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shirley weidler (#46544626)
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Howard Hutchins
Hope you had a blessed weekend. Thank you again for everything. I really hope this turns out well for Misty. I too have been in a similar situation. Fortunately my birth father was still alive. Didn't get to see that relationship grow but I did find a grandfather and a sister because if that journey.
Added by Kirk Martin on Mar 29, 2015 6:18 PM
Kirk Martin
RE: Howard G Hutchins (Misty Dean)
Thank you so much. Tell your daughter in-law thank you too. Yall have no ideaa what this means to me and especially Midty....yes Charles can call me. Was he married to Alice?
Added by Kirk Martin on Mar 26, 2015 11:43 AM
Kirk Martin
RE: Howard G Hutchins (Misty Dean)
It would be greatly appreciated and mean more than you may ever know. Her Mom was adopted and the family she grew up in is very small and dwindling fast. The only blood family she has is her Mom and that is a whole other issue with not knowing who her blood family is and where she comes from on her side.

We know basically what happened to Howard. When I showed her the picture two days ago that was the first time she has ever seen him. You can only imagine how intense that was for her and how happy she was finally seeing his face.

Im just trying to help her find out where she comes from and who she is. Maybe just maybe connect her to family and family to her. She and I have two beautiful great kids to that this affects too.

She has been told so many stories since the dawn of time by her family. It took forever just to give her his name.
Added by Kirk Martin on Mar 25, 2015 5:12 PM
Kirk Martin
RE: Howard G Hutchins (Misty Dean)
Maybe you daughter in law knows more about him and his family? Yes Her Mom and her father never got married.....the age is right when he died and all the info I found on matches up. Just trying to get more concrete proof.
Added by Kirk Martin on Mar 25, 2015 12:14 PM
Kirk Martin
Howard G Hutchins (Misty Dean)

I am hoping this finds you and I have found the right Howard G Hutchins.

My name is Kirk Martin, my wife, well ex wife and best friend is Misty D'Ann Dean. Her mother is Kellie Dean.

Misty has been searching for the truth on what happened to her father.

He was killed in a homicide when she was just a baby. She never knew him and her family wouldn't ever give her a complete story or it would change every time she asked. She feels like a piece of her is missing. I was doing my own ancestry and had attempted years before ancestry. com was in existence to find her father for her. I came across a death certificate for Howard and the found him on find a grave. The good looking young man I found a photo of looks a lot like Misty. Can you help me?
Added by Kirk Martin on Mar 24, 2015 3:39 PM
David Weise
If you are related to the Hellis memorial I manage in Evergreen Cemetery in Riverside, CA, I am happy to transfer it to you.
Added by David Weise on Dec 14, 2014 5:49 PM
Mary Jo C. Martin
Re: Azariah H. Mathews
Also, Fannie's husband, Azariah H. Mathews, also has a new memorial: 134773531. You left a token on his old one, too. Up to you! Thanks.

Regards, Mary Jo
Added by Mary Jo C. Martin on Dec 13, 2014 10:29 PM
Mary Jo C. Martin
Re: Fannie Sebold Mathews
Hi, Shirley. You left a token on one of my ancestor's memorials earlier this year. (Thank you.) I am working with another contributor to combine memorials, and I'm going to delete mine in favour of hers.

If Fannie Sebold Mathews is an ancestor of yours, perhaps you'd like to leave another token on the new memorial:

Have a happy holiday season.

Regards, Mary Jo
Added by Mary Jo C. Martin on Dec 13, 2014 10:24 PM
Marion Slack
Hello Shirley,
I am preparing to upload some marker photos for Marion and her Husband. There is a marker with two names next to this one for C.Donald Slack 1916-1950 and Vivian Slack 1913-1935. I am going to upload photos to this one also. Thank you for the edits.

Added by Johnny on Aug 07, 2014 7:13 PM
Mary Agnes Hammett
RE: Re: Lucy Glenn Offutt Prescott, Roselawn, Baton Rouge, LA
You are welcome. Glad I could help. Should you need better, clearer photos, please do not hesitate.
Added by Mary Agnes Hammett on Aug 07, 2014 6:43 PM
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