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Ernestine MassieTabor (#46895639)
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I am from Virginia and have been searching my family since 1968. I have Wallers from spotsylvania Co. Va. Massie from Amherst and Nelson, Withers from Fauquier down to Amherst and Nelson, Wheelers from Louisa and Albemarle Co, Goin and Wright from Amherst and somewhere. Military life took us everywhere but home. So 2010 has brought me home again.Sometimes it is hard to get a good picture. If you can get a better one, we'll replace it.
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Margaret Parsons
RE: Thomas Vivian Hudson
You are quite welcome...I was happy to share the marriage date of Beulah Mae (Ingoe) Strickler and Thomas Vivian Hudson. Beulah Mae is my husband's aunt. We visited them out in the country in 1977 in Nelson Co., VA. It wasn't too long after our visit that T.V. passed. It was nice to have met him. A very nice man.
Added by Margaret Parsons on Jun 22, 2015 11:47 PM
Angela Vaden McDowell
Frances M Compton
Thank you so much for taking care of my sweet Aunt Frances. I just joined the Find a Grave site and am looking forward to updating and managing my family.

Angela Vaden McDowell
daughter of Henry Irvin Vaden
Added by Angela Vaden McDowell on Apr 12, 2015 12:46 PM
Joan Mays
RE: 108053617 Frances Tabor Burkhart
Transfer is done.

Added by Joan Mays on Apr 11, 2015 8:01 PM
Oletta Fitzgerald Campbell
I noticed that you added a photo of Oletta to her memorial. By any chance are you related to her? She is my fiancÚ's aunt on his mother's (Fitzgerald) side. His mother is Margaret Etta (Fitzgerald) Lucas. They called her "Aunt Lettie".
Added by BKL on Nov 30, 2014 4:40 PM
Mike B.
RE: Kate and Joseph Goin
Your welcome.
Added by Mike B. on Oct 24, 2014 8:25 PM
A AAA American at Find A Grave
Interlink Paynes please
Dear Tina,

Here is this better as the EDIT Tab I have tried a few times.

Addison Rucker Payne 76782432 had Two Wives and a few children by/with each.
With his first wife you did link my Uncle Glenn Addison Payne finally. Another Brother who lays next to his wife and near his Father aforementioned and here Addison is George Charles Payne 76782510. Both those Brothers were in the US Air Force.

His, Addison Rucker Payne's second wife, Mrs. Jean Loving Payne 121714285 lays in Amherst near her parents I already had them interlinked.

Again please interlink the Second Wife. Mrs. Jean Loving Payne.

Also the son George with the first Wife 76782369.

If any doubt call Mrs. Jean Payne at the Nelson County Seat of Government in Lovingston, Virginia.

Thank you in advance.

Jonathan Robert De Mallie
Added by A AAA American at Find A ... on Aug 22, 2014 12:19 PM
A AAA American at Find A Grave
RE: Addison Payne
Dear Tina,

Are you going to ? He is our direct kinsman. I just put his second wife, Mrs.Jean Loving Payne and her parents interlinked too. As you see and saw nobody else has.

That Mrs. many women have fought to have, attain, and as well retain it for centuries. When a Woman is married she becomes a Mrs. .

Regards and love to the families,

Jonathan Robert De Mallie

PS: We prayed for all our family, friends, and kin lost in August of 1969 in that record rains, mountain slides, and flood. Many as you may know are still amissing GOD Bless them all.
Added by A AAA American at Find A ... on Aug 21, 2014 2:57 PM
A AAA American at Find A Grave
RE: Addison Payne
Will you?
Added by A AAA American at Find A ... on Aug 07, 2014 1:27 AM
John Paul Neblett
You're welcome, and...
Re: Paige Murray Massie Gates Flint

First, you're very welcome regarding the photo request I was able to fulfill- as for the other...

I've reached out to Joan Mays and asked her to review a possible duplication of memorials for your requested photo.

It appears that Find A Grave Memorial# 86765230 may be the original to a duplicate; Find A Grave Memorial# 107515978.

I've also gone in and requested that a spousal link be added for Joseph Flint.

I've asked Joan Mays to relocate her picture so that she may claim your request- credit where credit is due and whatnot. So- please wait a couple of days and I'm certain that we'll see some action on this.

Please let me know if I can be of further assistance.

Best Regards.

Added by John Paul Neblett on Aug 06, 2014 8:31 AM
A AAA American at Find A Grave
RE: John Henry Hight
I know you said John Hight was your GGG Granddaddy, but who are the generations between you and him? I looked and saw the Stratton's and they are very much related to me as is the Harvey's, Withers, Massie, Bolling,Mays and many others."

Dear Tina,

I do have a name.

