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JARROTT P. COX (#46518980)
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Bio Photo 10-19-2014 51678089

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Find A Grave Memorial# 56136650

Really really sick of people stealing my family photos and posting them as there own on Ancestry .
I plan to take any action that is available under the law to stop it .

If you need to contact me privately please use me dear friends Memorial Find A Grave Memorial# 71410062

Messages left below ware not meant for edits or suggestions ,for that use the edit tab on memorials .

Please understand Find A Grave memorials are works in progress . And there is no excuse for being rude and abusive .

My photographic works and photos I have posted are protected by in bedded copyright. You Must ask permission before reproducing in any form .

Quote From Jim Tipton founder of F.A.G. on updated rules after being acquired by Ancestry . com found in help with find a grave .

"It will still be wrong for someone to 'steal' a photo from Find A Grave and post it on other websites as if it were their own".

If your reporting a duplicate please add the duplicates F.A.G. number .

Please remember that F.A.G. has threads running that will eventfully merge dups. into the first created . Don't go postal over a dup.
Please do not move a burial unknown memorial into a cemetery where I already placed a memorial and tell me I have to remove my "duplicate" memorial ,this is profusely widespread now.

Please do not ask me to post a obituary that does not have a source ,it is not allowed ,and could lead to a breach of public domain .

If requesting a transfer first read that section in help with find a grave and in My bio. Other wise it will not be considered . Do not leave request on this page ,must be done the proper way to be considered .

Please do not request transfers in less You fully intend to add links and or further improve the information . If you are just collecting memorials use your virtual cemetery function . No request will be considered with out relationship being stated . I have ancestry and will check so be truthful .

Transfers should be requested by using the edit feature on memorial and leaving as a suggestion or (sac) please do not leave request on My public messaging they will not be considered . Your relationship must be stated also. No exceptions .

Despite what many claim .
Find a grave is first and foremost a grave registration site ,as stated by its founder .

I happily add links and other appropriate information if sent by the edit function on memorial.

Corrections /request should not be left as public message as there are plenty of other means now to do them . Public message's WERE NEVER MENT FOR CORRECTIONS ,SO I will not make corrections this way anymore as it is just to difficult .

Find a Grave seems to bring out the worst or the best in folks there seems to be no middle ground . For that reason it seems we all need to make a special effort to show as much respect for the living as we do for the one's who have passed on .

If it is your intent to be anything but cordial and respectful, I strongly recommend you read further in this bio. before doing so .

I hope F.A.G.soon works on punishing those who are stealing our work and photos as promised ,we work hard ,it is not fair that others get credit for our efforts. I have seen hundred if not thousands of my photos on ancestry .com and I am thinking of taking legal action .

I never profit from My photos even though I spend a great deal of time and money taking photos . And I really do not wont any person or web site to profit from them. And I do not wont My ancestors photos stolen and posted by others as though they belong to them . If I see My photo's on another Web site and My list shows no permission was obtained. I will ask them to be removed and if they are not ,I will contact the web site to have them removed .

New editing function has rolled out to all members.

I'm getting a lot of good feed back on My stance of not putting up with harassment, a lot of contributors are also fed up .Some are saying they are thinking of giving up , I think things will get better now that Ancestry. COM has acquired this site .

In till the last couple of Years ago the following statement was not necessary but unfortunately it is now.

To a select but growing few } Please be aware as a contributor on find a grave does not mean You have given up free will, no contributor is obligated to do anything . If You are making a suggestion do not turn it into a demand or try to manipulate or bully a contributor into making Your suggestion . I can't speak for others but as for Me any attempt at demanding or manipulation automatically rejects Your suggestion and further Hate mail internet bullying ,stalking , intimidation are crimes and will be reported and prosecuted if necessary . Further more after becoming aware of theses crimes the web site is obligated to take action against perpetrators of these crimes or it is also at risk of prosecution .

