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HJ (#46937296)
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Bio Photo 1. SEND SOURCE INFO!!! When sending info for inclusion on memorials I have entered, please include your source (where you found it, or how you know it). This is important. If I think the info is questionable, I might not add it, or will note who sent it to me. I decline to perpetuate errata and will NOT post anything from an unreliable source.

2. MANNERS COUNT. I appreciate POLITE requests and corrections. If you don't know how to use the words, "please," and "thank you," or can't be bothered, then please don't bother at all. If you send extremely rude, or threatening messages, no matter how subtle, I will forward them to the Find A Grave administrators, without exception.

3. I TRANSFER. Aside from my own family, and close friends, I do not hoard memorials. POLITE requests for your family (close, OR distant), and close friends will all be considered. If I am even remotely related, I will not transfer. I will keep my friends, unless your relationship is significantly closer. If you are prone to entering sloppy memorials with incorrect info, I will think twice about a transfer.

4. YOUR PHOTOS: Please don't add bad photos to memorials I have entered, i.e. photos where you can be seen reflected in the stone, your car is in the background, the stone is covered in bird poop, or leaves, or dirt, your dog, or kid can be seen, or photos taken at a carelessly crooked angle, or ones with more "white space," than gravestone (NO need to crop ALL the white space out, and photos of entire family plots are the exception). Please do not add photographs of new graves in their entirety, with no grass growing on the freshly up-turned dirt. Please do not add photos of the temporary plastic grave markers placed by the funeral home, or photos of the gravestone, prior to inscribing of the DOD for new burials--if you do, please anticipate that I will request a removal when a photo of a fully inscribed gravestone has been posted. I spend a lot of time to make attractive, respectful memorials. Your help with that is appreciated.

Note: If the persons grave has no marker, please at least add a photo of the area where the grave is located.

5. MY PHOTOS, those of gravestones and cemeteries, may be used without my permission, EXCEPT on, or any site which requires an exchange of money. There is no need to give me credit and in fact, I would prefer that you don't. However, please do not post one of my original photos to a Find A Grave memorial yourself. Politely make a request and I will gladly add, if appropriate.

6. CAUSES OF DEATH are a matter of public record. If you are related to an individual who has a cause of death posted in their memorial, and you are disturbed by the posting of that cause, I will remove it, upon polite request.

7. I VOLUNTEER. As another member has noted on their profile, I'm not getting paid to do this. Nope, not a penny. I sometimes get behind in doing corrections, updates, etc. Your patience is appreciated. Please remember that edits take time, no one is entitled to my time, and demands are wholly unappreciated (please refer to point #2 above). If you can't wait, you may send the edit request to Find A Grave.

8. LIVING PEOPLE: Please don't add memorials for them, especially, if you haven't yet entered a memorial for YOURSELF. Not only is it against policy, but it's just a horrendous thing to do to someone, without their consent.

9. LIVE & LET LIVE. I am all for receiving and sending updates, corrections, etc. I appreciate notification when I have added a duplicate and will notify others of duplicates. Beyond that, I do not consider myself to be on the Find A Grave police squad, and neither should you. Please allow me to tend to the memorials I have entered. If I add something you don't like to a memorial you have entered, or to that of a family member's, please point it out to me POLITELY. Vague references to Find A Grave policies are not helpful in specific instances--I have entered hundreds of memorials and manage hundreds more. Above all, please remember that Find A Grave IS NOT REAL. The internet is NOT TANGIBLE. What does that mean? In the grand scheme of life, this is small stuff and could go "poof" in an instant.

10. To those who are all about the numbers: THERE IS NO END TO DEAD PEOPLE. Just because I might enter a memorial you wanted to enter, doesn't mean you can't enter one for someone else. There are plenty for all.


In Honor of Our Fallen Brave . . .

In Flanders Fields, 1919, by John McCrae

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.


THANK YOU to everyone who sends info and corrections for memorials I have entered. Time does not permit me to thank everyone for each individual contribution, but please know that they are appreciated!

In case I have missed anyone, THANK YOU to the PHOTO VOLUNTEERS who have fulfilled my requests--much appreciated!

MANY THANKS to those MEMBERS who have entered memorials for members of my family and who have had the kindness to transfer them to me--you're the BEST!


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Laura Heckman
RE: Mabel.Hawthorne
You are very welcome......I hope you will be able to add some memorable information.

Added by Laura Heckman on Nov 17, 2014 5:04 AM
C. Walsh
Re: Marianne Hybke
Thank you for the transfer of my husband's cousin, Marianne.
Added by C. Walsh on Nov 16, 2014 7:30 AM
Hawthornes Prospect Hill
Got it!
Added by happee_grrl on Nov 15, 2014 4:19 PM
Hawthornes Prospect Hill
I think I have all the Hawthornes in Prospect Hill transferred to you now. If I missed any, please let me know.

I'm glad I was a help! I really do enjoy helping people find their roots.

If you need any help with Jerauld County records, let me know.

You might find this link helpful:

You can search the record for "Hawthorne," I found quite a few entries for a William Hawthorne.

Just a thought...

Added by happee_grrl on Nov 15, 2014 1:37 PM
John Tippet
Richard Buckles
I don't think he ever lived in Cherry, IL.
Added by John Tippet on Nov 15, 2014 8:58 AM
Linda Berney
You've done a wonderful job with the memorial. Hopefully this unusual find will be of help some day to somebody in his family who is searching. Small town obits are often so interesting! It is a fun project.
Keep up your great work on this site.
Best regards,
Added by Linda Berney on Nov 15, 2014 8:29 AM
Linda Berney
I am continuing to enter from old newspapers, and just came across another posting about Edward Wiloszewski, which I will send to his memorial, explains more about his move to Colorado. All very interesting!
Added by Linda Berney on Nov 14, 2014 7:57 PM
Linda Berney
If you look at the narrative posted on his memorial, the death date is exactly the same as in the obit. Also, the obit says he used to live in Chicago. The memorial narrative also lists his many children, including the surname Barzynski, which is also listed in the obit as his daughter. I'm sure it is the same guy! He may have lived a long time in Chicago, but I'm sure he didn't die there.
Added by Linda Berney on Nov 14, 2014 7:53 PM
RE: Another Miner
That is Ugo Filippe /Filippi who was a Timberman in the Mine 28 yrs old, born abt 1881.. married left a Widow no children buried with Frank Marchioni
Added by Billy on Nov 11, 2014 12:58 PM
RE: 111744215
My interests are varied when it comes to the Cherry Mine disaster.. which i have researched since the 90's there are so many separate stories to tell
my email is I've owned the rights to for years with the hopes to build a website others meet online on a facebook page.. where we exchange info and tidbits ..the fellow who created the facebook page has died but the page still goes on.. 4 people i know have extensive knowledge of disaster.. Karen Tentori (wrote Trapped) Jack Rooney (born in Cherry) Ray T (has a website) Steve stout.. wrote a novel...
and many more.. Thursday is the anniversary. Id like to reunite the miners by findagrave.. I have 170 currently. some are in Trinity as unknowns... please feel free to contact me on yahoo.
Bill Wagner
Added by Billy on Nov 11, 2014 8:13 AM
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