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Carol & Mel Hochstetler (#46859544)
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Bio Photo Find A Grave contributor Anonymous 2 -
this is for you: sense you have your messages turned off, I have no choice but to leave you a message here in hopes that you see it. This is what I received today, 7/4/16


Find A Grave contributor Anonymous 2 has made a suggestion to you regarding your Find A Grave memorial for Stephen Abel.
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This is in regards to "H RAY SWANK".

I don't know WHO you are, however, I have sent FAG a complaint asking who you are and what gives you the right to go into one of my memorials and make changes. According to the obituary all that is listed is H Ray Swank, NOT Harold Ray "Ray" Swank. I'm responsible for his memorial not you. Please DO NOT go into my account again and make changes to anything. I will be declining everything from you from here on out. I don't appreciate deception. How many other memorials have you gone into and made changes without permission?"

My response:

I'm sorry you're so upset. I didn't think I had such powers. All I did was fill our an edit request to inform you what his name was and that they called him by his middle name. Isn't that what the edit button was made for? I realize I'm old and only been a member for 9 years but this has never happened before that I know of. I thought we were suppose to help one another and share the information we had. My memorials are not mine, I'm simply a care taker while I'm here, until someone who loves them wishes to be their caretaker and request a transfer.

Thank-you for the blessed holiday.
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Messages left for Carol & Mel Hoc... (337)[Leave Message]
RE: Lois Hubner
Hi Carol,

I am related to Lois. She and my dad were cousins. I never had the opportunity to meet Lois and her sisters, but knew their mother Mary Miller very well. She is the one who sparked my interested in genealogy many years ago. I found that Andrew Miller wasn't listed so I added him to this site. Find A Grave has been a big asset in my family search and I enjoy it very much. Are you also related Lois?

Added by KarenMillerLeake on Sep 27, 2016 8:44 AM
Cindy (Nekvasil) Hester
RE: David Brewer IV -101795620
Yeah, I think the main site had been hacked. Not to worry, I cite her as a source. . That is also cited in the Greenwood Cemetery records.
Added by Cindy (Nekvasil) Hester on Sep 25, 2016 8:28 AM
Scott G. Brooke
RE: Vernon B. Marcus
Thank you for making the picture of Vernon B. Marcus grave marker happen. I greatly appreciate your help with this. Scott Brooke.
Added by Scott G. Brooke on Sep 23, 2016 4:21 PM
RE: Vernon B. Marcus - New Carlisle Cemetery, St Joseph Co.
It worked out that I had time to get to New Carlisle this morning, so was able to take and post the photo needed. Happy to help.
Added by bill3262 on Sep 18, 2016 8:33 AM
C & Y Zinn-Haines
RE: Mike Kring
I went to NCHS 61-62 and 62-63 then went to Greene Twp. High and graduated in 65. I remember Mike sending stories back about Vietnam. It was not good stories. I ended up being a Crew Chief on a B-52 in the Air Force. I have always told people how small the world is getting. We know people we didn't know we knew.
Added by C & Y Zinn-Haines on Sep 13, 2016 6:14 PM
C & Y Zinn-Haines
Mike Kring
I went to school with Mike my 9th & 10th years at New Carlisle High. He was a big help getting me started doing Findagrave.
Added by C & Y Zinn-Haines on Sep 12, 2016 7:10 AM
Bill Cheatham
RE: Dellar Turpin - 26410190
Thank you for approving the edits. No, I'm not related to her, just was working on some of her family members when I found her. Best regards, Bill
Added by Bill Cheatham on Sep 05, 2016 7:49 AM
Diana Mace Sears
RE: Aaron Lee Moore (159901814)
Thank you..correction is made.
Added by Diana Mace Sears on Sep 04, 2016 6:21 AM
Karen K
William Baldwin
Happy to add obits, but need to also list where it was found. Karen
Added by Karen K on Aug 31, 2016 4:53 AM
Memorial# 36249522 Joel Kehres
Joel's wife's maiden name is Durkwater. They were married February 2, 1879 in Elkhart, Indiana.

Joel is the son of George F. Kehres (Find A Grave memorial # 21713907) and Sarah Treon Kehres (Find A Grave memorial # 21731763)

If you could add this info to his memorial, it would be appreciated. Thanks and have a wonderful day.

Happy hunting.

Ann Melinda-Stutzman Philiposian
(Joel is my 2nd cousin twice removed)
Added by Ann412 on Aug 25, 2016 3:26 PM
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