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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 14 years, 6 months, 10 days
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Bio Photo June,2016

F.A.G. GUIDE LINES state- "Please limit the use of this option (edits) to no more than 20 email requests per contributor per week" this is so no one is overwhelmed. I'm getting several contributors that do 5 times this
amount in a day and day after day. Please be kind and limit these to at least twice the limit. Thank You

If you need to contact me personally use my friend and mentors memorial use the edit tab and scroll down to Suggest any other correction or addition.Flowers are no indication relationship 99% of the time. Leave memorial #.
Paul J. Lake
But its best to use edit on the memorial if I manage it.

All photos submitted by me are copyrighted. No use of photos for personal use is given without prior consent. No use of photos for any other website is given W.O.P.C. None of my family photos are to be used in any way.
Memories last only if you share them.

If you have me add info to a post, I may put a note including your find a grave ID. This allows people to go to the proper source if they have a question about the information you provide. If you are not willing to stand behind your provided information, don't ask me to post it. Just to many incorrect edits being made.

That which you share, multiplies and divides. That which you withhold, diminishes and dies. W. Clement Stone

No good deed goes unpunished. So true these days.

Duplicates: I am stepping up my efforts to assure I do not create duplicates , checking and checking ,checking however I am only human if you do see a duplicate please let me know and I will remove it.Guide lines state inform contributor first.

It is poor genealogical practice to allow others to use your information and photos with out credit why because they lose there source ,future researchers are robbed of that valuable resource and connection. Lifting photo is out right theft.

All sir name and first name edits sent by edit and not documented will be rejected.

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging, they will simply be deleted. Its your responsibility to do it through the memorial.

Please remember my photos are embedded with a copyright. Request permission be for using any Head stone photos or cemetery photos. If I find them on another web site I will take action. None of my family portrait photo's are available for use at all.

Please be aware I take screen shots of search when creating a memorial(as proof they were there first) as many are moving them into cemetery after creating them in friends and family and claiming mine are duplicates.

I'm getting a great amount of conflicting edits every week major changes require a source.( other than I will reject conflicting edits. Head stone markers take priority. I'm getting nasty emails for adding incorrect info. but actually its the edits changing info.

Requests and Transfers Please see below in my bio:

I have been a genealogist for 49 years and feel we owe it to those who have passed to preserve there memory and tell there story. For most of my entry's here Iv walked the cemeteries rolls and have more photos then I will ever be able to add. I have a collection of 100,000 + obituaries in eastern Ks. and western Mo contained in binders and now put them on flash drives of witch number about 10000 + . Many have wondered were my source is so there you are. I am the author of several books on my family and I and my cousin are the keepers of the family archive directors of the family reunion and am passing it down to my daughter. Iv been to cemeteries in at least 35 states tracking down my ancestors.

Fed up with the drama and hate on this site.

Everyone deserves respect.
Rude/demanding request will be reported and automatically rejected.

Sorry I have to sound so strict but the atmosphere on here now demands it.

On the other hand kindness and politeness will get pomp and priority attention.

A great big thank you to the many hard working contributors & photographers we all owe you a great deal you are very much appreciated by me.

Quote from Jim Tipton Founder after Ancestry acquisition."It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it other websites as if it were their own".

Please do not leave transfer request on my public messaging they will simply be deleted. It is your responsibility to read transfer guide lines and to use the edit tab on memorial and state relationship if not stated request will not be considered.This is not a refusal it is your failure to follow Find A Grave guide lines.

Please include your member number. Also the public messages below are not intended to request suggestions or changes to a memorial because no link is generated to memorial when the edit tab on the memorial is used a link is sent so I know who you are talking about. Many new features are there also to actually add links and changes to a memorial with contributor approval.

It is not necessary to manage a memorial to add to it I am willing to add any information that is allowed & correct. The ultimate goal should be to have meaningful, accurate memorials that honor those who have passed away, regardless of who created the memorial or who maintains it. Virtual cemetery was created so family inveigles can be placed in them.

As many of my friends and I have noticed lately attacking and toxicity is now alarmingly on the increase dealing with this is not only stressful but time consuming and emotional & physically draining causing the following to be necessary.

If your message or email is rude,accusatory, bulling or harassing in any way it will be sent to find a grave. If it continues other steps will be taken.People attacking someone and hate mailing making false claims is unacceptable.

My advice is just troll along down the line,because one way or the other its going to stop life is to short to be harassed.

I've worked hard on this project for many long years as has many others members, I'm proud of my efforts ,any one says I'm in for the numbers is just sick or jealous or simply has a mean spirit.

