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Barbarella (#46901895)
 member for 14 years, 8 months, 2 days
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Bio Photo I am a divorced 38 year old mother of 2 great boys-Trent (20) & Brett (16), and sister of Adam & Danielle. Shortly after Adam died I was searching the internet for other people who have lost loved ones due to alcohol overdose and I found Find A Grave by accident. Find A Grave has been a great way for me celebrate my loved one's lives and it has been the outlet for me to express my feelings. Adam was a great person who could make any one smile or laugh in a second. His life was cut short and was a great tragedy in our family, no one expected his death. He was with friends, out having a good time and had too much to drink. He was later found passed out and dying of alcohol poisoning. There was nothing that could be done, his organs were shutting down. I wish I could go back and change that night, but I know I can't and no matter how much it hurts I know God has his reasons for what happened. Perhaps you aren't ready yet to have to say goodbye. Perhaps you've thought of things you wish you'd said. Well so have I. For one thing, I have told you not to worry about me. I'm with the Lord in Heaven now; you knew that's where I'd be. I'm sorry that you're feeling sad, for I am so happy now…I've asked the Lord to ease the hurt and comfort you somehow. It's hard in the beginning, but I know you'll make it through. I hope it helps to know that I'll be waiting here for you.**I have only the best intentions when making someone a memorial and if you are a family member that wants a memorial transferred to you/or deleted please just let me know**
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Edda Meinikat
Adam and .... our Friendship
Dearest Barabarella, I have been thinking of you in the past years, wondering how you are and what has happened .... good to see you in here, though I hardly ever come here. After my dad's passing in 2011, it has become a kind of a nightmare to visit virtual graves and leave tokens, as this is still way too painful.

Still, I have not forgotten my old friends, wondering whether you are on facebook. I am under my real name ... please please search me there and send me a note to know that it is you who sends a friend request.

Keep smiling and positive, my dear, sending you love and hugs.
Added by Edda Meinikat on Aug 05, 2016 11:53 PM
Mary C. Carpenter
Frank P. Flick
HI there,
Do you have any more info on Frank P. Flick, buried in Shell Lake, WI?
He is my boyfriend's great grandfather, and little is known about him. We know that Flick was his adopted name, and his real last name was something like "Pheneton". Perhaps that is what the P. stands for in his name on Find A Grave. We don't know how it is spelled.
Thank you so very much for sponsoring this site.
Added by Mary C. Carpenter on Jan 26, 2015 6:48 PM
Lori Farrar
Herbert Raul Santoyo
Thanks for sponsoring my dad's site. We haven't talked for along time, I hope and pray that everything is well with u and ur family. Happy New Years
Added by Lori Farrar on Jan 02, 2015 5:43 PM
GB Howard
I seen where you left a thinking about you today comment and was wondering if you were related?
Added by KC on Jun 26, 2014 11:37 AM
Please keep my family in your prayers following the loss of my uncle Franklin Rogers, who passed away yesterday from cancer. If you have time I would appreciate virtual flowers for his Find A Grave memorial 128627148. I am very blessed to have my friends on this site. Thank you,
Added by Cadmus on Apr 28, 2014 10:08 AM
Patty Sand
RE: Hi Pinterest friend.....
Happy New Year to you, I hope it the best year yet!!!!
Added by Patty Sand on Jan 01, 2014 1:18 PM
Patty Sand
RE: Hi Pinterest friend.....
I'm so glad you found me here. It is great to find people with similar interests. Merry Christmas!!! Patty

Added by Patty Sand on Dec 10, 2013 3:34 AM
Valenciaღ Asiaღ Angel of Mine💕
Nice photo Barbarella. Hope you are doing well

Valencia's mom

Added by Valenciaღ Asiaư... on Sep 30, 2013 11:52 AM
Bobby Hunt
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Thanks for having me as a friend, and maybe I'll see you at a clean-up one day. ;)
Added by Bobby Hunt on Aug 18, 2013 7:52 PM
Sarah Quinn
RE: Thanks
You are very welcome for the flower. It is always a joy. Best ever, Sarah.
Added by Sarah Quinn on Jun 25, 2013 3:46 PM
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