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Barb J "John 3:16" (#46619619)
 member for 10 years, 2 months, 29 days
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Bio Photo My name is Barbara, I am married to John and we have lived in southeast Kansas, most of our lives.

We have been married for 42 years, have three children, two biological, Shane and Shana, and Jeff, that we adopted when he was 16, and 10 grandchildren.

We believe in GOD, believe in The power of Prayer, and believe that there are Angels among us here on earth.

I discovered this site while looking for relatives, and could find none. I hope that the entries that I have made help someone else find the loved ones that they are looking for. I have tried to add as much information as I can so that anyone looking for a loved one can make the connections. However, I am human and do make mistakes, so if you come across one, please let me know.

I love leaving flowers, especially on the entries that have no flowers at all. I believe everyone deserves flowers. I don't do it for the recognition or the count, I do it out of respect for those who have passed on and their loved ones. I would love to see flowers on every entry on this site.

If anyone should want me to remove or transfer one of their family members that I have entered, please contact me and I would be glad to do so.

I have met so many wonderful people through this site and also some distant family members that I was thrilled to meet.

THANK YOU to all who have left flowers for our family and friends. They are so appreciated.

Also a SPECIAL THANK YOU to those who have sponsored any of our memorials. You are very special people.


I lost a very special friend yesterday evening. Patricia Elaine "Trish" Holaway passed away. She was one of the first friends that I made when I first started on this sight. We were friends and "Flower Buddies". I am going to miss her very much. Please leave flowers for her, as she was such a flower giver. Thank You.


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terry mathews
please get ahold of me
my Name is TERRI Mathews iam Eugene Garica Daughter trying to find somthing about my self i no CATHY AND JOICE WE TALK I LIVE IN BENTONVILLE AR PLEASE GET AHOLD OF ME PLEASE'''I AlSO NEW MY OTHER SISTERS BEFORE THERE PASSING!
Added by terry mathews on Aug 23, 2014 5:14 PM
Breadlady45 from Chicago
Hi Barb

Thank you so much for always praying with me.

I appreciate you and your prayers very much

Love and Hugs
Added by Breadlady45 from Chicago on Aug 18, 2014 2:18 AM
Breadlady45 from Chicago
Hi Barb, friend

Thank you so much for your prayers.

Love and Hugs

PS I will send an e-mail re: my surgery.

Added by Breadlady45 from Chicago on Jul 14, 2014 5:45 PM
Jan Stark
Thank You
Barb, thank you for all your time and effort doing this work.. I have searched for this baby for years... and tonight I found him because of you & your timeless work... he's the baby brother of my dad...the first baby of my grandparents.
Thank you, Thank you.. God bless you in all you do. Jan Stark
Added by Jan Stark on Jul 10, 2014 7:42 PM
Froggie Lynne
RE: Praying
Thank you
Added by Froggie Lynne on Jun 14, 2014 3:15 PM
Rest in God
Thank you
It brings so much comfort to see the garden of beautiful flowers grow for Danielle. I cannot tell you how difficult this has been to bury such a precious genuinely beautiful human being as Danielle. Words are inadequate for the grief her loss leaves her family and friends with. Your flower brings comfort and Caitriona is going to draw strength in her loss from the love and comfort of all our Find A Grave family. Thank you so much.
Added by Rest in God on Jun 08, 2014 7:55 PM
ralph bain
Bain family
Barb thank you so much. For all the hard work you guys do. Barb I have a Question ? Earenest Bain 1891- 1966. wessley Bain his son. The Mortuary tell me they put them in Spring Hill cem.? They are not listed ? Could you please help me, They are my cousins, Ralph Bain
Added by ralph bain on May 21, 2014 5:43 PM
RE: Thank you!
You are very welcome. It was a pleasure to visit your sweet mom. Rosie
Added by Rosie♥Mooch on May 19, 2014 12:17 PM
May you be blessed with love & flowers-Phyllis
Dream Message
I notice that you were talking about a dream message and it seemed so real. When my husband passed away my husband left me a message thru my sons buddy brother who was only 8 yrs. old at the time and he did not know my husband died on the job at Fords. His message to me "how he did not get a chance to say goodbye, and how much he loved me and our son." I had followup dreams and if you know who know John Edward there is a difference between a dream and a visit. Yes you were probably visited your mother. I had visited from my husband where he would tell me to go pick him up at a corner of 15Mile and Gratiot. I laughed about this , but when I was talking about this to my husbands brother, we just laughed about my dream. But I could not get over in my dream he specified the area. I ended up getting a map and checking the area, which I or my husband WOULD NOT KNOW OF. Well, it turned out with the cross streets he gave me, were 5 names all related to my husband. They were the cemetery buried in, mothers maiden name, his brothers daughter married name, and my husbands and his son name of Mack. So there were 5 names that all related to him. I even had a little bird knick nac taked off the shelf and put on the back of couch and even a picture taken off the wall. It was so strange that I had to take picture of it so I could show people. I had so many things that happened to me, I had to keep a journal. I know why this happened to me, cause it was so suden. He goes to work and died of heart attack on the job. This visits were so comforting to me. I do not have them any more but I had them for the first several yrs. Don't let people tell you are nuts, cause the dead can visit you. What I found out there is a difference between a dream which is so fuzzy and unclear, and a visit which is like you are face to face with them. Love is eternal.
Added by May you be blessed with... on May 19, 2014 10:53 AM
Breadlady45 from Chicago
Your Beautiful Sweet Mother
Dear Barb

I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

May your sweet memories be your consolation.
Love and Hugs
Added by Breadlady45 from Chicago on May 18, 2014 8:27 AM
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