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Single mother of two sons ~ 1 has 2 legs the other has 4. |
Spent my adult life working in customer service and as a caregiver to terminally ill friends and family. I have watched dementia and Alzheimers destroy memories that can never be recovered. It is for that reason I feel that each and every memorial should include as much information as possible. I have been told that this site is merely a database for locations of graves. And it is my opinion that if that were true we wouldn't be posting flowers & messages. We wouldn't be adding photos and bios. We would have nothing more than John Smith row 4 plot 7 Sunny Acres Cemetery.
Most of my memorials are created from grave photos. I search the site before I create the memorial. If I find that I have created a memorial and subsequently find that it is a duplicate of a BU memorial I send an Edit to the contributor advising them of the grave location and that I have a photo of the grave. If the location is added to the memorial I will post the grave photo and delete the memorial I created.
If the contributor does not respond or update the location within 30 days then I will keep my memorial and it's photo in place. As per the site guidelines the contributor is supposed to update the location within 30 days of creating it.
If I have posted a picture of a grave marker it is a picture that I have taken myself. I place no monetary value on these photos. I took the pictures to create or complete memorials and provide photo documentation of the grave site. If family or friends would like a copy of the grave site photos they are welcome to them.
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|Jim Hamren||RE: Vandyce Hamren|
Thanks for making the transfer. It was very considerate of you.
|Ricky Willock||RE: Herbert Willock|
Uncle Herb always talked about Brother Mendenhall. I am not sure about the Hunts, but Herb's sons are Mark and Glen.
|Diane Wheeler||Edward Radley|
Thank you Mary, for the pictures for Edward Radley's gravestone name. And it was nice to have the close up of his name too. Greatly appreciated.
|Debbie W||RE: Biorn and Welge Photos|
Hadn't heard.....Was it John or Thomas?
Added by Debbie W on Oct 21, 2015 9:55 AM
|mike20169||Foster grave at Sac County Cem|
Thank you Mary! You have helped solve a huge mystery for our family. I greatly appreciate you taking the time to go out of you way and go down to take these photos. You are the best!
|Jennifer Eagan Dixon||John Eagan|
Thank you...is this a mass grave?
|charlie shores||Ivan shores|
Thank you for the photo of grandpa ivan
|MJH||RE: Edward Hope|
Thanks you for posting the photos on his and his wifes memorials. I am glad the request led you to stones/markers that weren't previously visible (it is unfortunate that it took a drought). Also thanks for pointing out the other contributors duplicate.
Added by MJH on Sep 19, 2015 12:00 PM
Thank for the photo at Sacramento County Cemetery. Can you tell me if this is a mass burial site or like a "potter's field"? See Memorial# 123102131
Anita Kilburn Powers #48113519
Thanks for the picture.
Added by Max on Sep 12, 2015 8:59 PM
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