A person goes out and spends money on a camera flash cards ,batteries . Gasoline ,wear an tear on there vehicle not mention time, fights off snakes , mosquitoes ,ticks ,high grass and weeds , walks in the heat and cold ,mud and people cant even send them a thank You ! ,something is seriously wrong with that ,but that's what happening ,out of my last 50 or so photo request I fulfilled I got about 3 thank You notes ,and about 8 or 10 for the last 50 transfers ,and the fact that F.A.G. sends out a reminder email to suggest You say thank You , makes it even hurt more . Come on folks that is all we ask in return for transfers and photo request . I think this says a lot about what is wrong with society to day .

We all live in the shade of trees planted by those who came before us .

I am a taphophile and Genealogy Hound .

I am a taphophile because I like photographing gravestones.

I have been into cemetery Photography & Rubbings Collecting obituaries for 40 years .My experience in and love of investigation work has helped Me a great deal in My genealogical pursuits .

Genealogy begins as an interest, becomes a hobby, continues as an avocation and in the last stages, is an incurable disease.

Rude or demanding behavior will result in Your request being rejected Automatically . Expect 30 days for Your request to be considered .

Any disrespectful activities or communications will not be tolerated and will be addressed as the situation dictates .
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Genealogy Buff
Find A Memorial #141790310
Thank you for adding the obituary for Minda Sue Clay and clearing up the confusion, really appreciate your hard work.
Added by Genealogy Buff on Jan 29, 2015 10:53 AM
Added by Janet on Jan 28, 2015 1:06 PM
Genealogy Buff
Minda Sue Clay #141790310
Thank you so much for checking out these two cemeteries. I must say it is a real mess and very confusing to say the least. I am so glad you alerted me about this situation. I am sorry to say I have no idea who is buried next to Minda Sue Clay. I was thinking that Amoret is located in Bates County, MO?

Thank you for giving me permission to use your photos, but is it okay to put your photos on my personal Tribal Pages website and Ancestry account. I fully understand about photos being stolen and not giving us people the credit where credit is due. I have been burned many occasions and it isn't very nice for us folks like you doing so much work. Truly your work is so appreciated by folks like me that are not able to get out due to health problems.
Added by Genealogy Buff on Jan 28, 2015 9:25 AM
Genealogy Buff
Minda Sue Clay #141790310
Thank you so much for indicating the wrong cemetery information. I see where that could cause a lot of confusion. Not sure how to get Find A Grave and Ancestry to update their records. Thank you again for all your help, really appreciate all that you do. Do you mind if I could use your photos of the correct cemetery and grave marker? I would definitely give you credit for your work.

Genealogy Buff #47292298
Added by Genealogy Buff on Jan 27, 2015 11:10 PM
I have a lot of edits that nothings been done.
Can you DELETE them?
Added by Janet on Jan 27, 2015 8:50 PM
Carl Steiger
RE: Salem and Carbon Center Cemeteries
No, but I know several Jennings around Rich Hill.

I have traced the local Jennings family back to 1841 in Butler, MO....174 years. And now they have a boy due in May so the Jennings name will live on in Bates county.

Carl Steiger
Added by Carl Steiger on Jan 27, 2015 7:47 PM
Carl Steiger
Salem and Carbon Center Cemeteries
Thanks for all you have done to get the memorials up to date in Salem and Carbon Center cemeteries in Bates county, Missouri.

I think we got most of the Trammell family in Carbon Center. Now working on the Jennings family at Salem cemetery. Both families are neighbors of mine.

Thanks again,

Carl Steiger
Added by Carl Steiger on Jan 27, 2015 7:13 AM
THANK YOU for responding & answering my ?.
I don't need any help on my research. Just
trying to put everything I have on Find A Grave when
I have time. I have just run into kinfolk
that I didn't have (markers).
Thanks again for replying.
Added by Janet on Jan 26, 2015 2:21 PM
RE: Wayne Jewell
I don't know who Beulah is. I'm presuming she is a 2nd wife, but I haven't found a marriage record.
Added by mommycita on Jan 25, 2015 6:37 PM
Willa Wiley
Mary Artz Ashbaugh
Thank you for the correction Jarrott. I have adjusted her memorial.

Added by Willa Wiley on Jan 21, 2015 5:03 PM
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