in the respectful way in which they like to be treated.
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The "Relationship Link" feature is an amazing way to link family members and build your family tree. You can link each memorial to his/her parent(s) and spouse(s). To use this feature:
1) Select "Edit" next to "Family Links" or
"Link Family Members" for first link
2) Type in (or copy and paste) the memorial number of the parent(s) or spouse(s) in the appropriate box.
3) Select "Save Changes"
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Steward for these memorials when I pass
on is "RTerry" #46537864 .
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Fifth, The "Suggest a correction" feature may also be used to submit corrections, an original biography, and family links to memorials that do not fall under the above defintion. (Be sure to include the memorial ID#s for the family links and how they are related, father, mother or spouse. The original contributor should make any corrections and add any additional information you have for that memorial, such as links to parents and spouses, provided the information is accurate.

Sixth, Please note that it is not appropriate to request a transfer and then, after receiving the transfer, delete that page and substitute it with a new memorial that you have created. This practice denies credit to the original contributor. Please use the original memorial page to make updates and add information.

I HAVE HAD AN OVERABUNDANT AMOUNT OF BAD EXPERIENCES TRANSFERRING MEMORIALS TO MEMBERS WHO QUICKLY LOSE INTEREST AND ABANDON THE MEMORIALS I CREATED. WHEN I LOOK AT YOUR PROFILE AND I SEE YOU HAVE HAD HUNDREDS, OR THOUSANDS, OF MEMORIALS TRANSFERRED TO YOU, I WONDER ABOUT THE NECESSITY SINCE YOU ARE ONLY DIRECTLY DESCENDED FROM 30 PEOPLE ACCORDING TO FINDAGRAVE GUIDELINES. ONE TRANSFER REQUEST CAME WITH A NOTE ABOUT ALL OF THE BIOGRAPHICAL INFORMATION SHE HAD TO POST WHICH CONSISTED OF "THIS WAS MY FIFTH GREAT GRANDPAPPY WHO I LOVED VERY MUCH". THAT, SOMEWHAT SUSPECT, BIOGRAPHY COULD HAVE BEEN POSTED ON A FLOWER TRIBUTE. I RESEARCH ALL CORRECTIONS SUBMITTED TO ME FOR ACCURACY BECAUSE THERE IS A LOT OF MISINFORMATION AND FAMILY TREES WHICH ARE ALL MESSED UP ON RESEARCH SITES. ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS I HAVE BUILT TWO SEPARATE FAMILIES IN FINDAGRAVE SO THAT THEY WILL BACKFEED CORRECTLY INTO ANCESTRY. I AM TICKLED TO RECEIVE NEW EDITS AND LINKS, AND AM EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA EXCITED ABOUT PICTURES AND STORIES TO PERSONALIZE THE MEMORIALS. AND I AM EXTRA EXTRA EXTRA UNHAPPY WHEN PEOPLE TRY TO GET ME TO REMOVE INFORMATION IN ORDER TO REWRITE THEIR HISTORY TO PLEASE THEM.
I AM AN UNBIASED CARETAKER WILLING TO POST ALL THE DOCUMENTED INFORMATION YOU PROVIDE AND HAVE WORKED VERY CLOSELY WITH OTHER FINDAGRAVE MEMBERS FOR YEARS EXCHANGING INFORMATION TO HELP BUILD YOUR FAMILY HISTORY. MOST OF MY DIRECT ANCESTORS WERE BUILT BY AN EARLY PIONEER TO FINDAGRAVE WHO POSTED ALL OF THE INFORMATION I REQUESTED AND TAUGHT ME HOW TO DO IMBEDDED LINKS BEFORE THE RELATIONSHIP LINK FEATURE WAS ADDED. OVER TIME I HAVE TALKED HIM OUT OF A FEW OF THEM, BUT NOW SEEMS TO HAVE MOVED TO FLORIDA AND FOUND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO WITH HIS TIME. [I'M TALKING ABOUT YOU BERN] PUH-LEEZE DON'T OBSESS ABOUT OWNING THE MEMORIALS OF EXTENDED FAMILY.
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Estelle Clark
Tuck family- Maplewood etc
HI there... I have a complicated issue I need to "discuss" with you but don't want to post the entire, complicated narrative here. If you could email me at estelle.clark@gmail.som, I will send info and issues to your email. It involves memorials for Gladys Tuck and Ira Tuck at Maplewood. Thanks. ~Estelle
Added by Estelle Clark on Dec 14, 2014 9:17 AM
Michael West
Thanks
I would like to thank you for all the work you have done. I would also request if you could transfer the Bessie Irene SPARKS West memorial to me. # 42415376

Are you related at all to the WEST or SPARKS ancestors? She is my grandmother.

