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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
 member for 12 years, 6 months, 14 days
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Bio Photo 4/27/2014
Entering my busy period ,expect delays .

If you need to contact me privately please use me dear friends Memorial Find A Grave Memorial# 71410062

Relationship (parent and spouse links) now can be added by the new edit function as well as most outher changes .

My photographic works and photos I have posted are protected by in bedded copyright. You Must ask permission before reproducing in any form .

Quote From Jim Tipton founder of F.A.G. on updated rules after being acquired by Ancestry . com found in help with find a grave .

"It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it on other websites as if it were their own".
Please do not ask me to post a obituary that does not have a source ,it is not allowed ,and could lead to a breach of public domain .

If requesting a transfer first read that section in help with find a grave and in My bio. Other wise it will not be considered . Do not leave request on this page ,must be done the proper way to be considered .

Please do not request transfers in less You fully intend to add links and or further improve the information . If you are just collecting memorials use your virtual cemetery function . No request will be considered with out relationship being stated . I have ancestry and will check so be truthful .

Transfers should be requested by using the edit feature on memorial and leaving as a suggestion or (sac) please do not leave request on My public messaging they will not be considered . Your relationship must be stated also. No exceptions .

Despite what many claim .
Find a grave is first and foremost a grave registration site ,as stated by its founder .

omg best thing that has ever happened to F.A.G. the new edit function and some contributors are bad mouthing it . You got think ungrateful .

I happily add links and other appropriate information if sent by the edit function on memorial.

Corrections /request should not be left as public message as there are plenty of other means now to do them . Public message's WERE NEVER MENT FOR CORRECTIONS ,SO I will not make corrections this way anymore as it is just to difficult .

If your reporting a duplicate please add the duplicates F.A.G. number .
Please remember that F.A.G. has threads running that will eventfully merge dups. into the first created . Don't go postal over a dup.

When I first started contributing TO F.A.G. you could just inter a memorial ,and that's about it , this gave us time to learn the ropes as features were added, we had time to learn them ,now it seems new ones just jump in there with out reading the guide lines and how to do things right , this rapidly makes them look foolish , and causes problems galore. Please new ones read help with F.A.G. before you use this site and add to it .

Find a Grave seems to bring out the worst or the best in folks there seems to be no middle ground . For that reason it seems we all need to make a special effort to show as much respect for the living as we do for the one's who have passed on .

If it is your intent to be anything but cordial and respectful, I strongly recommend you read further in this bio. before doing so .

If you feel you need to contact me on a personal or sanative matter please do so thru my good friends memorial
Find A Grave Memorial# 71410062 using the edit function .

I hope F.A.G.soon works on punishing those who are stealing our work and photos as promised ,we work hard ,it is not fair that others get credit for our efforts. I have seen hundred if not thousands of my photos on ancestry .com and I am thinking of taking legal action .

I never profit from My photos even though I spend a great deal of time and money taking photos . And I really do not wont any person or web site to profit from them. And I do not wont My ancestors photos stolen and posted by others as though they belong to them . If I see My photo's on another Web site and My list shows no permission was obtained. I will ask them to be removed and if they are not ,I will contact the web site to have them removed .

New editing function has rolled out to all members.

I'm getting a lot of good feed back on My stance of not putting up with harassment, a lot of contributors are also fed up .Some are saying they are thinking of giving up , I think things will get better now that Ancestry. COM has acquired this site .

In till the last couple of Years ago the following statement was not necessary but unfortunately it is now.

To a select but growing few } Please be aware as a contributor on find a grave does not mean You have given up free will, no contributor is obligated to do anything . If You are making a suggestion do not turn it into a demand or try to manipulate or bully a contributor into making Your suggestion . I can't speak for others but as for Me any attempt at demanding or manipulation automatically rejects Your suggestion and further Hate mail internet bullying ,stalking , intimidation are crimes and will be reported and prosecuted if necessary . Further more after becoming aware of theses crimes the web site is obligated to take action against perpetrators of these crimes or it is also at risk of prosecution .

