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I've loved history, research and have been fascinated with the Old West/Victorian times, since I can remember. So when I was introduced to genealogy it just fit! It began for me in 1991 when I was asked by a sweet, elderly neighbor to help her with her family history, as she was legally blind and "afraid to learn how to do this stuff alone, and I sense you love well and learn well." I gave it a try, was quickly hooked and later, became a Genealogist. My first realization that history was a passion for me began in childhood and came through the freakish looks my friends would give me as I'd stand motionless and stare at the dilapidated remains of old cabins, sheds and homesteads; wishing that for just a few seconds I could go back in time to see and feel what they did. I wanted to know what life was like for those that lived there, built their lives literally by the sweat of their brow and sacrificed so much in search of truth, freedoms and a new way. I'm grateful for and to them.
I was born in 1962, happily married since 1983, have three sons, one daughter, three stepsons and seven grandchildren. I grew up in Utah County, mostly Provo, but have lived in Montana since 1996. I love: my family, music, learning, truth, teaching, humor, words, reading, research, singing, children, history, psychology, horses and dogs, mountains, four seasons, sewing, creating, designing, color, being trusted, defending people, organizing, quilts, observing people, serving, volunteering, and the many opportunities I've been given to help people find the best in themselves... their gifts. I love my Savior, Jesus Christ, and His simple truths He shares. I don't love: making mistakes, my weaknesses, condescension, injustice, when power is more important than people, abuse of any kind, especially of the innocent; the use of "so called" truth and religion to gain control over people (ignoring the gift of free will), and when fear stops people from doing the right thing, especially when I notice it in myself.
Pursuing my family history has provided me with much more than I ever anticipated. I am the oldest of six children, as well as, three half siblings and a step-sister. I grew up fast in an incestuous, abusive, negligent, sadistic, chronically traumatic and controlled; yet deeply religious home. I lied to hide it, protect, relate and survive. I felt (and was expected to be) responsible to the extreme, for the well-being of my younger siblings and saw clearly, at a young age, that my parents had been harmed, also. I had many questions, feelings and needs I wasn't allowed to express. The effects caused four disabilities, but I am healing. I've had much to heal in terms of trust in anything or anyone, identity, hope, and just how far back this multi-generational hell goes. Why are the meek, shy, honest and loving in my family devoured by the rest? The ultimate examples are the murder of my paternal grandfather (one of two adults I ever felt unconditional love from in my family) by his own wife, when I was nine years old; as well as, the suicide of one brother. I could not accept that to be loving, sensitive and truthful meant you'd be abused/destroyed and it contradicted the Gospel I was "taught" in the same family and home. I've found some answers, learned much and continue to. The Gospel of Jesus Christ will ALWAYS be true.
I've learned that my heritage also has much greatness besides horrendous abuses and suffering. I see now why I was so compelled to be the first in at least four generations (that I know of) to speak the ugly truth out loud...at age 15. I've been denied, persecuted, threatened, abandoned and alienated by the same people I dedicated my life to. Blamed for "ruining the family" by not keeping the secrets, but still used as their servant, confidant and the only one they could turn to when they needed to be loved, a place to live, to speak their truth and be understood. I see and feel intensely, as I move through my healing and the discovery of each ancestor; that they are grateful the truth is out. They're sorry for the destruction they either passed down or concealed (denied) and they feel freedom as I find and slowly forgive them. They want and need the truth more than ever, since leaving this life. They are grateful that they matter, that their lives did, and that even though much denial still exists in their posterity...the opportunity to face the truth has been offered because it has been spoken out loud and brought out of the shadows, lies, secrets and denial that have enabled it to infect each new generation. They know me...I know them. They can progress from where they are and so can I. We help each other. They matter and have great worth... and they help me finally know that I do too.
Please use edit function on memorial. I'm happy to add/correct info if requested with respect, kindness and your source. You may use my headstone/cemetery photos for non-commercial use.
I love this work, this website and volunteer a lot of my time here. However, transfers have become a real issue, many Find A Grave friends are noticing the same thing. Most people are great when negotiating transfers, but too many are toxic. Due to demanding and disrespectful correspondence I now adhere strictly to Find A Grave transfer rules. Also, a transfer will not happen if you: Fail to state relationship: spouse, parent, sibling, grandparent, great-grandparent, children, grandchildren or great-grandchildren | are a collector (harvesting with few contributions) | make demands | request on my public profile - please use edit function | create duplicate claiming you'll delete after transfer | or have been abusive in the past. You can add memorial to your virtual cemetery instead. Abuses will be reported with screenshot as proof. No exceptions. I'm sorry some create the need for these rules to exist. I'm grateful to those that know how to conduct themselves in an appropriate, kind and adult way. Let's keep in mind why and how this website exists.
Please remember I have 30 days to respond to requests, rarely taking longer than 24 hours. I've been entrusted with almost 2500 memorials from inactive, photo-only or fallen gravers, besides memorials I've added; so it takes time to maintain them all. Please be patient. Enjoy Find A Grave!
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|william mckay||Eveyn Boeckman|
Thank you again for your interest. I have researched local newspapers and have several articles on my birth parents and grandparents. Like your bio I have things in my childhood that were blocked out for many years. I have reached the point in my life where I need to forgive. My life after adoption has been wonderful! Some things I would rather not make public. I have contacted with my fathers side through ancestry and have gotten a warm reception. Unfortunately my mothers may not be as receptive. I can only hope. I'm in the process of ordering my original birth certificate and from there should be able to order their death certificates. Thank you for you help.
|william mckay||Myrte Bennet|
Thank you for replying back to me! My search will continue for my mothers family. May God Bless you and your family.
|william mckay||Mytle Bennet|
Hello, I was a child from Myrtles sister Evelyn Margaret Boeckman. Do you know the Bennets and if so is there any way to contact them? I was an adopted child from her marriage to my birth father and I'm trying to research my family tree. Both of my birth parents are deceased and any information would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
|Sunflower Lady||Headstone for Nadean Wycherley Christenson|
Annie, thank you for adding the photo of Nadean's headstone. A volunteer hunted and hunted and couldn't find it. I also just read your bio and my heart was touched with all you have suffered in your life. You are a very strong woman and I admire your standing up for the things you believe. Thank you for sharing these experiences.
|David Mower||RE: Marrian Lael Guymon Christensen|
Thanks, Annie. I got carried away with "cut and paste" but I knew you would figure it out.
|Paul Blair||Donna Madsen Paulson|
Thank you so much for the transfer of the memorial for my Aunt Donna. I do appreciate all that you do.
|Cemetery Walker||Clesson Hill|
Thanks for putting a flower on my Great-grandfather's memorial. I appreciate it.
That you for her Obituary, I posted it to F.A.G
Added by Sandi on Mar 30, 2015 5:38 PM
|Kim Feller||RE: Cynthia Rytting Swackhammer Bowen|
So many thanks! I cannot express the excitement and gratitude.
Your sister in the Gospel,
|Kim Feller||Request to manage memorial|
Hello, I would like to take over the management of memorial 123308355 for Cynthia Swackhammer Bowen as she is my mother. I would really appreciate it. Thank you for establishing the memorial.
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