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history4sure (#46997739)
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Bio Photo I am willing to transfer any memorials which are not my ancestors or relatives and will try to help anyone with information or research. I think it is important to identify persons, when possible, so we can know who they are and who their families are, for historical and personal reasons.
2014 Update:
Sixty five years ago I started looking for lost graves as Grandma sent me, at age 8, to find "the indention by the pine tree, near great great grandpa's headstone" so she could place flowers where a baby was buried in 1869 with no "marker". From her, I learned to look for that tiny "frosted" spot when the night before had been chilly (the ground is still warmer at a burial site which has no vault, even after 100's of years!)
I first knew grief when Grandma died, 58 years ago. To honor her, I began genealogy research from her precious family records. Fifty four years ago the death of my young first husband, at the hands of robbers, nearly caused the loss of my first unborn child. Years later, a miscarriage took another son and now, for the past 29 years, we have also grieved for our youngest son, lost to a freak accident. Brad
Writing personal histories has been a passion for nearly 40 years, since I found my relationship to Mormon Battalion soldiers and an early U.S. President.
Being an unpaid cemetery sexton for the past 23 years has required mapping and recording (handwritten) of over 3,000 birth & death locations and overseeing burials and settings of gravestones for some 750 persons. During this time, the birth and death records from 1854 at one cemetery and from 1869 to date, at another, were located and recorded; exact grave locations had never been written down for 155 years! I'm still hand drawing family lot maps for the latter cemetery for all owners.
For about 30 years, I have composed poetry and short stories about loved ones' passing, both for my own and others.
So, am I a "graver" ?, a "griever", a "genealogist", a "historian", a "sexton", a "poet" or just kind of "nutty"?? (We ALL could have, instead of this, been lounging on "sum beach sum where", ya know!)
Anyway, I feel sad when an unkind remark is posted, or it is stated that Find a Grave was designed for one purpose and that "newcomers", who want to use it for genealogy, or some other reason than it was originally intended, should go elsewhere. I hope it is intended to help us all find burial locations, which should include photos, dates, and family links, if possible for proper identification.
Short bios also help identify specific individuals and search data sources can help us verify the positive location. That is why I believe that a gravestone, with poor or misinterpreted information, should be supplemented with the best historical facts available, if possible. After all, it is Find a Grave, not "Find a Stone". Sometimes, nothing else is available, but that is a sad case; unknown, with unknown dates does not tell us much, especially when there is no stone or it is illegible.
I hope to help & will gladly transfer, edit, delete or correct anything I contribute; I'm slow, but I'm OLD, please have patience!


Suprise! Thanks so much to Renee for the Sponsorship of Our Sweet Rose...what an honor to be cared for by such a dedicated animal lover.

I am grateful AGAIN to Love Always, Renee for the sponsorship of my beloved Daddy - what a generous contributor she is...check out her loving memorials!


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RE: Dear Friend
I am really sorry to hear that news. I never take a minute for granted.
We just had a friend of ours have a stroke two weeks ago. He was horrible bad and all of a sudden rallied. His speech has cleared and he is on one cane. Monday they were trying to get him on two. I saw him yesterday and he did not want to sit down. He said he has done enough of that. he is like 45.
My son's girlfriend just came through with the abuse her adoptive father put on her so she has been with us for about a month. They are not sure this is forever, but my son wants her safe, hubby and I want her safe and she trying to fight the healing process. Being very quiet and NOT letting that bring everyone else down. Two of us are survivors in this house and my hubby is the rock beside us, I told her to scream. She has her voice use it.
I have lost people to heart attacks, car wrecks, to the long battles with cancer and lupus. My hubby of 28 years is the longest ANYONE has been able to survive with me.
Sweetheart you are a great heart. Keep that pinky line open so you can help heal others and not harm yourself.
Do not respond until things calm down for you. My hubby is out working and the kids are out sleeping so I had a moment. You are rarely far from my mind.
Added by Chesnut/Behunin Descendan... on Dec 25, 2014 11:04 PM
Chesnut/Behunin Descendant
To you and yours Shirleen I hope you have had and will have a VERY MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS. It is snowing here Almost the first snow this season and it is CHRISTMAS Snow YEA We woke up to a small little skiff and it has continued and still is soft falling, stay warm, stay cozy, here's to hot tea and cocoa.
We had a GREAT Christmas Morning and Big Breakfast, now the kids are going to other family for the afternoon and my hubby is out rescuing stranded drivers {in this snow}so I am catching my breath and thinking of you. MERRY CHRISTMAS.

Added by Chesnut/Behunin Descendan... on Dec 25, 2014 1:05 PM
Patty Valentino
Merry Christmas

Dear Shirleen,

Thank You for all of your visits, and have a

Merry★* 。 ˚ ˚ ˛ ˚ ˛
。★Christmas★ 。* 。
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˚ ˛ ˛ ˚ | 田田 |門| ˚And a Happy New Year!


With Blessings and Love,
Patty XO :)
Added by Patty Valentino on Dec 22, 2014 12:10 PM
Patty Valentino
"Thank You"....

...for visiting Sgt. Manno, and for the very beautiful heartfelt sentiment that you left for was so very touching. Enjoy your weekend, and have a very Blessed Merry Christmas and a healthy Happy New Year.

((Hugs)) and Blessings,
Added by Patty Valentino on Dec 20, 2014 7:38 AM
Love Always, Renee
Merry Christmas to you
God bless you this holiday season.
Added by Love Always, Renee on Dec 20, 2014 6:42 AM
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You're welcome! :) Glad to help!
Added by Dorothy on Dec 04, 2014 8:15 PM
Terence O'Brien
Sorry, I am not related (that I know of) to Terry. I came across the memorial looking up other O'Briens and placed a flower. I do not have any information on his wife. Tried plugging some of his history into ancestry for you but I guess its too early for that information to be available on line yet. Perhaps if you went to the Family Search Centre in your area they could help you locate her. I wish I could be more helpful. Good Luck.
Added by Gone on Dec 01, 2014 12:00 AM
Esther Kinder
RE: Blessings...
Thank you so much.
Added by Esther Kinder on Nov 30, 2014 11:05 AM
Debra Lewis
Mary Towson
LOL his face and message are priceless.
I think I found her grand daughter Jennifer Kowalski (#46926350)
Added by Debra Lewis on Nov 29, 2014 9:24 AM
RE: Rob McCarty
Sure thing. I've deleted my entry for him, so you're good to go.

Added by Becca on Nov 28, 2014 5:25 PM
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