A person goes out and spends money on a camera flash cards ,batteries . Gasoline ,wear an tear on there vehicle not mention time, fights off snakes , mosquitoes ,ticks ,high grass and weeds , walks in the heat and cold ,mud and people cant even send them a thank You ! ,something is seriously wrong with that ,but that's what happening ,out of my last 50 or so photo request I fulfilled I got about 3 thank You notes ,and about 8 or 10 for the last 50 transfers ,and the fact that F.A.G. sends out a reminder email to suggest You say thank You , makes it even hurt more . Come on folks that is all we ask in return for transfers and photo request . I think this says a lot about what is wrong with society to day .

We all live in the shade of trees planted by those who came before us .

I am a taphophile and Genealogy Hound .

I am a taphophile because I like photographing gravestones.

I have been into cemetery Photography & Rubbings Collecting obituaries for 40 years .My experience in and love of investigation work has helped Me a great deal in My genealogical pursuits .

Per F.A.G. guide lines do not send any one contributor more than 20 suggestions , corrections or requests a week .

Rude or demanding behavior will result in Your request being rejected Automatically . Expect 30 days for Your request to be considered .

Any disrespectful activities or communications will not be tolerated and will be addressed as the situation dictates .
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sharon durels
RE: Children
Oků thanks for your help Jarrott!
Added by sharon durels on Jul 29, 2014 2:42 PM
Kathy G.
Christina Griffin
Thank you for linking her to her parents.
Added by Kathy G. on Jul 24, 2014 11:28 AM
Pat Shaw
RE: Jarrott
HI! Your profile said you were gone, think I have sent some update or correction lately. Fried my comp couple of days ago so will have to find them again.

Welcome back
Added by Pat Shaw on Jul 24, 2014 9:14 AM
Mary Bob McClain
Thank you for your prompt response to my edit.
I really appreciate it.
Mary Bob
Added by Mary Bob McClain on Jul 22, 2014 8:29 PM
Rebecca Cumins
Emory Castle
Dear Jarrott; You know, honestly, I am not sure about him? I have never heard of him before; so are you sure you have the right Rebecca? hahhaha. IF we do share this man as a relative; would it be from my Mother or Father's side? Thanks for any and all the help!
Added by Rebecca Cumins on Jul 22, 2014 1:43 AM
22432376 file has been updated - Thanks Ggrdson of Cynthia Chandler / Frank W.
Added by westgate on Jul 21, 2014 8:52 PM
mortul vivos docent
re: William Francis Gordon, Sr.
Thanks to your thoughtful insights in response to my photo request, I did some additional research and determined that there are two memorials for this gentleman who was lost at sea in WWII in 1945. His monument wasn't erected until 1949. I've contacted the contributor who created the duplicate and requested that they delete it. :)
Added by mortul vivos docent on Jul 21, 2014 8:34 PM
M. L. James
RE: Reeds in Pleasanton
I am not related to the Reed family. However, I am related to Hester Dollar Reed who married Thomas Reed, the mother of Margaret Reed. Hester was a sister to my grandmother, Cathrine "Bell" Dollar James.
Added by M. L. James on Jul 16, 2014 3:17 PM
adele rice spidahl
RE: Aurissa Rice'
Thank You, Jarrott for your help, contacts, and all the work you do for "Find a Grave" I will try and call Ola tomorrow (Thursday)

I first found this site by a link posted by - and I have found out so much about our Rice Family History. It is a really great site. I since have beeen going in on all the sites and adding BD's and DD's and obituaries for all that I have - I have found many new cousins and gained much knowledge of my ancestors.

Adele Rice Spidahl
Added by adele rice spidahl on Jul 16, 2014 6:24 AM
adele rice spidahl
RE: Aurissa Rice'
I would appreciate it very much if you could get the information from the Bank or the local historian on the location of Aurissa Melendy Rice grave. I am sure she did not remarry. It might be near the M.A. Melendy gravestone that is pictured. He was her brother and you have a photo of his gravestone. Thank You.

Adele Rice Spidahl
Added by adele rice spidahl on Jul 15, 2014 10:24 PM
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