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HJ (#46937296)
 member for 7 years, 7 months, 6 days
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Bio Photo 1. SEND SOURCE INFO!!! When sending info for inclusion on memorials I have entered, please include your source (where you found it, or how you know it). This is important. If I think the info is questionable, I might not add it, or will note who sent it to me. I decline to perpetuate errata and will NOT post anything from an unreliable source.

2. MANNERS COUNT. I appreciate POLITE requests and corrections. If you don't know how to use the words, "please," and "thank you," or can't be bothered, then please don't bother at all. If you send extremely rude, or threatening messages, no matter how subtle, I will forward them to the Find A Grave administrators, without exception.

3. I TRANSFER. Aside from my own family, and close friends, I do not hoard memorials. POLITE requests for your family (close, OR distant), and close friends will all be considered. If I am even remotely related, I will not transfer. I will keep my friends, unless your relationship is significantly closer. If you are prone to entering sloppy memorials with incorrect info, I will think twice about a transfer.

4. YOUR PHOTOS: Please don't add bad photos to memorials I have entered, i.e. photos where you can be seen reflected in the stone, your car is in the background, the stone is covered in bird poop, or leaves, or dirt, your dog, or kid can be seen, or photos taken at a carelessly crooked angle, or ones with more "white space," than gravestone (NO need to crop ALL the white space out, and photos of entire family plots are the exception). Please do not add photographs of new graves in their entirety, with no grass growing on the freshly up-turned dirt. Please do not add photos of the temporary plastic grave markers placed by the funeral home, or photos of the gravestone, prior to inscribing of the DOD for new burials--if you do, please anticipate that I will request a removal when a photo of a fully inscribed gravestone has been posted. I spend a lot of time to make attractive, respectful memorials. Your help with that is appreciated.

Note: If the persons grave has no marker, please at least add a photo of the area where the grave is located.

5. MY PHOTOS, those of gravestones and cemeteries, may be used without my permission, EXCEPT on ancestry.com, or any site which requires an exchange of money. There is no need to give me credit and in fact, I would prefer that you don't. However, please do not post one of my original photos to a Find A Grave memorial yourself. Politely make a request and I will gladly add, if appropriate.

6. CAUSES OF DEATH are a matter of public record. If you are related to an individual who has a cause of death posted in their memorial, and you are disturbed by the posting of that cause, I will remove it, upon polite request.

7. I VOLUNTEER. As another member has noted on their profile, I'm not getting paid to do this. Nope, not a penny. I sometimes get behind in doing corrections, updates, etc. Your patience is appreciated. Please remember that edits take time, no one is entitled to my time, and demands are wholly unappreciated (please refer to point #2 above). If you can't wait, you may send the edit request to Find A Grave.

8. LIVING PEOPLE: Please don't add memorials for them, especially, if you haven't yet entered a memorial for YOURSELF. Not only is it against policy, but it's just a horrendous thing to do to someone, without their consent.

9. LIVE & LET LIVE. I am all for receiving and sending updates, corrections, etc. I appreciate notification when I have added a duplicate and will notify others of duplicates. Beyond that, I do not consider myself to be on the Find A Grave police squad, and neither should you. Please allow me to tend to the memorials I have entered. If I add something you don't like to a memorial you have entered, or to that of a family member's, please point it out to me POLITELY. Vague references to Find A Grave policies are not helpful in specific instances--I have entered hundreds of memorials and manage hundreds more. Above all, please remember that Find A Grave IS NOT REAL. The internet is NOT TANGIBLE. What does that mean? In the grand scheme of life, this is small stuff and could go "poof" in an instant.

10. To those who are all about the numbers: THERE IS NO END TO DEAD PEOPLE. Just because I might enter a memorial you wanted to enter, doesn't mean you can't enter one for someone else. There are plenty for all.

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In Honor of Our Fallen Brave . . .

In Flanders Fields, 1919, by John McCrae

In Flanders fields the poppies blow
Between the crosses, row on row,
That mark our place; and in the sky
The larks, still bravely singing, fly
Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago
We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow,
Loved and were loved, and now we lie,
In Flanders fields.

Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields.

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THANK YOU to everyone who sends info and corrections for memorials I have entered. Time does not permit me to thank everyone for each individual contribution, but please know that they are appreciated!

