RE: Richard Melzer grave maker The funeral home A. Nosek and Sons is now called Nosek and McCreery in Breaksville Ohio. Yes you may use the photo on facebook. That is really strange that both dates are wrong and that his own sister didn't know the dates.
RE: Lyman M. and Glady Miller Came across some information from someone who started going through Highland cemetery before Find A Grave was around. I updated the memorials. Hopefully this helps you figure out if they are who you think they are. Will try to get a photo soon.