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I am willing to transfer any memorials which are not my ancestors or relatives and will try to help anyone with information or research. I think it is important to identify persons, when possible, so we can know who they are and who their families are, for historical and personal reasons.|
Sixty five years ago I started looking for lost graves as Grandma sent me, at age 8, to find "the indention by the pine tree, near great great grandpa's headstone" so she could place flowers where a baby was buried in 1869 with no "marker". From her, I learned to look for that tiny "frosted" spot when the night before had been chilly (the ground is still warmer at a burial site which has no vault, even after 100's of years!)
I first knew grief when Grandma died, 58 years ago. To honor her, I began genealogy research from her precious family records. Fifty four years ago the death of my young first husband, at the hands of robbers, nearly caused the loss of my first unborn child. Years later, a miscarriage took another son and now, for the past 29 years, we have also grieved for our youngest son, lost to a freak accident. Brad
Writing personal histories has been a passion for nearly 40 years, since I found my relationship to Mormon Battalion soldiers and an early U.S. President.
Being an unpaid cemetery sexton for the past 23 years has required mapping and recording (handwritten) of over 3,000 birth & death locations and overseeing burials and settings of gravestones for some 750 persons. During this time, the birth and death records from 1854 at one cemetery and from 1869 to date, at another, were located and recorded; exact grave locations had never been written down for 155 years! I'm still hand drawing family lot maps for the latter cemetery for all owners.
For about 30 years, I have composed poetry and short stories about loved ones' passing, both for my own and others.
So, am I a "graver" ?, a "griever", a "genealogist", a "historian", a "sexton", a "poet" or just kind of "nutty"?? (We ALL could have, instead of this, been lounging on "sum beach sum where", ya know!)
Anyway, I feel sad when an unkind remark is posted, or it is stated that Find a Grave was designed for one purpose and that "newcomers", who want to use it for genealogy, or some other reason than it was originally intended, should go elsewhere. I hope it is intended to help us all find burial locations, which should include photos, dates, and family links, if possible for proper identification.
Short bios also help identify specific individuals and search data sources can help us verify the positive location. That is why I believe that a gravestone, with poor or misinterpreted information, should be supplemented with the best historical facts available, if possible. After all, it is Find a Grave, not "Find a Stone". Sometimes, nothing else is available, but that is a sad case; unknown, with unknown dates does not tell us much, especially when there is no stone or it is illegible.
I hope to help & will gladly transfer, edit, delete or correct anything I contribute; I'm slow, but I'm OLD, please have patience!
Suprise! Thanks so much to Renee for the Sponsorship of Our Sweet Rose...what an honor to be cared for by such a dedicated animal lover.
I am grateful AGAIN to Love Always, Renee for the sponsorship of my beloved Daddy - what a generous contributor she is...check out her loving memorials!
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|Becca||RE: Rob McCarty|
Sure thing. I've deleted my entry for him, so you're good to go.
Added by Becca on Nov 28, 2014 5:25 PM
|AnnieDuckettHundley||RE: thank you|
You're very welcome! I think I do recall us chatting before about your sister living in Missoula. I live about 20 minutes south. I love hearing that these memorials bring love and joy to families' lives. It's so great that your sister is there with you when you had her son's memorial transferred to you. After reading your profile and the losses you've endured, I especially hope your Holiday Season blesses you and your family with peace and joy.
|AnnieDuckettHundley||RE: Glenn Lee Kirby|
I've transferred his memorial to your care. Yes, I do know what grief can do, I'm sorry you do too. Hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving Day.
|Becca||Robert in Corvallis Cemetery|
I will absolutely transfer him over to you. I apologize for having put him in before you could do so; I entered the entire cemetery record last year, hoping family would find family, so I'm always glad to hear from someone.
Would you rather I deleted the memori so you can create it from the ground up, or would you rather the transfer? I keep all my headstone photos on my harddrive, so I could re-upload that to a new memorial with no problem. Whichever you prefer, I'm happy to do.
Added by Becca on Nov 28, 2014 2:56 PM
|Chesnut/Behunin Descendant||THANK YOU|
I want to take a moment to let you know, you are one of the things I am very THANKFUL FOR.
LOVE YA LOTS and LOTS
|Patty Valentino||Blessings to you and yours....|
|Valenciaღ Angel of Mine 💕||~My Thanks For You~|
My thanksgiving will be happy all because of you,
For God gave me a friend to blow away the blues
He knew I needed someone, my heart to bless,
With the fruit of His spirit, He selected all His best.
For you offer a gentle joy, sweeter than peach,
Your goodness overflows, just within reach.
So please take these thoughts I offer to you
For you deserve the abundance
Of my gratitude.
Is the inscription behind you, on monument stone, Adam Cormany? There are a listings of that surname at Ancestry.com who have Illinois notations.
|GeorgiaCA||RE: An Old Relic|
That is so interesting - is the little cemetery listed here? It really looks very old and beautiful.
Yea it is messed up!
Added by aisxray on Nov 18, 2014 9:32 PM
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