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Chris (#46836790)
 member for 9 years, 5 months, 29 days
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Bio Photo I absolutely love genealogy and this website is a great tool to make sure those who have passed before us aren't forgotten. Old family photographs are a passion of mine so if you have photos of any of the individuals posted please add them and email me so I can see them! If you have documents/obits or anything else regarding any of my memorials I'd also love to see them. A decent majority of my memorials are in my tree.....we're all related somehow!

I understand how this website began (to record graves) but I do NOT subscribe to the theory that that's all it's for as it's really transformed itself (with photo options and edits/links it's become a WONDERFUL option for displaying actual family trees) Why not create as complete/accurate memorials of our ancestors as possible? So for those of you that don't agree with me we will have to agree to disagree. I will continue submitting corrections/links as I come across them. I'm not perfect but if I've submitted a correction I've researched it and have a reason for it - I am not submitting them willy-nilly.

With the release of Michigan marriage/divorce records through 1952 it's amazing to me the number of "starter" marriages I've found (and number of questions I get from people questioning spousal links I submit). If I've asked for a link to a spouse it's because I've proven they were married. It may not always be pleasant to add that 2nd (or 3rd or 4th) spouse to great grandma so and so but it's an accurate representation of history and quite frankly it's someone they loved at some point in time right?

I see those that complain about death certificates, etc being posted on memorials and how those "add nothing". That is absolute malarkey. How often are headstones wrong? Sometimes the only way to prove it (and keep incorrect edits from being submitted) is to add the certificate. I generally only add to my memorials but that's why a lot of them are there. If you come across a memorial that has photos, obits, death certs or anything else on them they are likely in my direct family line and I will not apologize for what I've added. If I've added something to one of your memorials (in years past) and you'd like it removed please contact me and I will.

I will occasionally post a "burial unknown" if it means that generations after that person will be linked up with other family (or to keep that one missing sibling from being left out of their family). I'd love to be able to add burial locations for every memorial but it's not always possible and with today's practices I suspect that future generations will have even more issues with this. I would suspect that a few % of memorials that have "known" burials are in the wrong cemetery anyway so what's the difference?

I like to play nice on this website. I have made many neat connections and would much rather have fun with this than butt heads with someone. If you want to get along with me I'll get along with you. In genealogy connections are EVERYTHING - research assistance, etc. comes from your connections and the connections (and dare I say friendships) I've made on this site have been wonderful.

You are welcome to use my headstone photos in your personal family trees (consider this permission). I have always appreciated a note with credit to me and especially have appreciated those that have asked in the past. I gave up long ago fighting those that took my personal family photos and added them to their tree without my permission. At some point in life you just accept that there are inconsiderate jerks in the world and move on. I do enjoy it when I find the people labeled incorrectly. I'd gladly help fix it but I don't help thieves. Ultimately I've used this site to record for future generations and not sharing the photos defeats that purpose but geez people, show some class!

I don't subscribe to the transfer rules of findagrave so if you're related to or have a particular interest in someone that I have a memorial for please let me know how you're related and (unless they're in my direct line) I'll gladly transfer. This site has become about collecting numbers for some and I quite frankly could give a rat's patoot about numbers.

My biggest pet peeve are people that create duplicate memorials when it's blatantly obvious that a memorial already exists. I will always fix mine if I create one (name differences, transcription errors, etc) but some of what I've seen is just sheer laziness and I will report those whenever I find them. Please LOOK BEFORE YOU POST! You will never find me uncooperative with your requests so to duplicate one of my memorials is absolutely unnecessary (in addition to rude and against the rules).

That is all :). Happy graving!
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My apologies. The Colbert/Coble confused me (I have the flu right now so it's easy to do) and for some reason I was thinking that the edit was for the infant daughter, not the mother. I have gone ahead and linked them.

Added by Zella on Oct 12, 2015 4:44 PM
ELLEN Wadsworth
I am very impressed reading your blog. I am still new to ancestry and you are so right many of them are lazy, people left out, wrong people put in, little about the person and their life. I think that is why it takes me so long to work on my DAR is finding the correct information. I am so glad to have you there for help and reference. If I can help please let me know. I am wheelchair bound so not much of pictures but can research. Thanks Ellen
Added by ELLEN Wadsworth on Oct 07, 2015 2:26 PM
Ashley EMJ
Lambert Transfer
Thank you, Chris, for transferring Leona's gravestone to me! I appreciate it greatly. Continue the great work. I agree with you - I think there needs to be more cooperation on Find-A-Grave and if any of Leona's descendants want her gravestone, I'll be happy to pass it along. Thanks again!
Added by Ashley EMJ on Oct 06, 2015 5:44 PM
s schultz
Thanks for the updates.

and BRAVO to your profile message. LOVE IT! takes one to know one I think. Let's keep going and doing the jobs we love. (Our mission - to bring families back together again through Find A Grave.)
Added by s schultz on Oct 06, 2015 5:38 AM
L Hankins
Bernice Springer
No I can't. I inherited several memorials from Lace. I don't know where or how so obtained her information. Sorry. L Hankins
Added by L Hankins on Oct 04, 2015 9:14 PM
Comstock, Old Oroville Cem
Chris, sending via SAC two small "adds" to the record that you might find useful ... these are transcribed from the "Earliest Death & Burial Records" (full attribution added in each SAC) for the David and William Comstock memorials (brothers; young children). A in CA
Added by Adriana on Oct 02, 2015 1:44 PM
Laura Aanenson
Hubbells in Rose Hill Cemetery
Good morning Chris,

I received your suggested edits of the memorials above. Please provide the sources of your information and I will make the changes you requested. Thank you for helping keep Find A Grave an accurate and valuable genealogical tool!

Added by Laura Aanenson on Oct 02, 2015 4:34 AM
Hi Chris. Sorry, I don't know where the name Vallenga name comes from. It was in the obituary. Best regards.
Added by MGKTLJE on May 01, 2015 6:04 AM
Kuis - Rapp - Denhof - Bennekom
Are you related to this family? Have notice all of the wonderful info you have posted. John Kuis married my gggrandmother Elizabeth Southland and they lived in Muskegon MI. Am in the process of doing a family history and would love to talk to you if these people are related to you. If not you do a wonderful job of updating other peoples family history.
Added by KatieDee on Apr 30, 2015 6:56 PM
sharon cartwright
Rachael Evans
Chris, thanks so much for the transfer, I added a lot of info and if you have questions feel free to let me know. sharon
Added by sharon cartwright on Apr 19, 2015 5:00 PM
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