Thanks again.

Michael Joel West
Added by Michael West on Dec 10, 2014 11:37 AM
Pam438
Memorial# 121383918
I see that you got your information for Lillian from the NC Death Indexes.
Where did you get the information for parents and siblings?
Thanks for all your hard work and postings!
Added by Pam438 on Nov 24, 2014 12:29 PM
NChirco
#38542092
The above memorial is for my 3rd Great Grandfather on my father's side, Robert Wallace of Person County, NC. I am now managing the direct line of descendants of his to me (including spouses). I am managing his wife's memorial, Jane #29928672. I would like to ask you to transfer management to me; my contributor number is 47499301, user name NChirco
Thank you.
Nancy
Added by NChirco on Nov 20, 2014 10:21 AM
imatarheel
Ray family links
Happy you figured that one out. So missed her in the same plot as E H Ray. I pulled up the mother's record based on the date and of course a transcribing error maiden name Emary. It was correct on familysearch.org. They do a much better job.
Regards,Danna
Added by imatarheel on Nov 15, 2014 7:46 AM
amh0705
Borghild Treff
Hi,

I am trying to find my relative, Borghild Lee. She was born abt. 1902 or 1903 in Aitkin CO., MN to Anne (Anna) Dreyer and Oluf Lee. I don't know who she married, or when she died. The info you have on Borghild Treff is similar to mine, but the parents are different. Do you have any other information on Treff? Borghild Treff's mother's maiden name is also Dreyer.

Thanks,

Andrea
Added by amh0705 on Nov 13, 2014 10:13 AM
Randy Butts
JT Oliver
Thank you for making the edits and links to the Jim Oliver memorial and for all the extra research, it was a big help to me in doing my Everett family tree!
Added by Randy Butts on Oct 16, 2014 8:00 PM
PKA Mack
Edith Winston
I am interested in updating information on my fourth great grandparents:
John and Edith Winston buried in the Winston Cemetery in Youngsville, NC on the Long Bay Elementary property.
It is my understanding that the graves are in poor condition but through my six years of research, I have their birth and death dates.
I would like to be able to add information to their find a grave pages and that can be done if you transfer my family pages to me. I've been a member of Find A Grave for six years and have 78 accounts.
You can reach me at:
twoshadesofblue2004@yahoo.com
Please subject it: Find A Grave John and Edith Winston.
Thank you so much for your help.
I read your lengthy information and say thank you. I am willing to forward the information I would like to add to their pages, if you want to maintain their pages. I would like to link them to my family for others in my family.
Thanks so much,
Peggy Kelley Mack
My mother, Ernestine Clara Winston Kelley
Added by PKA Mack on Oct 15, 2014 12:40 PM
Richard Smith
James L Smith
Burial:
Antioch Baptist Church Cemetery
White Cross
Orange County
North Carolina, USA

James father was Thomas Smith. James and Delilah Hatch were married Oct 2,1867 in orange nc.
Delilah F Andrews was first married to john Hatch Sep 20, 1860 in Orange,nc.
Delilah F. hatch smith that is also in this same cemetery. Her parents were David Andrews and Joanna Edwards.
Added by Richard Smith on Oct 12, 2014 5:55 PM
SMcGaughey
RE: Hall Otis Seals #46649774
Thanks...I found several headstones in that area that were moved from East Durham; none of them had dates on the stones. I found a reference in a 1937 list of cemeteries to East Durham cemetery (Col) "near East Durham airport", but haven't found anything else about it. Perhaps it was on land that became RDU. Just guessing.
Added by SMcGaughey on Oct 07, 2014 6:08 PM
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