On facts of Family Maam. Have you bought..and/or read the Nelson County , Virginia Books. Even on AMZN :NASDAQ you can purchase one, two or how many you want it will cost a lot less than I lost in the Markets today.

Now on what you wrote me back on the Intra Find A Grave mail:

Please show me you Kin-Lines now too: As so many people did inter-marry as I guess your folks did.


Not John Hight only Maam.
Please do your homework. It is and has been on the Nelson, Amherst, Ablemarle Counties Records. When Custer had control of Nelson Court House at what is Lovingston you may know some records were made inky.. the bloke spilled india ink in the record books.. .

Oh are you in the DAR ? My mother did all the Documentary work for the Lovings. Yes that's why Lovingston is named that. The prior only Nelson Seat was Colleen which also was Amherst County Seat till we spun off it.

Now on our John Hight aforementioned::: let me do your due dilly.. work here a wee bit..

I hope you knew of my Grandaddy Thomas Bland Harvey, Sr. # 23438673 as he had to raise Three Families, he built the Roseland UNITED STATES US POSTAL Department OFFICE and all his houses too. His only wife was Miss Marion Belle Bowles, she taught and was the US Postmaster in Roseland, Virginia. She was from over in Fancy Hill, Amherst County. Mary Loving was her and Grandaddy Harveys DIL ( Daughter-In-Law) by marring Thomas Bland Harvey, Jr.. Mrs. Offie Gunner was the US Postal Clerk. Thats George Gunner's wife.

Now more than saying on Mr. Hight as once you read the actual and factual documentation. Oh in Nelson County why not go see Mrs. Jean Payne in the County Offices. She lives on Red Hill right next to the Paynes Sky Top on what we call Payne Lane which crosses Louise Payne Crik. That crik flows into not Hatt Creek nor the old Mill Race but the Tye River where Andersons Store had been and Kidds store were prior before the World Record Flood we were in 1969, August.

( TO PROVIDE YOU WITH A Partial ACCURATE Record to follow::)

Charles Henry Harvey was my Grandaddy Harveys father: # 23642391. mother was Alma Frances Hight Harvey: 23642452
So yes those are my Great Grandparents::
The Children: My *Grandaddy and Great Aunts and Uncles to follow:

*Thomas Bland Harvey,Sr. (1887 - 1978)
Charles Robert Harvey (1892 - 1907)
Lillian Harvey Bryant (1895 - 1976)
Floreen Harvey Parr (1897 - 1989)
John Pettit Harvey (1899 - 1980)
Lucy Harvey Johnson (1901 - 1989)
Berry (Little Berry) Francis (Toliver) Harvey (1906 - 1982)

:: *Alma's My Great Grandmother: Siblings:
So yes they are my Great Great Aunts and Uncles.

Bland M. Hight (1859 - 1936)
*Alma Frances Height Harvey (1863 - 1948)
Robert Lee Hight (1868 - 1943)
Mary Katherine Hight Parrish (1870 - 1939)
Emma Lucy Hight Wright (1873 - 1954)
Juliette Hight Bryant (1875 - 1958)
Nora Hight Boyd (1878 - 1947)
John Henry Hight (1881 - 1958)

Almas Dad. My Great Great Great Grandaddy and Grandmother:

John Henry HIGHT Marriage to Mary Catherine STRATTON was on 18th of NOVEMBER, 1858 in Roseland, Nelson County, Virginia

John Henry Height:
# 95075377
Mrs. Mary Catherine (MOLY) Stratton Hight
# 95074901

The planned Children are:

Bland M. Hight (1859 - 1936)
*Alma Frances Height Harvey (1863 - 1948)
Robert Lee Hight (1868 - 1943)
Mary Katherine Hight Parrish (1870 - 1939)
Emma Lucy Hight Wright (1873 - 1954)
Juliette Hight Bryant (1875 - 1958)
Nora Hight Boyd (1878 - 1947)
John Henry Hight (1881 - 1958)


James Asa Stratton (1834 - 1907)
Henry Fletcher Stratton (1835 - 1914)
Mary Catherine Stratton Hight (1839 - 1896)
Lucy Williams Stratton Whitehead (1841 - 1911)

John Henry Hight Dad and Mom:
Married March 11th, 1812.

John Hight
Mrs. Elizabeth Camden Hight:

Hope this helps you clarify knowing more. Across the Mountain up Va. Rt 56 you may see a few names change in spelling also.

Regards and love to the families,

Jonathan Robert De Mallie

PS: As you may have seen I am about the only one besides a few of my friends who visit the memorials, leave a flower, token, and/or prayers.
No one should be alone in memory either.

Added by A AAA American at Find A ... on Aug 01, 2014 12:02 AM
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