Please, save yourself a lot of time and do me a favor and read below.
First and foremost, please do not send me a personal email UNLESS you are responding to an email I sent you through the edit tab and "Suggest any other correction or addition." Please put the name of the memorial you are responding to in the regarding line. If this is not done, your email will be deleted, no exceptions.
Second, send ALL corrections or additions through the edit tab located in the tip right-hand corner of the memorial. I have disabled the "Leave Public Message" for that reason. Leaving a request through the public message makes it difficult for the contributor and is just plain thoughtless.
Lastly, I wish this website could change its name to something like "Find and Ancestor". Putting in a memorial for a grave marker is a great stepping off point. With the addition of listing the siblings on a memorial when linked the FAG way, I am convinced that this site now knows that it is much more than a "grave" site and now an ancestry site. For that reason, I will enter a memorial whether or not I know of their burial or cremation. I will state in the notes section that the "Disposition of body not stated in obituary". If you see that note and/or "Burial information unknown at this time", and you have found the burial site, let's all work together for the common goal and let each other know of that information so we can keep this site viable with information to the best of our knowledge. If I find that this info is not passed on, personally, I will move my memorial to that cemetery and let you know you have entered a duplicate.
Please don't spout rules or even your version of them. They were a good jumping off point, but things with this site have so changed, and the "rules" need to too.
If you read this far, good on you. I appreciate this site and most of the contributors here. There are always "bad apples", but I don't let them spoil the bunch. I spend a great deal of time on this site and I do so for free, as do most contributors. Please show kindness and be polite, those two things will get you a long way in life.