In case I have missed anyone, THANK YOU to the PHOTO VOLUNTEERS who have fulfilled my requests--much appreciated!

MANY THANKS to those MEMBERS who have entered memorials for members of my family and who have had the kindness to transfer them to me--you're the BEST!

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PRIVATELY OWNED CEMETERIES & PHOTOGRAPHY Privately owned cemeteries may regulate the taking of photographs by persons physically within the boundaries of the cemetery property. Please refer to the laws of the relevant state. More discussion may be perused here:
http://legalgenealogist.com/blog/2012/10/22/cemetery-photos-permission-required/ (Courtesy of Find A Grave Member Diehard, profile # 46809256)

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Finally, when I die, please no one euphemistically assert that I have "passed." It sounds so impolite, as though a catastrophic gastric feux pas has occurred, and won't fool anyone into thinking I have done something other than dropping DEAD. Geesh, we all do it, so I don't think it is taboo to say it. Furthermore, I shall haunt anyone designating my date of death as an "angel day," or similar nonsense. How presumptuous it would be for anyone, except God, to make such an assumption.
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DogMama08
RE: Randall Church, Memorial# 97471277
You didn't have to go to that much trouble, but thank you.
Added by DogMama08 on Apr 20, 2015 4:49 PM
GLENDA EISENHOUR
Illnois transfers
Good evening,
Do you have any interest in transfers from the following counties in IL:
Macoupin, McHenry, Cook, Macon, Hancock or Vermilion
Glenda
Added by GLENDA EISENHOUR on Apr 17, 2015 7:06 PM
Sherry
Walter Piascyk #125944037
Dear HJ,

Would you please consider transferring Walter Piascyk's Memorial #125944037 to me. He is our uncle. Thank you so much for creating this Memorial for him and for adding his obituary.

Sharon Colmone
#47151739

Added by Sherry on Apr 16, 2015 6:13 PM
andieno
Margaret Child
The birth date comes right from the headstone.
It gives the date of death and how she was.
My program figured out the date.
Added by andieno on Apr 15, 2015 1:13 PM
GLENDA EISENHOUR
RE: Thank You!
You're welcome. I have a few in some counties you did not mention (Henry for one), but I'll check with you before transferring any of these.
Added by GLENDA EISENHOUR on Apr 13, 2015 1:02 PM
kksjgel
RE: Hope Cemetery Annex
I will certainly do that. I actually took close-ups of those graves, too and will post those as well. Edward, Helen, and Marion were actually listed in Hope Cemetery (instead of the Annex), so they are duplicated in that cemetery listing. I am not sure how you may go about getting that fixed, but they are all in the Annex.
Added by kksjgel on Apr 13, 2015 12:53 PM
No Guts, No Glory
Thank you
for the spelling correction. It was NOT me...LOL
Added by No Guts, No Glory on Apr 13, 2015 8:17 AM
GLENDA EISENHOUR
RE: Memorial # 58844218
Yes, I will be happy to do that. I know you do good work and will take good care of any of my transfers. I would much rather see them in the hands of either family or someone such as yourself who has a direct interest in them. Appreciate you contacting me about this.
Glenda
Added by GLENDA EISENHOUR on Apr 12, 2015 6:46 PM
GLENDA EISENHOUR
RE: Memorial # 58844218
Hi! I thought you and a couple others might be curious about these transfers to Find A Grave because I've worked so closely with you and have appreciated everything you've done. Fact is, I'm not getting any younger, and I had gotten so many to manage that I'm not related to, so I thought it best to transfer some of them while I still have most of my senses about me. It has turned out to be a good thing. I'm checking each one before I transfer for any additional info and have found a few mistakes as well.

No reason other than the above. I'm keeping any that have a connection to my lines as well as our local people in Oklahoma. I'm still here and willing to help any way I can.

Thanks for checking,
Glenda
Added by GLENDA EISENHOUR on Apr 12, 2015 5:21 PM
Kevin Stehl
Elizabeth Hainmueller Hamel
Do you know the source of Elizabeth Hainmueller Hamel's maiden name? Memorial #83369027.
Added by Kevin Stehl on Apr 12, 2015 3:32 PM
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