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First, my deepest thanks to those who have kept my spirits up by being supportive friends and who have honored my dear ones so faithfully.|
I still find myself trying to focus on the theme of rebirth, and trying to shake the gloom of close losses in the past few years.
Our Romberger Family Association founder, the gent who found our original immigrant ancestor and his family home in Germany, a friend and genealogical mentor has passed. Thank you if you can honor Dr. John A. Romberger. The day we laid Dr. John to rest, another Doctor left us - my dear godfather, Dr. Edwin R. Baldrige. Since then my silversmith teacher, some of my favorite school teachers, and guiding figures from my church have also passed. It sort of feels like my mentors are all taking flight.
I'm finding using the site difficult right now. Some people have found it very therapeutic after a loss. Unfortunately, it has the opposite effect on me; I see all the losses of my fellow contributors, and it makes me feel terrible. I see your now-gone loved ones, and in a small way I re-live the loss of my loved ones. I think my feelings are still too close to the surface to be so easily stirred.
If you have a moment, would you kindly visit Randall Buckley? This is our friend Paula's brother.
If you are wondering whom else to visit, perhaps you'd kindly look in on my dearest.
If you have a moment, would you please send prayers to fellow contributor Ann H?
And if you have another moment, please consider leaving a token for our fellow contributor, White Light.
Picture use: You are welcome to use pictures for personal use, but I do NOT consent for their use online or on commercial or paid sites. FindAGrave is about sharing what you know, and I will not have my good will co-opted and monetized. I saw some of my pics stolen from here and put on ancestry.com and I am taking action to correct this.
Transfers and suggestions: Forgive me, but experience has been a harsh teacher. I used to be very cool about transferring, but I've had about enough of being easy about this. I'll gladly transfer the memorials of anyone not related or without meaning to me in a heartbeat, and I have hundreds to give away. But on family, I'm adopted, working on both birth and adopted families. I have a lot of family to cover, possibly double the size of yours, and I have not articulated my relationship to the subject of every memorial for privacy reasons. Rather than quibble, I would be gladder still to improve a memorial with your suggestions sent via SAC. Let's do the right thing and make the memorial accurate, suitable and a reflection of that person's life. You can put the improved memorial in a "virtual cemetery" without needing ownership of it, as I have done with relatives that other contributors have added to the site. I can add links or the info you wish, and you are welcome to add pictures.
On the other hand, if the memorial is one I have added by chance or the subject is no one related to me or is one to whom I have no attachment, I will offer to transfer instantly.
FindAGrave memorials are online representations of real graves, not trading cards. I don't collect them for numbers and am frankly relieved to see them go to family if they have no connection and meaning to me. There are relatives of mine another contributor has memorialized on the site that I do not "own" and have not asked for, content that I have added the info I have, and linked them to their kin.
"Many African societies divide humans into three categories; those still alive on earth, the sasha, and the zamani. The recently departed whose time on earth overlapped with people still here are the sasha, the living-dead. They are not wholly dead, for they still live in the memories of the living, who can call them to mind, create their likeness in art, and bring them to life in anecdote. When the last person to know an ancestor dies, that ancestor leaves the sasha for the zamani, the dead. As generalized ancestors, the zamani are not forgotten but revered. Many can be recalled by name. But they are not living-dead. There is a difference." -- from "Lies My Teacher Told Me" by James Loewen
So perhaps the progression of the living to the sasha to the zamani cannot be helped, but we record here those we knew, both sasha and zamani, and leave some record of them. And if they are sashas to us, perhaps our record keeps them sashas longer as we offer our first hand accounts of them.
It bothers me that time passes, because I sense my friends and family members moving out of sight as they pass through the celestial plan, or whatever you like to call it. I am just conscious that our grip on those we know and love is constantly eroding. I think this is why I have been drawn to FindAGrave; I can't stop people from dying, but I can stop them from being forgotten, and can see the lives of people other contributors feel the same about, those they don't want to shift out of focus as time clouds memories and people who knew others pass on. Here, at least, we can freeze them in time and recount all that made them good or special.
Your visits to my loved ones mean a lot to me. They mean my folks here are not forgotten, and honor people I really loved or respected or took the time to research, so thank you. I enjoy honoring people remembered on Find a Grave, and do take the time to read bio info on memorials. I appreciate knowing about the people other folks want remembered.
Every memorial entered here has been done with respect and good intent, in the hopes dear ones will not be forgotten. Any concerns, additions and so on are most welcome here on this page.
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It's been a while, hope you are well, I haven't been on here for a while, I've only had the chance to check on my memorials over the past while and haven't had the chance to properly message people.
|Linda Weir||James Weir passenger/immigration|
It has been many yrs since my Weir research and forgot that I had this info within my research folder on my MAC. James birth at 1823 would put him age 10 on this ship.
New York, 1820-1850 Passenger and Immigration Lists Record about James Weir
Name: James Weir
Arrival Date: Jun 24, 1833
Port of Arrival: New York
Port of Departure: Greenock
Place of Origin: Scotland
Destination: United States of America
Ship: Brig Dalmarnock
Microfilm Serial Number: M237
Microfilm Roll Number: 20
List Number: 440
I can send you her 1920 death certificate if you don't already have it. :)
All yours, and I'm sorry for your loss.
|Jersey Meg||RE: Thanks and a question|
The info on Susannah (Custard) Place comes from the records of the Walpeck DRC.
It notes (on page 56 of my reprint) that on June 28, 1807 parents William Custard and Elizabeth Van Campen baptised Susannah, who was born on 12 Jan, 1805. (On the same date they also baptised Sarah, born 18 Feb, 1807.)
You are so welcome! My "story" is both sad and happy, as most Adoption situations seem to be! I now know my Grandson and Great Granddaughter, but sadly, not my daughter. I read all of your postings about your interesting families. You are a very good writer, and I "felt" every moment with you! Happy Mother's Day to you as well! Janet.
|J Martin||RE: My mistake, hope we can fix nicely|
Hi, No problem
Sorry for the delay, I just had a pacemaker installed so I have been offline a while.
I transferred Percival Sr. info to my file, but you also duplicated his wife Agnes Louise Kern Fenstermacher Memorial# 99613899. My memorial is: # 87369883 for her - same info is in both.
May wish to alter their son Roberts mother link before clearing out Memorial# 99613899 as it sometimes locks in limbo.
Mistakes happy, no worries. Thanks JMartin
Added by J Martin on Apr 30, 2015 10:26 PM
|Erin M. Schaeffer||Vivian Holderman|
The same goes for T.W. Holderman's wife, Vivian. Thanks!
|Erin M. Schaeffer||Theodore William Holderman|
Hi, I just added the headstone for T.W. Holderman and hoped you could update with the location of his burial, which is at Meyer Cemetery in Bellefonte, PA (Centre County). Thanks!
|bluebell||A Question About Morris Ettinger|
Yes, isn't that a completely wonderful photo? I love it. I have left you a note on the edit tab of one of the Ettinger memorials you manage. That note contains my email address. Would you mind sending me an email and I will happily tell you everything I know about this man. Thanks for writing.---bluebell
Added by bluebell on Apr 24, 2015 6:07 PM
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