Demeaning someone has no place anywhere.This does not mean you can not correct me, I make many mistakes and as long as your nice about it we will work together to fix them and move on.

As in the past most of you kind folks have done an exultant job.

The memorial pages I create are done so with the utmost respect as I try to always leave flowers and establish links.

I am now saving sir name searches before & after adding a memorial to a cemetery as proof it was the first entry, because many are using the non cemetery method and moving them in cemetery later.

Please use the edit tab and be very plain about your suggestion. I can not take an hour to figure out who and what you are talking about.

Marker transcription-- ONLY Marker transcription INFORMATION GOES HERE no other.

Please do not use statements made here as ammunition to harass or bully as is the case anymore with some.
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Linda Abelli
Bessie & Ernest Worthen
Thank you very much for taking the headstone picture for this couple. I appreciate your time.
Added by Linda Abelli on Mar 16, 2016 5:23 PM
Linda Sue Standish
Banks-Standish Cemetery
Hello. I could not help but notice that back in February you place a number of "flowers" on the Find A Grave memorials for graves in the Banks-Standish Cemetery near Livonia, IN. May I ask if you did so because you visited the cemetery?
I will be traveling there this week and may try to take photos. I don't want to duplicate efforts if you took photos and have not uploaded them yet. Thank you. Linda Standish
Added by Linda Sue Standish on Mar 14, 2016 10:20 AM
Julia Groom, Find A Grave Memorial #: 66506042
Mr. Cox: I am a great-great granddaughter of Julia Groom; you took the photo of her grave marker on April 29, 2011. I saw that her death date is listed as 'Jun. 31, 1879' (and of course, there's no June 31, so is it possible her death date may actually be JAN 31, 1879?) Your photo shows the upper part of her grave marker but not the lower half, so I can't tell. Also, I know her middle name was Esther, and she was married to Franklin Groom (I haven't looked yet but I hope he's near Julia.) They had a daughter, Emma F.(Groom) Sparks, who was born in Linn County, KS on Jan. 12, 1870, and who died on Dec. 19, 1933 in Kansas City, MO. She married Jeptha E. Sparks on Oct. 25, 1888 in Mound City, KS. I am a great-granddaughter of Emma and Jeptha through their son Walter and then through his youngest daughter, Carole.

I was wondering if you have any photos showing Julia's entire headstone and if not, would you be willing to take one for me? I'm am historian and writer, and I would deeply appreciate your kindness. Take care, and thank you for finding Julia!

Deborah Prideaux
Added by DLPrideaux on Mar 13, 2016 11:13 AM
Lett Graves
Hello, my name is Debora (Lett) Clark. my father is Harrry W Lett, Grandmother Bessie Beeson Gunlock Lett, and great grandmother Mary Cox, who was married to Alfred Beeson. I see you have left memorials on many of my Dads families graves. I have been searching for information on my great grandmother and am wondering if you are a relative, or like me, you enjoy leaving flowers on memorials. If you do have information you would be willing to share you my contact me at Find A Grave or at Thanks!
Added by Debbie on Mar 09, 2016 10:04 PM
Carl Steiger
Ben Becker
Thanks. That was one that was transferred to me.

Carl Steiger
Added by Carl Steiger on Mar 09, 2016 4:24 PM
Kathleen Powell
Micah Bryant III
Hi Jarrot,

I saw you left a flower on Micah Bryant III. Are you related, and if so, how? He is my 3rd gg father. Love to know about your connection.


Kathleen Bryant Powell
Added by Kathleen Powell on Mar 07, 2016 8:06 PM
Linda Garrett
Find A Grave Memorial# 86445472
This individual is the same listed on:
Find A Grave: #31645720
perhaps you can combine them.

Thank you
Added by Linda Garrett on Mar 07, 2016 1:24 PM
Peter Checksfield
Elizabeth Cox #120374645
I have just posted a photograph on F-A-G that I am 75% certain is Elizabeth's grave. Using the Kent Archaelogical Society survey of the 1920s as my source together with the more recent
to try and locate the correct grave. According to the latter survey the stone is illegible bar "aged 67 years" - I can't even swear for sure that this says that but I believe I can just about make out Elizabeth. So using these clues and the surrounding stones I believe I have photographed the right memorial.

Added by Peter Checksfield on Mar 07, 2016 10:25 AM
RE: Find A Grave Memorial# 84062011
Received…thank you so much.
Added by Kari on Mar 03, 2016 7:42 PM
RE: nd A Grave Memorial# 62495795
ahh...and the light bulb goes on....

if you want to discuss this through private email, that's fine. Send me an addy through any of my memorials and we can go from there
Added by grandmacarol on Mar 02, 2016 1:22 PM
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