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Judy Lu (#46799760)
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Bio Photo "Perhaps there are no stars, only openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pour through and shine down upon us to let us know that they are happy"

I am a retired state worker. I have been retired for over 11 years now, retiring from Nevada Highway Patrol as a Administrative Aide II, in July of 2003. Retiring was the best thing that I have ever done for myself. I am married and have one daughter, three grandchildren and three great grandchildren.

I have been putting names on Obituary Daily Times since 1997. At that time I started keeping the obits that were written up in the local newspapers so I could help people do their genealogy and locate loved ones that have passed on.
I enjoy doing genealogy very much and have traced my family clear back to 1618, so why not help other people that are interested in doing it. I research Wakefield, Staley, Campbell, Stargell and Walker lines. I also run two online gift and collectibles stores and three auctions sites. I am busier now than I have ever been when I was working. Keeps me out of trouble. (Grin) I love writing the stores up about those who have passed on and I hope that when my turn comes, someone will do the same for me.

If tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there for you to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears that are for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry them
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things we did,
But didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you about me,
I know you'll miss me so;

When tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called me by name,
And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All the people that I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much left in life yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I am leaving you.

I thought about all of the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all that we have shared,
And all the fun we have had.

If I could relive yesterdays,
Just even for just a little while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you with a smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this will never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place inside of me.

And when I thought about the worldly things,
I might miss some in the tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart will be filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through Heaven's golden gates,
I felt so much that I was at home.
When God looked down and smiled on me,
From His great golden throne,

He said, "This is your eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today your life on earth has past,
But here in Heaven life starts anew.

I promise you no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day will be the same way,
There's no longing for the past.

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Please don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm always right there, in your heart "
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RE: Christeen Mitchell
Thank you very much for transferring Christeen to me and for doing such a nice job setting up her memorial. I just added her parents to her page. I'm also eventually going to set up pages for her siblings and then link them to her. Alyssa
Added by Alyssa on Sep 12, 2014 11:46 AM
Ross Woolsey
RE: Johnny Dwayne Curry
no sorry I can see it when I go back
Added by Ross Woolsey on Jul 11, 2014 5:13 PM
Ross Woolsey
Johnny Dwayne Curry
Johnny Dwayne Curry can you put him in the Hurricane
Added by Ross Woolsey on Jul 10, 2014 6:44 PM
S.K. Mach
RE: Margaret Louise
Thank you!
Added by S.K. Mach on Jun 13, 2014 11:40 AM
Shirley Gragg
RE: Sarah Wright/Thomas Hill
Judy - nice to meet you, cousin :) I'm working with a descendant of Benjamin Wright, Sr. to see if she knows where the cemetery is. I have a page on Sarah, written by Osee Johnson Knouf [great researcher!] - if you contact me at will send it to you.
Added by Shirley Gragg on Jan 16, 2014 12:16 PM
Shirley Gragg
Sarah Wright/Thomas Hill
Find A Grave Memorial# 110318936- Are you related to Sarah & Thomas were linked there. I'm looking to find where Sarah might be buried; have found nothing, but have some info on her. She is daughter of my 3re GGF and half-sister to my GGM [Richard Wright, Jr.'s daughter by 2nd marriage to Caroline Kittrell. Any info appreciated.
Added by Shirley Gragg on Jan 16, 2014 7:16 AM
Elizebeth Bland
My grandmother's memorial
Thank you for creating this. Though if you notice her head stone is in correct and now both of her daughters are deceased. I returned home to Elko after nearly 10 years to find this mistake if you have any information on how I can have it corrected I would greatly appreciate it as she was my world and I miss her very much

Sincerly yours
Elizebeth Bland Ruth loves grand daughter
Added by Elizebeth Bland on Nov 04, 2013 1:45 AM
Loneta Boyer
Thank you
Thank you for the transfer of Cecil Sharp's memorial--I am hoping to combine the two existing memorials, and add more to his story.
This will take time, and I hope to engage his sister in the completed memorial. Thank you so much, this is a gift to our family. Loneta Boyer
Added by Loneta Boyer on Oct 15, 2013 10:41 AM
Loneta Boyer
Cecil Sharp
i just found out that I duplicated a memorial that you had made for Cecil Sharp (C A as he was known to my family.) This is a very personal and emotional story--would you mind contacting me at my email address I prefer not to put it on the public website. Thank you Loneta Boyer
P. S. The family did not know of his death until I was notified, and I put it on the next day.
Added by Loneta Boyer on Oct 05, 2013 4:56 PM
Heather Sawyer
Thank you again
Thank you for transferring her memorial to me. I am just so touched by the kindness of you and others on this site. You are obviously a very special person and as I reflect back on the pain of the past 15 years I am so grateful for the love and kindness given to me.

~ Heather
Added by Heather Sawyer on Sep 16, 2013 6:37 PM
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