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Squeak (#47437442)
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Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow;
I am the sunlight on ripened grain,
I am the gentle Autumn rain.

When you awaken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush,
Of quiet birds in circled flight;
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry
I am not there, I did not die

~Mary Elizabeth Frye (1932)


Strangers in the Box
by Pamela A. Harazim

Come, look with me inside this drawer,
In this box I've often seen,
At the pictures, black and white,
Faces proud, still, serene.
I wish I knew the people,
These strangers in the box,
Their names and all their memories
Are lost among my socks.
I wonder what their lives were like.
How did they spend their days?
What about their special times?
I'll never know their ways.
If only someone had taken time
To tell who, what, where, when,
These faces of my heritage
Would come to life again.
Could this become the fate
Of the pictures we take today?
The faces and the memories
Someday to be tossed away?
Make time to save your pictures,
Seize the opportunity when it knocks,
Or someday you and yours could be
The strangers in the box.


Behold and see as you pass by
As you are now so once was I
As I am now so must you be
Prepare for death and follow me

(Taken from the headstone of my great-great-great-great-great-great uncle, Josephus Benoni Bellamy, whom died in 1777)


The Recording of a Cemetery
by Thelma Greene Reagan

Today we walked where others walked
On a lonely, windswept hill;
Today we talked where others cried
For Loved Ones whose lives are stilled.
Today our hearts were touched
By graves of tiny babies;
Snatched from the arms of loving kin,
In the heartbreak of the ages.
Today we saw where the grandparents lay
In the last sleep of their time;
Lying under the trees and clouds -
Their beds kissed by the sun and wind.
Today we wondered about an unmarked spot;
Who lies beneath this hallowed ground?
Was it a babe, child, young or old?
No indication could be found.
Today we saw where Mom and Dad lay.
We had been here once before
On a day we'd all like to forget,
But will remember forever more.
Today we recorded for kith and kin
The graves of ancestors past;
To be preserved for generations hence,
A record we hope will last.
Cherish it, my friend; preserve it, my friend,
For stones sometimes crumble to dust
And generations of folks yet to come
Will be grateful for your trust.
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Nancy J Johnson
RE: M.M. O'Brien - Saratoga IOOF Cemetery
Sorry, Also, not sure who you have talked to, but there is a fairly decent list of burials of the home, they are not located at the Saratoga home, but with our books of all Lodges that we keep in a secured and humidified location at the Odd fellows Lodge building in San Francisco. Which is ironic, because it is this same location where all our records were lost in 1906. If you would like me to do any research for you on the Odd Fellows side, I will do my best to help.
Added by Nancy J Johnson on Aug 14, 2014 9:28 PM
Nancy J Johnson
RE: M.M. O'Brien - Saratoga IOOF Cemetery
I am the Grand Historian of the Grand Lodge of California. I have access to Lodge Records, Grand Lodge Journals and Physician records of both the Thermalito home and the Saratoga Home. I was able to locate your M.M. O'Brien and his Lodge and from there I found him listed in the 1878, 1890 & 1906 register of the Abou Ben Adhem Lodge #112 in San Francisco.
Added by Nancy J Johnson on Aug 14, 2014 9:24 PM
Carl Steiger
Patty Haney
Your welcome.
Added by Carl Steiger on Aug 01, 2014 4:38 AM
J Winstead
RE: Josephine Christensen Larson
If you don't mind, just delete it, and I can add some other photos when I get them. I have pics of her that I can add, if I don't find a stone. Maybe we will place one. Thanks, and let me know, if you need anything in Oregon. I will also be heading to MO, and TN for ancestry this year.
Added by J Winstead on Jul 29, 2014 5:27 PM
J Winstead
RE: Josephine Christensen Larson
I can appreciate that, I know you researched this one for me. She should be next to Charles Larson, or at least that is what I was told. I am planning a trip to that cemetery this winter or spring. I know Joseph is not her relative. Her Find A Grave Memorial# 124627175

Added by J Winstead on Jul 29, 2014 2:53 PM
J Winstead
Josephine Christensen Larson
Hey Squeak,

You had looked for a grave for me for my wife's grandmother in San Jose. It turns our that the stone you took a photo of is the wrong stone (Joseph) and not related to her. Charles L Larson is her husband, I can't remove the photo, can you?

Added by J Winstead on Jul 29, 2014 12:51 PM
Hi, sent you a map to your email. If you like the old markers you probably have been to Mt. View cemetery. Strolled there one day, it has twists and turns and tall markers. Its best to walk most of the areas. Its bigger than evergreen, and the office there charges for volunteers to look up locations. My plans were to start taking photos there after Evergreen was complete, maybe next year.
Added by B J on Jul 16, 2014 10:26 AM
Bacigalupi memorials
Hi!! Can you please transfer the memorials of Anita Bacigalupi #126565987 and Edward Bacigalupi #126565982 over to me so that I can link them to family members and update info

Thank You
Denice #46955904
Added by Denice on Jul 11, 2014 6:32 PM
RE: Evergreen
Of course there is more than one. Its Oakland. The really hard area is the oldest, serenity. Many of the markers are worn out or covered in nature. Hate leaving those unsolved. That's the area that I need help.
Added by B J on Jul 09, 2014 5:44 PM

I see you are adding memorials at evergreen. Will you be adding any new ones and can you let me know what section you will be working? Have been taking photos for about a year as a photo contributor and am now ready to begin making memorials. Would not like to duplicate anything you are working on.
Added by B J on Jul 09, 2014 4:45 PM
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