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pacifica (#46595310)
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e-mail: archangel505 at yahoo dot com

I work for Obit City (, and also maintain several websites, including a private one with my own cemetery transcriptions. I am also a journalist. Find A Grave is one of many online sites to which I've donated information. As my duties at Obit City increase, I'll be adding fewer entries to this site, but I'm still around if you need anything.

I am glad to transfer memorials (save for the few I wish to hang onto for my own loved ones). But please help me out here. If seeking a transfer, please give me the Find A Grave memorial number AND your own contributor number. PLEASE make sure the numbers are correct, as people frequently send me wrong numbers. Don't send a vague note demanding that I transfer your aunt's memorial to you and then expect me to guess which one of my over 16,000 Find A Grave entries your aunt might be, while making me hunt down your contributor number on top of it. This is happening far too often. Thanks!

NOTE: If you are going to submit endless changes to one of my memorials, then please just ask for a transfer. Then you can easily edit it yourself whenever it suits you. There are people asking me to make constant changes to entries, and it's becoming too much to keep up with.

NOTE: I do not know the vast majority of the people whose names I submit here. If I had to guess at a statistic, I'd say I probably don't know 99.5% of them. At least. The information comes from public records.

NOTE: Don't send massive hunks of data and expect me to do anything about it. Please do the polite thing and send small portions of information at a time. When I complete one task, I can tackle another. Receiving it all at once is simply too overwhelming.

NOTE: If you're asking for date corrections for a memorial, please don't send a note saying, "Check dates against headstone." Many of these headstone pictures are too small or too blurred for me to read. Seriously, please stop doing this. Just tell me the dates you want changed instead of referring me to a photo.

NOTE: If you want me to add/change locations for a person's birth or death, fine, but I'm not a geography detective. Please don't make me guess what county all these U.S. towns are in. If you give me a city, then also specify the county. I don't have time to play a game of "Guess That County" every time someone needs a correction made.

NOTE: Please stop asking me to transfer entire cemeteries. I'm getting a lot of notes like, "I think I'm related to a few people at _____ Cemetery, so just send me everybody you've got." I'm glad to transfer a few people, but I've had requests to transfer over a hundred people at once. Please don't do that. If you want me to do something for you, please make your directions plain and give it to me in small amounts. I can transfer multiple people, but as ever, don't ask for over five at a time. Rude notes like "Gimme that whole cemetery and hurry up with it!" are not going to get a response from me anymore.

Many people have sent me e-mails hailing me as a long-lost relative simply because I've added one of their relatives to Find A Grave, or even because I left a virtual flower. I'll admit I'm a little baffled by this. However, if you wish to claim the likes of me as a relative, I'm proud.

But the truth is, I'm an adoptee and haven't a clue as to who I'm related to. I only recently found out the name of one of my biological parents. That's a huge step. What I'm saying is that I'm not one of these people who can trace roots back to the Founding Fathers. I do have step-relatives whose families I'd enjoy knowing more about, though. My own genealogy is an impossible task, but that doesn't mean I can't do my little part to help with someone else's.

Most of the information I have here is of the bare-bones variety, and came from library books, newspapers, word of mouth, family Bibles, tombstones, and all manner of public records. I just put it online, whether here or on the other numerous sites to which I've contributed, and move on with my life. I don't keep records around. What you see is what you get. If I had more information, I'd have added it.

I was on this site for over 6 years before putting anything on this page other than my e-mail address, but felt I finally needed to address issues that are coming up over and over again.

I'm pretty easy to talk to. If you want to drop a line and just say "hello", you can do that.

If you want to approach me about a relative whose name I've put on here, that's fine, but please understand that I know next to nothing about the subject of genealogy, that I'm probably not going to be able to fill in gaps in your family history, that I only actually know a very tiny handful of the people whose names I've added here, that I can't tell you the history of cemeteries thousands of miles away from my home, and that I'm not psychic, either (in other words, if you want me to do something, please tell me in plain English what it is rather than expecting me to read your mind). Oh, and of course, rude e-mails are instantly deleted.

My one big hope is that any of the information I've provided here at Find A Grave, on Obit City, or anywhere else is useful to someone. And from the e-mails I've received, it seems that it has been. For that, I am both glad and grateful.

Thanks, everyone!
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Martin Bartling # 8748875
Would you please connect Martin Bartling to his wife who is my husbands 2nd cousin. Her name and memorial number is as follows.
Irma G Bartling # 40891847.
Thank you
Added by Evelyn on Jul 01, 2014 9:16 AM
Lawrance C.
William Cass

I would appreciate it if you would transfer my 2nd Great Grandfather's memorial to me.

Find A Grave Memorial# 8960489

I am Lawrance C. (#48456149).

Thank you for your time and effort, it is much appreciated.

Added by Lawrance C. on Jun 19, 2014 6:14 PM
Eliza Haughawout
Thank you very much, I will add research info to her bio and links to family.
Added by Bill on Jun 04, 2014 11:22 AM
Genealogy Buff
Lula Whickam 10873960
Please allow me to manage the grave for Lula Whickam, too. I thought I had created that one, but NO...I created the page for her husband. If you allow me to manage that one, I will control my grandfather and all seven of his siblings who are all buried there at Rose of Sharon Cemetery. Again, I have MUCH respect for your work in this area. This history and your work is so important to so many people.

Have a great Memorial Day weekend!

Genealogy Buff
Added by Genealogy Buff on May 23, 2014 2:02 PM
Genealogy Buff
Tobitha Leapheart
My Contributor number is 47910730
Added by Genealogy Buff on May 23, 2014 1:10 PM
Genealogy Buff
Tobitha Leapheart
Please transfer my aunt, Tobitha Leapheart (10873923).

I really appreciate your work in Rose of Sharon Cemetery in Blackwell, AR. My family's roots run deep in that area, and this cemetery is really sacred ground for me.

Thank you for your consideration.

Genealogy Buff.
Added by Genealogy Buff on May 23, 2014 1:08 PM
Jerry W. Ferguson
Joseph and Harley Poda
Joseph D Poda # 101271067
Harley A Poda # 101271004

The following are duplicates and the name should be PODA as shown on the monuments.

Harley A. Ponda #12086785
Joseph D. Ponda# 12086787

Thank you
Added by Jerry W. Ferguson on May 19, 2014 9:56 PM
Kathryn Wagner
#8566359 Darren Schwenneker
I am Darren's (#8566359)birth mother, and I would love it, if you would turn his memorial over to me. There are many things that I would like to add. Thank you so much for adding my son to the memorials and for all the memorials you have done. It really touched my heart to find him on Find A Grave. I am new to this site. Thank you again. Kathryn Wagner #48407627
Added by Kathryn Wagner on May 08, 2014 12:46 PM
V Flesher
Mabel Juanita Henthorne
Thanks for adding the obit for her. I went to school with her.
Added by V Flesher on Apr 30, 2014 8:32 PM
David Haspert
Valentine Bretz
Also, thank you for the transfer of Valentine Bretz memorial which has been updated with a bio and other info that I had. - Dave
Added by David Haspert on Apr 29, 2014 10:12 AM
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