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Judy Lu (#46799760)
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Bio Photo "Perhaps there are no stars, only openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pour through and shine down upon us to let us know that they are happy"

I am a retired state worker. I have been retired for over 11 years now, retiring from Nevada Highway Patrol as a Administrative Aide II, in July of 2003. Retiring was the best thing that I have ever done for myself. I am married and have one daughter, three grandchildren and three great grandchildren.

I have been putting names on Obituary Daily Times since 1997. At that time I started keeping the obits that were written up in the local newspapers so I could help people do their genealogy and locate loved ones that have passed on.
I enjoy doing genealogy very much and have traced my family clear back to 1618, so why not help other people that are interested in doing it. I research Wakefield, Staley, Campbell, Stargell and Walker lines. I also run two online gift and collectibles stores and three auctions sites. I am busier now than I have ever been when I was working. Keeps me out of trouble. (Grin) I love writing the stores up about those who have passed on and I hope that when my turn comes, someone will do the same for me.

If tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there for you to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears that are for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry them
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things we did,
But didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you about me,
I know you'll miss me so;

When tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called me by name,
And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All the people that I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much left in life yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I am leaving you.

I thought about all of the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all that we have shared,
And all the fun we have had.

If I could relive yesterdays,
Just even for just a little while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you with a smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this will never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place inside of me.

And when I thought about the worldly things,
I might miss some in the tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart will be filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through Heaven's golden gates,
I felt so much that I was at home.
When God looked down and smiled on me,
From His great golden throne,

He said, "This is your eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today your life on earth has past,
But here in Heaven life starts anew.

I promise you no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day will be the same way,
There's no longing for the past.

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Please don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm always right there, in your heart "
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Trevor Meade
RE: Earlene Rush Stenton

Whatever works best for you. I'm not picky. Do you have any special interest in me transferring to you? If so, say the word. Hope you had a great weekend.

Added by Trevor Meade on Oct 05, 2015 12:28 PM
Barbara Collins
Howto set up Memorial for someone cremated and not buried in Cemetery.
Judy, you set up Find A Grave Memorial #29060231...recorded Aug. 16, 2008 for my nephew L. Keith Honea. I would like to create Find A Grave Memorials for other Family members that have been cremated and not buried in a cemetery but I don't know how. Would you please be so kind as to explain process to me. Thank you. Sincerely,
Added by Barbara Collins on Jul 17, 2015 2:08 PM
Thomas Erbes
Clarence Elroy George Faber
Hello Judy,

I found Clarence Faber at the Northern Nevada Veterans Memorial Cemetery (46285835). This will provide a resting place for your Clarence Elroy George Faber.

Added by Thomas Erbes on May 07, 2015 3:21 PM
James S. Wakefield
I added a photo to his memorial page.
Added by Sheryl on Mar 29, 2015 2:16 PM
RE: Charles Edward Wolf's Bio
If you don't mind, you could delete your page. I have one for "Chuck" myself. It is interesting that he was most often referred to as "Chuck" by his family, but during his time in Nevada his friends called him "Charlie". I like the original bio you had on your page. That obituary is the first confirmation I found of his passing. I think I will include that on my page, since it tells some about his life in the years prior to his death. As you probably know, he was the youngest of 12 children, and he was apparently a restless soul. From what his sister Mary has said, he was in and out of their lives after he joined the service after high school. He was married three or four times--they are not sure just how many times--and he had several children. His first two wives were the mothers of his sons Eugene (Wife #1) and Hohn (Wife #2), but the family does not know the details about his other wives and children. One of his later marriages was to a woman who was supposedly an "heiress" of the Dole Pineapple people in Hawaii. His family will probably never know the full details, nor how many half-siblings there may be.
Added by Legacy on Feb 09, 2015 3:14 PM
Longmont Genealogical Society
Alberson, Gerald and Betty
We have a member who would like obituaries for Betty Nadine Alberson Find A Grave# 11539832 and her husband, Gerald Lee Alberson Find A Grave# 11647688. She is related to Betty through her mother. Any help you can offer will be appreciated. Please advise of charge for copies.
Thank you,
Mary, researcher for Longmont Gene. Society
e-mail is
Added by Longmont Genealogical Soc... on Jan 28, 2015 2:52 PM
Tim Tim
Raymond Mendive Memorial

Thanks so much for the hard work you have put in transcribing so many obituaries into Find A Grave.

I found your memorial to Raymond Mendive today, I assume taken from the Elko Daily Free Press.

I had the pleasure to work with Ray in the early 1980s and meet his family and work and "play" on his ranch.

The Mendives were "real" people. Honest, hardworking and as kind as could be.

Of course, I am sad to hear that he passed on, but I did enjoy reading the lovely tribute to him.

Thanks again for doing, what I assume at times to be "thankless" work.
Added by Tim Tim on Dec 10, 2014 10:33 AM
Theresa Hopkins
Thanks for the transfer.
Added by Theresa Hopkins on Nov 18, 2014 1:53 PM
Marcia Lynne vonGunden
Hello Judy,
RE: Henry M. & Rebecca (Hill) Wells
I have transferred them both to you after adding more information to both of their memorials.
# 47059326
Added by Marcia Lynne vonGunden on Nov 15, 2014 1:53 AM
Alexandra Montgomery
Santiago Santos #134996317
Hi Judy!

Thank you for sending me Santiago's obituary, it's up on his page now.
Added by Alexandra Montgomery on Nov 01, 2014 1:22 PM
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