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Dale & Patti (#46937639)
 member for 7 years, 5 months, 20 days
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First, thanks to Frank & Charlene for their temporary management of our account while we considered our desire to continue our relationship with Find-a-Grave.

After years of active involvement, with many go-arounds with certain members who, to put it frankly, are rude and dishonest and like to play games, we have agreed that the benefits outweigh the idiocy. It seems while guidelines are set forth, some members either don't read and comprehend them, or perhaps think they don't apply to them.

Our years of setting up memorials and adding photos seem to now be seen as us "being in it only for the numbers." Be advised, if we wanted to be "in" something for the numbers, it certainly wouldn't be Find-a-Grave.

Please submit edits and transfer requests through the edit function. These are typically processed within 24 hours. Any requests left as messages will be ignored. Bio requests that come in via email will take longer. Lengthy emails where we are left to figure out what it is you are expecting us to do will be deleted.

Photos we have uploaded to memorials are 100% photos we have taken. You may use those for your own personal genealogical endeavors. Credit is appreciated if you do use those (common courtesy is all we ask).

To end, we would like to thank the many friends we have encountered over the years. There are some that we have connected with many times in many cemeteries and it has been fun getting out and locating your relatives' gravestones.
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Marian Woodman Flaherty
Fogg links
Thank you so much for your prompt attention to my link request. You must be very busy with this considering the enormous number of memorials you have put up. I appreciate your time and attention.
Best, Marian
Added by Marian Woodman Flaherty on Mar 05, 2015 5:22 PM
E Malcolm
RE: Find A Grave
Dear Dale & Patti, personally, Tim and I are so grateful that you both have decided to remain as contributors to Find A Grave. Your unselfish dedication over the years has been amazing. It is so difficult to overlook people who abuse the premise of Find A Grave, and probably other such services. If everyone came into this program with the scruples of honesty, unselfishness, gratitude, fairness and generosity that you both have, and Tim and I strive for, what a wonderful and easy job we'd have. It is so hard to stay focused while being bombarded with negatives, we, like you, took time off and recouped and now will march on with renewed vigor. Our focus is on doing our best to accurately put together our families with good documentation, and ignoring the numbers folks and the plagiarizing pestilence that seem to abound. Take care, thanks a million and remain steadfast!! Esther
Added by E Malcolm on Mar 05, 2015 10:51 AM
Richard A Anderson
transfer of grandparent
Thank for transferring my grandparent. It makes it so much easier to update our family's links and information. I have many edits for ancestors that are still pending for months. This makes it nice for my family to see their ancestor's connections promptly through Find A Grave.

Richard Anderson

Ps: since I'm retired I now have the time to research these links and do the followup postings
Added by Richard A Anderson on Mar 04, 2015 9:36 PM
Perley J. Thibodeau
Thank you.
Thank you Dale and Patti for adding the stones for J. Palmer Libby. It was a wonderful surprise for me as I haven't been back to Bangor since I left there 30 years ago this upcoming May 6th, 1985.
Palmer was 12 years older than me-We were friends from Bangor Civic Theater and I'm dedicating my next book to him as his being a friend and mentor.
Added by Perley J. Thibodeau on Mar 04, 2015 8:56 PM
Beverly Kirk
Estella Simpson Woodlawn Brewer ME
I've deleted my duplicate memorial. Thanks for the tip. Beverly
Added by Beverly Kirk on Mar 04, 2015 8:56 AM
Carol's Genealogy Stuff
Luther P. Johnson
Thanks for making the edits, and so quickly. ~~Carol
Added by Carol's Genealogy Stuff on Mar 04, 2015 7:45 AM
RE: The Estabrooks Group
Your Very Welcome Let Know if there's any others be Glad to Transfer Karen
Added by KAREN LOVY on Mar 03, 2015 7:04 PM
John W. Van Dyke
Peters and Emery markers
Hi Dale and Patti,

Thanks, so much for your efforts providing me the photos. I've been running way behind in genealogy. But, hopefully, with plenty of snow still here, I might get caught up!

John and Bonnie
Added by John W. Van Dyke on Mar 02, 2015 11:08 AM
RE: Your assistance...
Mary McCush Conrad (#124325313) If you like you can Maintain her or transfer back its up to you I must of just clicked on her. Know all about the Snow Moved Away From Ohio 20 Years ago, Sure don't miss it though Moved to Texas Love it Karen
Added by KAREN LOVY on Mar 01, 2015 5:38 PM
Sorry I didn't Check the edit box or I would have Updated them and Then tranfer Karen
Added by KAREN LOVY on Mar 01, 2015 3:54 PM
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