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just-me (#47023020)
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Bio Photo I started with Find A Grave because I wanted to post my family memorials. As I got active, friends were asking me to do the same for their families. As I would hunt through the cemeteries looking for specific stones, I just figured I might as well take pictures of all of them and post them. In the winter, since I can't be out taking pictures, I post the obituaries from the local newspapers. I look at find a grave as a source for my genealogy search. Because of this, when I post a memorial, I also try to do research on the person to do a memorial, and link with family. I have found that there are some of my relatives still living that have been posted as memorials as "pre-need". I don't agree with that practice. Find a grave is supposed to be a site for finding memorials for the deceased. There for, if there is no death listed on the stone, I do not post it.

In the forums for Find a Grave, they have this listed "Is it is acceptable to add a memorial for someone who is still living?
Please try to avoid it. In general, we do not encourage adding memorials for individuals that are still living. We do realize, however, that when transcribing a cemetery, it is not always possible to determine if the person is living or not. If it is obvious that they are still living (e.g. "1909 - ____ ), please do not add them to Find A Grave. You are always welcome to create a 'pre-need' memorial for yourself, if you would like."

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me.
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RE: Violet McDonald memorial 123707077
not sure yet, I edit my memorials as I have time.
Added by J on Oct 16, 2014 12:21 PM
Ellen Dumas
Robert Eyler
I think you have transcribed the year of death for Robert Eyler (Louisville Community Cemetery) incorrectly. You have him dying in 1988 but the Social Security Death Index says 1985.
Added by Ellen Dumas on Mar 08, 2014 12:51 PM
Headstone pics

I would like to add the photos of Roger K Whitton's (# 28593124) headstones to my family tree on Ancestry. He was my 10th cousin ,not close but still family.

Thank you,

Ann Rogenski # 47180359
Added by ANN ROGENSKI on Feb 27, 2014 11:07 AM
Dora M Boyea Dwyer
Would you please link Dora M Boyea Dwyer #82260391 with her parents please?

Dorothy M Whalen Boyer #93315308
Leo Victor Boyer #103433222

Thank you!

KK #47652078
Added by KK on Jan 26, 2014 7:27 PM
joy michelle austin
Helen Gibson
Thank you for posting Glen A. Gibson's obituary which helped fill in some blanks with regards to my cousin Helen Gibson's family tree.
Added by joy michelle austin on Nov 30, 2013 5:10 PM
cathy summersell
RE: Georgina Gordon
Thank you so much for getting in touch with Kelly. I am so excited to know that I have found my cousins that i have never met before. We are now in touch on Facebook. And its funny you said that Ron was a Fire officer. My dad and his brother too were in the fire brigade in Glasgow. My dads brother stayed in till he retired as a chief.
regards. Cathy
Added by cathy summersell on Dec 31, 2012 12:08 PM
cathy summersell
Georgina Gordon
Could you tell me what you know about Georgina as if Im correct she was originally from Scotland. And was John called Jack as if this is so then Georgina is my Aunt.
Added by cathy summersell on Dec 10, 2012 4:38 PM
J Martin
RE: Bessie Sutton Fenstermaker
No problem. Thanks for letting me know. I will be happy to work with you when the time comes. Happy Holidays. JMartin
Added by J Martin on Dec 03, 2012 3:38 AM
Frank Patnaude
Jean Ann Dunn Backus

Thank you for putting up my 3rd cousin memorial. It is a great pleasure to see such great work and complete work.

Added by Frank Patnaude on Nov 17, 2012 1:13 PM
Brian Tabor
Holmes Hill Cem. - Stockholm Ctr.
I see you have some of my Nelson cousins listed in Holmes Hill Cem., Stockholm Ctr., NY. Could you please link the following? Thanks very much,

Philetus Nelson, # 28721443
his wife Phoebe (Soper) Nelson, # 28721534
Their children in Holmes Hill:
James M. Nelson, # 28721912
Ira S. Nelson, # 28721759
Roswell E. Nelson, # 28721823

The above Phoebe (Soper) Nelson's parents were:
Father : Erastus Soper, # 31155725
Mother : Mary (Martin) Soper, # 31155374
both buried Hillside Rest Cem., Bombay, NY.
Added by Brian Tabor on Sep 20, 2012 11:53 AM
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