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misshana33 (#47718597)
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Bio Photo I've spent years searching for my own family history and have been feeling the need to help others discover theirs. I'm excited to have the opportunity to help submit photos.
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Vincent Beffa 18253340
I noticed you are also interested in the Beffa family. My great-great aunt Hattie Flunker was briefly married to Vincent Beffa. She was his second wife (out of 3) and it was a short marriage.

The story told to me by my mother was that Hattie cheated on him and then they either divorced or annulled. She also said they had a daughter named Patty and that because Hattie cheated, she lost custody.

Do you have any knowledge of this daughter? I've not found a single record to support a birth. I have a photo that might be her. My mother remembers her mother showing her a photo of a child on a pony and saying it was Hattie's daughter Patty. After my grandmother's death, I received some of her old photos. One is a photo of a child on a pony but now my mom cannot remember if it is the correct photo.

I've also not located any more records on Hattie besides the marriage license for her and Vincent. I've found his death certificate.

Any information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!
Added by Rogers on Mar 31, 2015 10:04 AM
RE: Vincent
yes a bunch of them
Added by racheal1977 on Aug 06, 2013 6:31 PM
Did you see this ? I am thinking you did LOL

All the way at the bottom
Added by racheal1977 on Aug 06, 2013 5:19 PM
RE: Beffa
John Beffa's parents were Alessandro and Mary.

I am thinking all the MO Beffas are related, esp since most of them are in the same cemetery
Added by racheal1977 on Aug 06, 2013 4:45 PM
RE: Beffa
My mother in law is, She was adopted in 1958 & we just recently found her birth family, Her Grandparents were Nicholas & Ruth Follmer, Ruth was a Beffa Ruths parents are John Beffa and Katie Beffa. Does any of that sound familiar ?
Added by racheal1977 on Aug 06, 2013 3:21 PM
I noticed you left a flower on alexander Beffas memorial, Was just wondering if you were related to the Beffas ?
Added by racheal1977 on Aug 06, 2013 1:13 PM
Judy Willis
RE: Myrtle Hepp
You're very welcome. I posted the same photo on the memorial page of John Hepp.

Added by Judy Willis on Jun 29, 2012 10:33 PM
William Grassmann
The links you sent for William's parents have been added. I also gave the owner of his parents' memorials some additional information about them and asked her to link them to their parents, which she did.

You mentioned that you don't know how to add links from children to parents. It's very easy.

The owner of the child's memorial must:

1. Click on the place where it says Link family members.

2. A form will appear with boxes where you enter the Find A Grave memorial number for the father, mother and/or spouse.

3. Then click on Save changes.

Only the owner of the child's memorial can link him/her to the parents.

If you want to link spouses, you follow the same steps as above. Either the owner of the wife or the husband can link spouses.

Thanks again for letting me know who William's parents were.

Added by Lynn on Jun 29, 2012 8:54 AM
Joseph Crone
Thanks for your efforts reference Alexander Bingham and Sarah Bingham.

I hate it when there is no marker

Added by Joseph Crone on Mar 02, 2012 6:49 AM
Susan Ing
Grassmann's at Hillcrest Abbey
They are in the same niche as a couple of Watson's so the niche will say Watson. I will get the photo from my home computer and put it on tonight.

Added by Susan Ing on Feb 22, 2012 9:58 AM
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