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CryptoGram (#46897564)
 member for 8 years, 8 months, 13 days
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Bio Photo Grief never ends,
but it changes.
It is a passage,
not a place to stay.
Grief is not a sign of
weakness or lack of faith...
it is the price of love.

The words above are thought to be based on a eulogy Queen Elizabeth made for her sister Princess Margaret.

I don't make more than a couple memorials a day on average, but have done research into the families of lots of them...same for many whose pictures I post...making me gladly able to help with most anyone's ancestral brick walls however I can.

As the activity on FindAGrave increases, memorials and pictures left to be added decrease. There are already over 125,000,000 memorials; so considering that half the people who ever lived on Planet Earth are living now, and that it's unknown where over 90% of the dead many does that leave? -LOL and go figure.

When the picture "request" function first started, pix were limited in size to 250K: a comparatively tiny 1/32 of 8M now allowed. Back then there was only one guy and me taking pix in Arlington National (all that white granite for matching military markers comes from Vermont...not China :^), and there weren't many requests, so you can see how membership and contributions have exploded! I've had to tell my eager grandboy that there will probably be little picture-taking left to do when another seven years pass, just always recent deaths to add.

Us'uns who are willing & able: little burial grounds usually need cleaning and repairs; but don't go alone, and be careful ~ I've encountered snakes and Black Widow spiders...and been told creepy tales about the LIVING I might encounter.

Some might think others of us are too possessive about pictures we take/post, but you probably haven't encountered a self-aggrandizer who deletes memorials after lifting the pictures others added to them and then remakes memorials with same pictures claimed as their own. As on any real city block, not everything is hunky-dory here; and not all the neighbors are nice. It takes just one rotten apple plus a few manipulators, stalkers, and green-eyed game players...especially the ones who post wrong poor-quality pictures on purpose, change names &/or places of burial to make originals look like duplicates, &/or put deaths willy-nilly into incorrect cemeteries just to inflate their "contributions" and then get huffy & vindictive when others notice the obvious, require the rest of us in the barrel to ignore the inappropriate comedy of their intentional errors.

COMMENTS ON MESSAGES TO ME ABOUT COPYRIGHT ISSUES, INCLUDING FindAGrave's OWN rules and regulations, found here ~ FindAGrave FAQs ~ which admonish, among else: >>The copyright of all photos posted to Find A Grave remains with the original submitter. No use of photos for any other website or personal use is given without prior consent of the original submitter.<<

Sad to have to point out that I have posted no pictures on, but some members there and elsewhere online lifted pictures I DID add to FindAGrave ~ ESPECIALLY of KINFOLK ~ & reposted them as their own with no credit given. When you see a picture on identical to one I've added to FaG, mine is the original; if included posting dates, I would not have to explain this. It's also quite silly that when I & others have made family trees there from personal information, they're noted as having no sources, but then when others copy same, their "source" is US!

You can use pictures I've taken and posted on this site in your online family trees by making a connective link to the original and/or including " FindAGrave member #46897564"; none may be sold and/or exchanged for any type of payment.

Why I got on FindAGrave:

I oversaw the newsletter of Colonel David Hackworth, military author/ commentator/ columnist with 8 Purple Hearts, for several years until he died from the effects of Agent Blue (used along with Agent Orange in Vietnam) while my husband was off in a war zone; at which time I needed a new focus and determined to pin-point our then-totally-unknown ancestors: at least 28 Revolutionary War Patriots, his Mayflower and Salem "witch" ancestors, my Swedish "hanky-panky in the palace" & Scottish Robert the Bruce people...and many *ships who pass in the night* ~ then sometimes remain friends ~ who have been great fun, challenges, and blessings to find.

So, at the onset in 2005, I was first able to find basic facts of the missing Major James Powell, and began a two-year mission to restore his legacy which was lost upon his death at Shiloh 145 years ago today as I write this 06APRIL2007. This long walk, still being shared with both living and non-bodied souls, is what educated me in how to usually quite rapidly find pertinent data for you "strangers," which I still remain happily willing to do!

My biggest peeve in research was seeing my favorite greatgrandmother constantly referred to as "Mrs. G.: husband's first initial and married name" ~ most ALL females losing their identities up into the 1960s; so I'm elated whenever I successfully work the puzzles ~ better than word math, sudoku, or cryptograms ~ of finding and posting ladies' maiden names as the most appropriate and long-lasting FLOWERS to their memories, and alas, I still have just ONE nee name in my own Heck(ofA)family to dig up.

May all of Granny Vance's roses perpetually bloom bright and happy!

The book of life is brief,
And once the pages read
All but love is dead:
That is my belief.
(sung by Bobby Goldsboro in 1970...when he & God were watching Scotty grow)

God is Love.
(1 John 4:8)
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Messages left for CryptoGram (3484)[Leave Message]
John Iacoletti
Diana and Farid Sada
Thank you so much for the photos!
Added by John Iacoletti on Nov 26, 2015 5:19 PM
Shana Greer
Thank you so much for the photos of Ralph Bloom resting place and all the work you do helping others.

Added by Shana Greer on Nov 25, 2015 6:14 AM
Nancy Carman-Engle
RE: Thank you
My Grandmother said at one time there was a marker but the last she visited there was no markers. That was quite some time ago. I have contacted the Cemetery to see if we can possibly get a replacement made for him. Thanks again.
Added by Nancy Carman-Engle on Nov 24, 2015 3:23 PM
Nancy Carman-Engle
Thank you
Thank you so very much for heading out to the cemetery to look for my G.Grandfathers Grave. I really appreciate you taking the time.

Added by Nancy Carman-Engle on Nov 24, 2015 12:24 PM
Claudia Pawson Goodman
Albert Anderson
Thank You for the quick response to my request for a photo.
Added by Claudia Pawson Goodman on Nov 23, 2015 12:57 PM
Sharon Martinez
Long photo
Wow, thanks so much for your quick response. I appreciate your willingness to volunteer.
Added by Sharon Martinez on Nov 23, 2015 7:07 AM
Marcy Edwards
Thank-you for taking a photo of Bernice Swarts's headstone. I appreciate all your work.
Marcy Edwards
Added by Marcy Edwards on Nov 22, 2015 4:37 AM
Marjorie Crews
Ref. Centennial Gardens
It is a Beautiful Place on line. I'm sorry I can't help you with Yelton, but it has been great meeting and talking with you. If I can be of any more help just let me know. Blessings, Marjorie
Added by Marjorie Crews on Nov 21, 2015 9:13 PM
Marjorie Crews
Centennial Gardens
I was referring to Centennial Gardens that is part of Sunset Memorial Park, Albuquerque, New Mexico.
You took a photo of it and all the other sections of the Cemetery. All I know is what I read on Find a Grave. I have never been there. I live in Georgia.
Added by Marjorie Crews on Nov 21, 2015 6:12 PM
Juan, Cecillia & Anotolio Olguin, Joe, Mary & Estella Sandoval, Pascual & Marie Cotinola, Alice Sanc
Thank you once again for all the family photos. Your time & trouble are greatly appreciated.

Added by Rosalie on Nov 21, 2015 12:57 PM
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