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Tim & Grace (#46907821)
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Bio Photo I have been doing genealogical research since 1984. I retired from the Air Force in 1994. I recently became a volunteer of RAOGK (Random Acts of Genealogical Kindness) for Somerset County, Maine. I am a member of the Maine Old Cemeteries Association, the New England Historic Genealogical Society, and the Buckfield Historical Society. I am also Historian and Past Commander of John D. Long Post #58, American Legion, Buckfield, Maine. I am a son of Donald Mackay Cooper and Ruth Marcelyn Hersey.

REUNITING FAMILIES ON FINDAGRAVE
Findagrave is an excellent way to reunite families by linking them together. Most families are buried together, so finding where they are buried helps to reconstruct families. Linking them together using the census is also helpful. I have a few "trees" on ancestry.com that I use in conjunction with my findagrave research. Not everyone can afford membership to ancestry.com, so linking families together on findagrave can help more people find their lost kin.

I will [Transfer] memorials.
I feel that we can make more meaningful memorials on FindAGrave if volunteers can work together instead of using the "Family First policy of Four Generations" as an excuse to keep memorials from being corrected...

TEAMWORK TRANSFERS
If you are afraid of making transfers (I guess in the old days people would delete the transferred memorial) there is an alternative to the long and tedious process of having the other contributor "spoon feed" the information to you. Do a "temporary transfer". This is done the same as a normal transfer, but with the understanding that once the updates and links are made, it gets transferred BACK to the creator. This involves TRUST. It is best to do just one memorial at a time. If it doesn't get transferred back... NO MORE SOUP FOR YOU! "Fool me once, shame on you... fool me twice, shame on me!" Please, give it a try. There are so many "inactive" volunteers these days, the rest of us need to be able to work together and not bicker. When you click on [Transfer Management] the instructions state: "This action is PERMANENT and can not be undone." This is misleading. The PERMANENT implies that it will be lost to you FOREVER. That is true only if it NEVER gets transferred back to your control. The other aspect of TEAMWORK TRANSFER is that the person who contributes the research can add their name in the bio or notes with an embedded link. Contributors who say they will add information that you send to them don't always credit their source. They don't want others taking credit for the photos they post, but they don't think twice about taking credit for other people's research. Just pass it off as their own.

I have been working on families in Maine in the early 1800s, about the time that Maine became a state separate from Massachusetts. Many of these people seem to have gotten "lost in the shuffle", so I am trying to find where they are buried and link the families together.

I also have a "permission slip" from the Public Affairs office at Togus to take photos of the gravestones of the Disabled Volunteer Soldiers from the Eastern Branch of U.S. National Home that are buried in Togus National Cemetery.

UNKNOWN BURIAL LOCATIONS
Some people won't link to "unknown burial locations". A lot of old gravestones are "lost" in old cemeteries that have been neglected over the years. "Roots" helped to renew interest in cemeteries back in the 1970s. Old "lost" cemeteries are still being discovered as old family homesteads are being sold in this depressed economy. The families who lived there may have known about the old cemetery, but nobody else did.
Many of those old timers passed away long ago. We often know when and where they lived and died, but just don't know where their gravestone is. It is irresponsible to just stick them in any old cemetery in the town that they died in. It is a sure bet that SOMEBODY will request a gravestone photo and then someone else will go off on a "wild goose chase" looking for the gravestone.
When "unknown burial location" is used, there is always a risk of "duplication" if the gravestone is ever found in the real world.

VIRTUAL CEMETERIES
By the way... these are all "virtual" cemeteries... this is the internet! Any resemblance to "real" cemeteries in the "real" world is purely coincidental. Right now Findagrave is more like FOUNDagrave. If they don't have a gravestone still standing... they didn't exist!!!

Just my opinion. Opinions are like rectums, we all have one... and the older we get the harder it is to keep from hearing them to ourselves!

"Live Long and Prosper!" \V/,
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Gary Bonney
RE: Thomas Bonney, Jr. in Sumnerfield Cemetery AKA: Chaffin Yard
Hi Tim:
Thanks. I knew you would have the info
Regards
Gary
Added by Gary Bonney on Dec 17, 2014 6:05 PM
Gary Bonney
Thomas Bonney, Jr ???
Hi Tim: It's been a long time. I hope you are doing well.
I have a mystery for you.
You created and transferred to me memorial 39827734 Thomas Bonney. You have a photo of the marker. You show him buried at Chaffin cemetery, Oxford Co., Me.
I just came across another memorial (130594523) for Thomas by Denise R. She shows him in Buckfield Village cemetery, Oxford Co., Me. She has the identical photo on her marker.
Question what cemetery is he in?
Regards
Gary
garybonney@verizon.net
Added by Gary Bonney on Dec 16, 2014 9:13 PM
Rob Hoyt
Cynthietta Hoyt
Hey, you wanna hear something neat (If you didn't know already)? I'm 90% certain that the Charles Bailey that officiated Cynthia's marriage was her father's uncle. Something happened and the Morang boys changed their last names: Joseph to Hoyt and Charles to Bailey.
Added by Rob Hoyt on Dec 15, 2014 11:41 PM
Rob Hoyt
RE: Freddie Hoyt
Thank you for your reply regarding Fred Hoyt. I have found strikingly contradictory information regarding his death. I'm just beginning my research on him. I am attempting to follow the lines of the Hoyts originating in Whitefield, Maine. Cynthia Etta is soon on my list. (I decided to begin with the males.)
Added by Rob Hoyt on Dec 15, 2014 8:09 PM
Rob Hoyt
Fred Hoyt
Hi, I noticed you left "flowers" on the page for Fred Hoyt (1877-1921). Is he a relative of yours?
Added by Rob Hoyt on Dec 15, 2014 2:03 AM
SkiCountryClan
William Sergeant
Thank you so much for taking this photograph for me!!
Added by SkiCountryClan on Dec 08, 2014 7:38 PM
Jim Record
Harry & Elsie Record Transfer
Hi Tim & Grace, Thank you for the transfer of my grandparents. I will add their Bio's the 1st chance I have. Thanks again Jim Record
Added by Jim Record on Dec 04, 2014 3:45 PM
Jim Record
Transer
Hi Tim & Grace
Wondering if you would transfer my grandfather Harry Record 84027212 and my grandmother Elsie Faunce Record 84027223. Thanks Jim Record
Added by Jim Record on Dec 04, 2014 1:17 PM
James Standing
George Standing
Tim & Grace,
Thanks for taking the time to photograph the memorial of George Standing for me. It looks like you have some snow on the ground, hope it was not too cold that day. Tim I spent a little time in the Air Force also back the in mid '60's, long time ago now.

May I have your permission to use this photograph in my genealogy research?

Thanks Jim
Added by James Standing on Dec 04, 2014 10:06 AM
Lulabell
RE: Alice & George Lewis in Mount Feake Cemetery
Glad I came across them for you :)

Lu
Added by Lulabell on Dec 03, 2014 12:38 PM
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