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Barry White (#46791122)
 member for 11 years, 4 months, 4 days
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Bio Photo The way it reads now.

I get requests to link family members, I do then I get nasty rude emails telling me there wrong. So from now on the only way I will link anyone is if they are on the same headstone. I will be more than glad to transfer the memorial and you can link them. I will be glad to transfer or delete every one I have. I used to enjoy this site but lately there is so much rudeness in the e-mails. I hardly ever get on here anymore.
(Jim, Debbie, I will be glad to do anything for you. It's not because of you, it's others.)

The way it used to read.

I am related to the Harts from Jackson co. Fla. the Piners from Wilmington NC. Allens and Whites from Ga. If you are related to anyone that I have posted and would like them transfered to you I will be glad to do it as long as i'm not related to them, (and most likely i'm not). Some people will only transfer up to 4 generations back, I will transfer no matter how far back it is as long as find a grave don't mind. Now if you only transfer 4 back then thats all I will do for you. What goes around comes around.I would like to have my G.G.G.Grandfathers Capt Henry William Paris and William A. Allen but the contributors have stated they won't transfer back that far. I will be glad to link everyone I can so family members can be closer together. You are welcome to use any of my photos as you like. Just dont create a duplicate memorial, use my photo, then ask me to delete mine, (someone did that). If I have posted any information that is wrong, please let me know and I will correct it. I will delete duplicates, but not if mine was there first. I try to add a flag for every military person and confederate veteran. If you don't stand behind our troops, feel free to stand in front of them. Fredom is not free. It is still being paid for. If you must burn our flag please wrap your self in it first. If you can read this thank a teacher. If You're reading it in english. thank the military.
Have a great day. ^(-.-)^
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Patricia Corbell Gonzalez
James Hiram Jones #28734179
Dear Sir,

I was wondering if you would please transfer the above memorial to me, as this is my great grandfather.


Patricia Corbell
Added by Patricia Corbell Gonzalez on Jul 26, 2016 5:10 PM
gene dawkins/spinks/sills/pittman/tindell
James Anderson Sills
I do apologize for any rudeness you have been shown, and pray it was not from anyone in my extended family. I have not been to his grave in 50 years and appreciate your kindness. I am 5 generations removed and have known of him all my life. I am a proud descendent of his and fly the Bonnie Blue in my front yard. Would love to share with you. My contact: My linage is Dawkins-Spinks-Sills. James is my great-great grandfather, Frank was my great grandfather, his daughter Ruby Sills-Spinks my grandmother, her daughter Caroline was my mother. I have 5 grown children and 13 grandchildren and I am our defacto family historian. With fraternal respect, Gene
Added by gene dawkins/spinks/sills... on Jul 22, 2016 10:31 AM
Henry Hayes
Fannin Family Transfers
Mr. White:

Thank you for the Fannin Family transfers. I will manage them with care.

There are two in the Dailey-Selfridge Cemetery that have not yet been transferred: #17946499 and #17946565.

Thank you,
Henry Hayes
Added by Henry Hayes on Jun 03, 2016 8:07 AM
Henry Hayes
RE: Fannin Family Transfers
Mr. White:
Thanks for your reply.

It appears that transfers must be originated by the current manager. Here's an excerpt from the FAQ page:
"There will be a link on the right side of the memorial page, under the person's name, that says Transfer Management. Click on the link. Add the other contributor's ID # in the box on the Transfer Management of Memorial page that comes up, and click on the transfer this memorial button."

Since this Transfer Management link is only available to you as the current manager, I can find no way to initiate the transfer myself.

Henry Hayes
Contributor ID #47209186
Added by Henry Hayes on May 31, 2016 7:21 AM
Henry Hayes
Fannin Family in Henry County
I see your message about rude members and am sorry you've had this experience. I have a number of edits I'd like to make to the Fannins buried in the Mount Carmel Methodist Church Cemetery and Flippen United Methodist Church Cemetery in Henry County, Georgia. (I'm a Fannin descendant.) If you're willing to transfer these "Fannins" to me, I'll manage them and make the edits.
Thanks for all of your contributions.
Henry Hayes
Added by Henry Hayes on May 28, 2016 1:59 PM
Rhonda Lauvray
Evelyn Denson
Dear Mr. White,

I'm doing some research on on the Denson side of my family. I see this grave marker for Evelyn says SISTER. Is she the sister of Robert L. Denson, Jessie M. Denson and Henry Columbus Denson? Robert would have been my paternal great grandfather. Theron Amile being my grandfather and Theron LeRoy being my father. Also seem to be having trouble finding any additional info on Joseph E. Denson and Carrie Denson whom I believe to be Robert's parents. If you have any info that would be helpful to me I'd greatly appreciate it.

Rhonda Denson Lauvray
Added by Rhonda Lauvray on May 16, 2016 7:30 AM
Patricia Corbell Gonzalez
James Hiram Jones
Dear Mr. White,

Thank you so much for your great work on Find A Grave. Please do not worry about rude people. Your work is helpful to many people.

I am the great granddaughter of James Hiram Jones through Nancy Hindsman and their daughter, Maud Ann Jones. I am eagerly seeking other descendants of this family.

I was wondering if you would consider giving this site to me for maintenance as he is my direct relative. I would greatly appreciate it.

Please keep up the good work.


Patricia Corbell Gonzalez
Added by Patricia Corbell Gonzalez on May 15, 2016 3:24 PM
Brian Yerka
Thomas E Allums

My name is Brian Yerka and I am doing research for the Allums family. You are the owner of memorial #15941966 for Sarah (Green) Allums buried at the Flatrock Cemetery in Clayton County Georgia. I am trying to find her husband, Thomas E Allums b: 1852 in Clayton County. I would presume that he would be buried in the same cemetery as his wife but no listing comes up. One of Thomas’ brothers and one of his sisters are buried together in the Flatrock Cemetery (Memorial #15941905 for William Allums. There is no separate listing for his sister, Lavonia).

There is also a listing (memorial #15941948) for Henry Noland Allums B&D: Jan 24, 1908 but no information on who his parents are. You are the owner of all these memorials.

My question to you is whether you have access to the cemetery books that might say whether Thomas was buried at Flatrock and who this Henry belongs to?

I read your biography and am sorry to hear that people have been rude to you when you are trying to help. I can assure you that I would be greatly appreciative of anything you can give me so that I can help tie this family together. I live in Minnesota so a personal visit to Georgia is not available.

My GGGgrandfather is Hopson Allums and Thomas E is one of his sons.

Thank you for whatever help you can give.

Brian Yerka
Added by Brian Yerka on May 02, 2016 4:03 PM
This Old Scarecrow
Thank you
Thanks Barry for making all those edits, additions, and corrections for me recently.
I appreciate your valuable assistance, and attention to the small details.
Thanks for being here.
Added by This Old Scarecrow on Mar 16, 2016 8:53 AM
Danny Tanner
Joseph Branch Tanner II
Hey Barry, My name is Danny Tanner. Thanks for all your work at Find A Grave. I am going to sponsor my Great Grandfathers Memorial I just want to make sure it want mess you up. Do you know if I will be able to add a Bio. for Him?. Once again thanks for all your WORK.
Added by Danny Tanner on Feb 27, 2016 6:43 AM
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